Question Posted Thursday September 29 2005, 11:59 pm
this guy we have been together kinda for about
a month .. he is almost 21 and im 16. over this
month he has been showing he loves me and he
misses me (hes in the navy on base right now)
but since last weekend when he had to come back
for court (long story with my ex and him) well
we hung out and did shit .. and now he hasnt
been keeping in touch .. i try to call him he
never answers .. i leave a message he never
replies .. i talk to him online sometimes but he
says its just that hes exhausted and stuff from
work and shit .. but see that didnt stop him b4
you know .. its just not the same and i want
to know how to fix it .. like he also says
that it hurt him that i used to tell him that
i thought he was using me and that he hated
me or some shit like that .. but i mean idk
Boys please help me out on what to do about
this situation .. thanks -Nikky Alese-
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cipher answered Saturday October 1 2005, 6:01 pm: I really hate to break it to you, but the guy might just be a <censored>. You said he kept making execuses whenever you tried to talk to him? Tell him that you need to have a serious conversation with him and then list out all your problems. If he really is just a <censored>, then I'm terribly sorry. You seem like a nice person, so I don't know why he would do that, but some guys just act stupid. Maybe he really is exhuasted from the Navy. He probably is just going through a phase. I'm sure that sooner or later he will get over it and come back to you and say he's sorry for not talking and whatnot. Good Luck!
On the other hand, he's 21! You're still a minor and that is against the law. If he does try to do anything to you, it's considered a crime if you don't want it to happen. [ Cipher's advice column | Ask Cipher A Question ]
Mckick answered Friday September 30 2005, 6:28 pm: Nikky
Ther's probably nothing you can do. But I think that you should give his a little space and see what happens. He probably is tried from working and he is a little other then you. Just give him a little space and He might start to call you and miss you if you don't call or email him. See if that works. [ Mckick's advice column | Ask Mckick A Question ]
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