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he is away for a long time :'(
i have a bf who has gone threw a lot with me
and we have been together for 1 1/2 years ..
he meanse everything to me .. he has hit me
in the past and he tried to kill me .. everyone
thinks i should just get over him but i can`t
i love him .. i was gonna have his baby last year
but shit happend with my mom so i had to get
an abortion :-/ . he has also liked this girl
behind my back and hes been lying about it ever
since .. but now he says that he misses me
and everything .. i don`t know what to do ..
i miss him so much .. he just got outa jail
for something big :-/ trying to run me and
my boii off the road but he just needs help.
please help me thank you -Nikky-
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YOU need to get help. You're trapped in an abusive relationship. It doesn't make sense to other people, but you love him even though he's cruel to you. If you can, get out of it as fast and as clean as you can. If you can't, I'd recommend going to a phsyciatrist or something to help yourself.
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OMG!!!!! GIIIRl I am sorry but you gotta kick him to the curb and get over him!!!!!! if a boy EVER HITS YOU dont ever go crawling back to him and stand up for your self going back to him after he tries to kill you makes you look like the biggest loser and probably end up dead giiirl if i were you I wouldve been over with him the first time he ever layed one hand on you!!!! I am sorry but that is sad and you really should leaves him be this guy is not the one for , rember!!!! there R PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA try looking for a guy that has money and is a gentlman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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wow , You don't need a guy like that the rest of your life , and you deserve ALOT better. I mean He tried to kill you ? honestly i would not waste my time on someone who doesn't like you as much as you like them. Your life would not go far with someone who just got out of jail , because who knows he could just do the same thing all over again. & trust me if he went behind your back once he will do it again. Maybe it was a good thing you got an abortion in this situation because i wouldnt think he would be there for you to take care of it anyways , i say forget hiim no matter how much you like him , you can find alot better guys out there. <3
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Are you serious?
1. He physically hurts you
2. He emotionally hurts you
3. He tried to KILL you
4. He got you pregnant
5. He pretty much cheated on you
6. He got criminally prosecuted for trying to KILL YOU AGAIN
For the love of god, STAY AWAY FROM HIM!
Seriously. Don't care for people who dont care for you or have any respect for you and your feelings. You'll be much happier.
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This guy is a loser...he thinks it's okay to hit girls? He isn't worth it.
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Girl! You need to get rid of this guy... NO GIRL DESERVES TO BE HIT BY A GUY! Trust me! I've been through it.. I know exactly what you are going through... I know you love him.. And I know you think he loves you! But wake up! If hes lying to you... likes another girl... Thats not love! He is playing with your emotions and that is wrong! I was the same way with my ex... But You've got to get over this guy... You cannot be hung up on someone who never loved you to begin with... And from the sounds of it... this is your situation. There are plenty of guys out there looking for a girl to love.. comfort... cherish... Not beat up on.. to be a normal boyfriend... you seem like a sweet girl.... GO out and find yourself someone worth being with.. Not someone who has to beat up on a girl to make himself feel better...
Sorry if this was a little harsh... But.. It's Reality..
*Jackie*
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Oh my God. Are you insane? No, seriously, are you? This bitch tries to run you over and you think he needs HELP? >.>. He needs a mental institution, more like it. Look, I think you need to let go of the feelings you have for him. Girls have this thing where they fall for 'bad boiz' because they think they can 'fix them' and all that dramatic shit - so I think you should give up on him because he is beyond help. Its not a healthy relationship - you think you love him, but you dont. Once you break it off, believe me, you'll find that you're more at peace.
More so, what is love to you? Is it a guy that hits you and lies to you, and hell, tries to fucking KILL YOU?! Someone who loves would never, ever do those things to you...rather try to ward you away from him. Everyone deserves someone who is going to CARE about them, not try to demolish them! I think the sooner you get out of this the easier it'll be for you. I personally think you might be afraid of him too. And when all the people you know and care about you, your friends and family, say that you should get the hell away from him, they're right, because they care.
Good luck. Make the right choice.
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Hi There. I think that maybe you should start by letting one of your girlfriends read the question you just asked aloud to you. I want you to hear the kind of description you're giving for your boyfriend and relationship and consider who in their right mind would tell you to stay with this guy? All I could see is negative after negative. This is not coming from some he-said-she-said jerry springer drama. It came straight from the source... YOU.
There's a very difficult lesson I learned as a teenage girl. When everyone who surrounds you and cares about you... your family, your friends... when they ALL have the SAME THING to say about the guy you are dating... they are RIGHT.
Good Luck...
Anne Nonimous
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He sounds like a real keeper, you should marry him.
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