There is this boy on my bus named Joey and I have had a crush on for a good while. He usually sits with me and is always flirting with me but will not ask me out. He tells me that he likes me and everything but there is only one problem. EVERYONE on our bus hates him. This boy that I have known scence I was five wants to fight him and everyone is tryin to get me to choose sides. Some people are even tryin to get me and him NOT to go out... I have told him that I like him and yesterday even wrote I love Joey on my hand but he still just wont ask me out... What should I do?
Luv Alwz,
Ashley
hoji answered Friday September 30 2005, 7:45 pm: maybe he knows how much everybody hates him, and he don't want to get you involved in his mess?
if you ask me, ask him out (welcome to the 21st century, plus it don't have to be a date date), or at least "casually" ask him why he hasn't asked you out yet.
by the sound of it, you don't mind that everybody hates him. i like people who are willing to make up their own minds about things.
people should grow up and respect your views. they are allowed to tell you how they feel but they can't (and you should not allow them) to decide for you.
Don't choose any sides, when somebody behaves fuckedup then tell them what you choose and, if you want to, why (you don't have to explain yourself to anybody).
Curry09 answered Friday September 30 2005, 6:42 pm: You should make the first move, if you know he likes you then your probably wont get rejected. Maybe he wont ask you out because he thinks that if no one else likes him then why would you? and if you do go out with him and other people try to break you two up just ignore them,dont break up with him because no one else likes him.
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Mckick answered Friday September 30 2005, 6:20 pm: Dear Ahley,
If you like him make the first move and ash him out. Don't worry about what other people say. There just jeoulous that's all. Just forget about them and ask him. It doesn't matter what the other people say. If you and this ohter guy like each other that's all that matters> [ Mckick's advice column | Ask Mckick A Question ]
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