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The name's Emily.
First off- thanks for actually reading this!
I love to give advice
I will always try to anwser your questions.
But try to not to rite lk dis
I know my favorite topics says "Love life, nutrition, and friendship", but I'm intrested in tons of stuff. ASK!
I don't care about rating..so be warned...I'm not necessarily always going to give you the anwser that you want to hear. But I do want to help you!
And I would tell you more, but that's not whats important here: let me help you!

peace.

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heyy! soo i was wondering which would kill my hair less..like not giving it more split ends and making it unhealthy?! putting gel in it..as in scrunching it lol or straightening it? because i either have to do one of those each day and im TRYING to keep my hair as healthy as possible..because it just doesnt seem to grow and i am tryin to get it long! well thanks :]
i will rate anyone who answers 5!

It's actually good if you only wash you're hair every other day. Sometimes you can't, but it really helps irritate your hair less. I don't think the gels really hurt you're hair though. I think it would be better if you use a gel that either helps it dry straight or curly, and avoid over- using blow dryers, diffusers, and straightners (even if you still use them a little) hope I helped!

what do i do if i am going to first term this year and need to tell you!?!?!

LAUREN TENNET!!!

OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS???? YESSSSSSSSSSSSS OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH GIRL---CAN'T WAIT FOR CAMP!!!!!!

xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

hey i was wondering how i rate you, you do an osm job wiht this whole advice thing and me and obviously other people seem to love your advice too!
-need2kno

I think you have to join the site to rate me. then when you ask questions you'll get you're anwsers when you log in and you can rate my advice. thanks!

My friend is always busy or hanging out with someone else. Its so frustrating because i try and try to invite her over but 9 out of 10 times she is busy.What should i do.

Well it dosen't look like to me that's she's leaving you out..she's just busy..right? Well, you're friend can't stop her social life and other duties just for one person. (and I don't mean that in a mean way...it's just the truth) I'd suggest not depending on just one friend, but don't stop hanging with her either. Also, it would help if you ask in advance, and don't call on THE day you want to do something. ~

When do i get my answer

right...NOW!

omg my dad wore spandex in public and now i can't show my face in public b/c it was infrom of every one and we was wearing the ones that go all the way down to your ankle and he was treating them like regular pants

help me!

Well....thats sucks.....but how can I give you advice? Just move to Egypt or something...lol

ok so im 14/f and about 5 or 6 months ago i went out with this guy...whos a grade above mine. He wasn't very good looking but he was super nice. But i kept getting this feeling that he was trouble or sumthing and was really clingy. So about 2 weeks after he asked me out i broke up with him. then he starts hanging aorund this other girl as friends...but then i find out that they were going out about a week after i broke up with him. I new he was a player cause after those 2 broke up he was at another girl. But every time im around him i feel like i have to be almost showing off...but not quite. I also start sweating in my pits. I can't fiqure out i fi still like him or not. I just don't get why i get sweaty. It doesnt make since. Do u have any idea wts going on with me or how i cant prevent it. I know for a fact i dont li'ke him. but idk wts up with me!!!!
plz help!!!

You are probaly just annoyed that he's a player, and even though you don't like him, you want him to regret not being with you anyway. It's human nature. Next time you start getting nervous, just remind yourself of why you don't like him. (I'm not saying be mean to the guy,just don't let him bring you down) But don't worry about how you're feeling.....it would be weirder if you weren't a little uncomfortable around him.

howd you get the cool background??

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I have liked a boy in my maths set for ages, but he doesnt even know I am alive. Me and a good mate joke around he calls me his little goth even though I am not one...this boy aloneg with some of the others in the class have started calling me thier little baby goth as well...at first I thought he realised how I felt by the sweet way he acts with me but he doesnt. He just says hey baby G and leaves me alone. My friend asked me if I wanted to go shopping with him tomorrow and that the guy I liked was going to be there...I havent answered yet, should I go and get to know him better or go like him even more and face rejection? (I know he likes someone else) PLEASE HELP I AM SO STUCK!!!

I would defientaly go and get to know him better. Try to become good friends..he won't like that other person forever..and if he feels comfortable with you then he might go out with you then!

how do i get bigger love handles?

Um..that's fat around your hips.

you WANT that?

eat a lot of candy...?

I made the main role of Sandy in the play grease i am doing in theater, and there is this girl who really wanted to make the part but she didn't. So now she has been talking about me in her other classes! I'm sorry she didn't make the part. She would have been a really good Sandy, but I didn't do anything to her, and now she will barely talk to me. What should I do?

-Sandra Dee ;)

Tell her that!! I dunno if in person or in a note, but tell her just what you said. Like, say you're sorry she diden't make the part, because she would have been good too, but you don't wanna be enemies. Don't apologize for making the part..just be nice about it. After you talk to her, if she still acts that way, ignore it..her problem (you tried!) haha ly

I've been losing alot of hair lately, mainly when I take a shower/bath there is a large amount of hair on top of the drain and when ever I run my hand though my hair there is always a few strands.
so I was wondering if its because of bad nutrition, dying my hair, or from straighting it.
I've died my hair many times before just this time its black. So maybe I'm just seeing all the hair now because its black and not the light brown it was before.
I'm vegan so I know I don't get enough calcium or protein ( I take a multivitamin for everything else ).
So could my hair loss be because of either those three things or some other reason?

It's probaly from a little bit of all three. Bad nutrition defientaly, and anything unnatural thing you do to your hair can weaken it (straighting, dying...)I straighten my hair so i know that messes it up. I'd suggest Garnier Fructis Long&Strong conditioner. I haven't been using it very long and already my hair feels thicker n stronger.

What are some good love songs of the classic rock genre?

thanks!
xoxo

Somebody to Love by Queen!

15/f

Well..I'm not gunna say ignore you're friends completley, but if they don't have a good reason for you not to date him..and you guys like each other..then go for it.

Okay so im really upset right now. This friend of mine (who i like oh so very much) totally blew me off today. But last Friday he acted like he really liked me. I really dont understand what in the hell is going on and it bugs me so much because i think something is wrong with me and that's why he doesnt like me...i want to know exactly how he feels about me because it is so fricken confusing...should i just ask him straight up? and if i should...then how on earth do i get him alone long enough to talk to him about it...i mean the only time i see him is during our 4th period when she lets us talk...i dont want to ask him infront of everyone cuz i dont want to put him on the spot like that...but then again wouldn't asking him in general put him on the spot? I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!! PLEASE please please help me...I'm desperate.

PS. anyone who answers will most likely get more questions about this sent to their inbox...just a heads up :/

Guys are like that..really unpredictible. If he sometimes acts like he likes you and sometimes ignores you..it could be that he's trying to figure out what his feelings are for you. Be patient. If things don't change, then write him a note or ask him to meet you somewhere private so you can ask him what the deal is.

I'm 15, female, and I have a terrible sweating problem. No matter what the temperature, how many layers I have on, my under arms will constantly sweat. I have very sensitive skin, and I can develop allergies to most things heavily scented.

Is there any good deoderant I can use to help my problem?

haha i just anwsered this same question a while ago. There is some stuff called Certian-Dri that you can get at most drugstores. You apply it at night and it really helpes to prevent exessive sweating. make sure you read the instructions though!

Okay so i've got a BIGGG habit of biting my nails! what can i do to stop? and don't tell me to put my hand in dog poo or anything like that because thats gross lol!

thankyou sweeties xo

Paint you're nails or get them done with something really pretty, like a french manicure or a flower design. Mabye you won't want to bite them if they look pretty. I've also heard of a type of nail polish that makes the nails taste nasty when you bite them, so you don't want to do it. Hope I helped!

15/F

I wanna loose some weight. Like 10-15 pounds. I just need a good way to get started. What are some good exercises? How long do you think it will take?

oh and i have a tredmill if that helps.

I would defientaly do some running, but you want to mix it up. Try going to the gym and do some weights. (just having muscle on ur body instead of fat burn calories every day) Also, pilaties is a great way to slim down and get more flexible. A lot of people don't think it's good because you're not exausted, but trust me, it works! I'd suggest the beginner's video, Pilaties For Dummies. It's good to rotate what you do as well. Run one day, do weights another..etc. Also, try to have one day of rest, because that helps you get stronger too.

Okay, I had a cellphone but then my parents didnt let me pay for it no more because I did something totally wrong and they found out. Now I want to get my cellphone back but they keep on saying no because I might go and do it again. What can I do so that they can trust me again and I can get my cellphone back?

Don't constantly ask them for it, pretend you don't care. Act responsible..and eventually you'll get it back. Of you can miss dinner or something..and when they question you say, "Well I diden't know it was time for dinner..I don't have a cell phone!"

My friend is always complaining about her figure and looks and it annoys me because she is one of those girls who have perfect looks skin and figure. I am overweight, not the best looking girl with bad skin and am seriosuly over my age height. I want to make her feel good about herself but she never does and everytime she starts it makes me feel bad about myself. I want her to feel better but when I reassure her she doesnt believe me. I know its wrong but I am scared I will end up like her. I used to like myself but now I have started feeling really depressed about it. Any advice on shutting her up and getting myself back how I was before? I hate the NEW me

Tell you're friend to calm down..it's not healthy to think like that! Sometimes people do that just to get attention, or to hear others say that they're pretty. So next time she starts..don't react. Don't reassure her..just change the subject. If she questions you..tell her that it's not fun for you to listen to her complain about herself constantly. And don't let it make you feel bad. When she acts like that it shows her insecurity, not yours!

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