My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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Long story short: I got kicked out of my house for a lip piercing in April. A week later, my mom begged me to move back in. I asked her if I would be able to come and go as I please because I'm 18 now. She said yes, so I moved back in.
Now, in July, she has made so many rules that go against what we agreed. I can't leave the house past 11:00pm, I have to be home by 1:00am, and I can only stay the night at someone's house once a week.
I'm not taking any classes and I can't work (don't ask why, I just can't), so it's not like I have to wake up early for anything. I'm not involved in drugs or sex and she knows that. She just went against everything we agreed on.
What do I do? My friends are tired of leaving clubs early to take me home. And I want to spend the night at people's houses. (link)
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I would talk to her. i would remind her of what you two agreed of, and i would also tell her, her terms are way to tied down. Work out some sort of agreement that you two can work out easily. Also remind her that you are 18 years old and can move back out again.
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13/f
my parents got a divorce when i was like 2 years old and when i was 4 they where both married again. so ive always been close with everyone even my stepparents. my dad has 4 kids and my mom two
i live in florida with my mom, and my dad live in louisiana with his other 3 kids.
ive always been a daddys little girl, but once i started to mature which was in like 5th grade, (now im in 9th) ive been slowly loosing our reltionship. i havnt been able to see him as much as i used to because of the sports im in, but of course i make an effort to see him.
i think he thinks im growing up too fast, or something like that but,
i dont want him to feel like im loving him any less, nad i dont want to feel that way about him either. but somehow its happening!
can anyone give me advice to keep our relationship going? (link)
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If i was in your possession, i would send letters, call him at least one a week and really make an effort to get the message a crosed. E-mail, text, things like that. And see if you can get practice schedules and things like that earlier so you can arrange to see him with in that time that is perfect for you both.
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I'm 13 and my boyfriend is a year older. he's broken up with me twice before, and he keeps saying he'll never do it again. Should i believe him? (link)
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He did it twice already so the odds are pretty good that he'll do it again. But if you love him, and want to see if he's lieing and if your meant to be, go out with him again, but tell him that this is his last chance and if he does it again, that it your done. just remember all the things that sound like your mom would say, there's a lot of fish in the sea, stars in the sky and if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. Don't let this guy hold you back and stop you from getting another relationship if it don't work out. hang in there you'll find someone that you can be happy with the rest of your life, he'll come around sooner or later.
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why do people lie? (link)
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people lie because they are either bored of the truth, scared of it or don't want it to hurt people.
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what should i do for my 14th birthday? (link)
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Hire a Dj since it's summer have him set up out side your house or somewhere special. than invite your friends. This is a grown up and fun party idea.
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18/M. I apologize that this is a long question. I needed your help trying to figure something out. I was going to the mall to pick my g.f. up when she got off work, and I'd just ran into my ex. My ex had returned the pictures in this wallet size picture carrier from when we was together to me, but I didn't realize that she had a picture of our son, whom we put up for adoption in there. When I got to the mall, I had to use the restroom, and was walking down this long hallway to the restrooms when I checked to see what time it was. When I pulled my cell phone out of my pocket, the pictures my ex had given me tumbled out, and the woman behind me picked them up and said "Sir, you dropped these." Since I didn't realize my son's picture was in there, I said "Oh, that's my ex. My g.f. is probably going to make me get rid of those any ways." b/c, well, my current g.f. is usually the jealous type. Since there wasn't a trash can nearby, I saw the woman with the picture carrier in her hand as she went into the women's room and I went into the men's.
Right after I went in where my g.f worked, I thought about that the pic of my son was in there, and that's irreplaceable b/c the couple who adopted our son only gave us one the only time we saw them after my ex gave birth, and we don't know where they are now. I told my g.f about what had happened, and she and a female janitor went through all the trash in the women's room and didn't find it. They weren't in the mall lost and found either. We checked the mall to find the girl, and we couldn't catch her to ask her before she left.
Do you have any idea what she could've done that the pictures wouldn't have been in the trash? I know that I am basically screwed on ever getting that picture back. Why I'm asking is this is that not being able to figure out anything about what might have happened to my son's picture is really, really, really bothering me, so any ideas you have would be appreciated! Thanks! (link)
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So women expecily older get lost in though and love pictures. so i would say it sounds to me like she carried them off, or maybe she flushed them down the toilet. Never know, but i would say she carried them off. Check the trash cans through out the mall she could of threw them away there. i would say it does seen odd for a women or anyone to not threw them away in the bath room if anything. If you want another picture of your son you can see if your Ex has extra pics so you can photo copy one.
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i have a crush on this guy i have known him since second grade but he only gives me a hug when his freinds are around to tease me like he even said to his freind she always wants to hug me and he said watch and i try to ignore him when he says hi to me but i can't i like him too much.
from,
do not know what i am doing wrong. (link)
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Dear do not know what your doing wrong,
i think you should just grade some down time with him you know? like invite him to a swimming party or small get togethr at a friends our your house. talk to him and see if he will hug you way from his friends.
Get your friend to ask him if he likes anyone. tell her not to be to avooious that you like him. when he tells he get her to say (let's say your name's Allie,) Allie's not on that list? Than she can ask why and so fourth.
than when you know why you can work on the errors and other things. try hanging out with him, talking to him, and when it all falls down to it, tell him how you feel.
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does anyone knw any GOOD workout moves...or like exercisses that will help with your weight??? ANYTHING will help please!!?!?!
thankz in advance
-cuttechick24
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try placing a ball under your lower back. (the small rubber balls that a little brother or sister would get at a store) than do sit up on it. this allows you to go forward and backwards and increases the results of the workout.
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My mom wants me to be a total conformist and I flat-out refuse, but she yells at me because I don't wear make-up or spend years on my hair or dumb myself down for boys. Then she yells at me for not doing my schoolwork and stuff that just contradicts everything she said 5 minutes ago she wants me to do. I usually have really good control over my temper but she simply will not allow me to remain calm when we argue, so I yell at her (she's the only person I've ever had to yell at in my entire life) and she smacks me! Do you see a way out of my predicament, because I don't. 15/f (link)
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maybe if you get a boyfriend she'll clam down. or get maybe a friend that is a boy and bring him to your house to show her. let her think what she wants about him. the boy could be the answer to all your problems. also put on a tiny bit of make up. let her see you doing your hair. do your homework and everything eles she wants to see. you don't have to spend years on your hair or wear ten tons of make up just try to let her see it being done. than when she leaves or isn't watching you can continue doing the things you want to do.
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my friend and i have been best friends for ever,but shes gettting on my nerves. she is so annoying all she does is talk about guys. theres even a i hate:blank club all my other friends hate her what do i do i dont want to hurt her and i dont wanna gove up are relationship tottaly i just want space...kinda for awhile ??? (link)
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try asking her to talk about something else for a while, like maybe school or any other subject. when she starts again change the subject. try avoiding her down the halls or don't answer the phone when she calls let it go to message, try hanging out with some other friends. you could also try just maybe going out with a few but not all of your friends. So she'll feel like it was only a small group and lot of people didn't go.
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15/f/usa
ive had a diet going and a really good one too, i was getting my stomach smaller and i was lookin really good and dropped about 7lbs...well...i took a dive and have been off of it for like 2 or 3 weeks..and i keep tellinf myself i will keep getting back on it..but i can't! And im so disapointed in myself because i really want to lose weight and look good and wear a bikini on vacation...which in two weeks!! im just so mad at myself!!! anyways of helping me get back into the groove?????!!! and anyways of losing a lil bit of weight faster??? thanks!! i weigh around 165, 5'5 (link)
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Maybe you should do more than diet. you should excerise go for long walks and eat half of what you want to. getting started is the hardest part. what you need to do is wake up one morning and tell your self you're going to do it. warn everybody in your house so they won't try to persuade you other wise. if you eat vegetables and salads you won't actually be gaining weight, it's all water. For getting started again you need to mark it on your ca lander, number down the days to your vacation. Think of what got you on your first diet in the first place. was it the vacation? or the binki? work on it even when you don't feel like it or want to. put it into your mind that you have to do it.
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hi . im 13 years old . and ima girl if you dont know . soo i like this guy .. :) and i want him to notice me and i have him on myspace as a friend and i wanna comment him but i think that would be a little strange because he dosent know me but he dose know my friend and she said she would hook me up with him and i wanna get to be friendly with him without being a wierdo (lmao) . so anways how do i approche him ? (link)
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I think you should get your friend to invite him to a party, get together, ect. And then at this party she can introduce you and you two can talk and get to know each other. this will make it not so strange to comment on his my space. Also chat with on myspace, evertime there is a party hang out with him, let him get to know you. If things don't go awywhere beside "Friends" in like maybe a couple weeks or so, than go ahead and ask him out. Or before you do that you can get your friend to ask him if he likes ect.
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My family has molested me, beaten me, vandalised my property and homes, told lies to my bosses and co-workers, had me fired numerous times. And I'm the bad family member.
I had blocked out most of my life and has taken me 20 years to remember. During this time, I have had no control on what I remembered and when, it just kinda happens.
My question is this: Do I owe it to the rest of my family to shut up about all the crap they did and still do to me? Or should I seek legal remedy? Prosecute them for all of it? They have brainwashed my children as well.
In a way I feel like a traitor, but they are the ones who betrayed me. The "adults" of the family have lied about things since I was 3 or 4 the first time I was molested.
My mother, who is 82, vandalized the home I purchased. It was 1 year old when I bought it. She and my brother tore holes in the walls, tore up the kitchen floor, scraped the stainless steel from the kitchen sinks, tore the rubber splash guard from the disposal, tore up the carpet. My daughters, broke the top of my glass stove, tore apart a computer work station. They made sure it went into foreclosure by having me fired and calling the place I had a job lined up. They gave me 2 seperate start dates then told me they gave the job to someone else. My youngest daughter was the only person I told. I paid $103,000 for it.
It was done so I would under their control. For 7 months, she told me what I could and couldnt do, what I could and couldnt eat, they disabled my car so I couldnt go anywhere.
Oh, I'm 49 years old and am ill. I have Multiple Sclerosis, Lupus, Raynaud, Crest syndrome, I have all the symptoms for Scleraderma and Sjodrens Diseases.
I am currently living in a rented storage unit.
Please advise. (link)
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Well to me it sounds like you have no other chocie you must get away from your family, at all means. i say you grabe your kids and go somewhere, states away if you must. somewhere where they won't look for you and start your life there. you may also want to get a restraining order on them. But if you have proff or what they did to you, pictures, witnesses, Ect. and if you want this ended and want "get back" than Proecute them by all means, but a jury isn't going to beleive you if you don't have edvenice.
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i want my nails to be longer.
they are soo short, i dont bite them.
what should i dooo.
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i think you should buy a clear harding nail polish this will harden your nails and make them strong so they won't brake off easily. that may help.
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So i live in Alabama with my mom, stepdad, step brother, and sister.
My dad died 2007
but i want to switch custody over to my cousin who lives in Virginia because i want to go to college here, and i lived here all my life and i don't want to live back in Alabama with my family/
My mother and i don't get along very well at all
As of August 2008 i will be 16 if that helps
please help (link)
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When you are 12 and older you can chose who you want to live with. you say your mother has custody it shouldn't matter if she dose or doesn't when you reach a certain age (it's different for all states) you can chose who you want ot live with. easy as that, but there might be some issuse in court to take place in this moving but the law states that when you hit that age you can live with however you want.
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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm very happy and so far our realtionship has been practically perfect. The only problem isn't really a problem between us but between my friends and I, particularly my best friend. My best friend, I'll call her Lexi, isn't really as into guys as my other friends and I are. For a while we were both single and together constantly which is why we got to be best friends but now I have a bf and I think she's getting mad at me for wanting to be with him and talk to him a lot. I know that boys come and go but friends are forever but I love hanging out with my boyfriend becuase we don't see each other very often. What should I do? (link)
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well you shouldn't take time away from your friend to see this boy. you should make time for your friend and make time for your Bf. don't let one of them hanging and feel like the other is more important. they both matter to you and you have to make time to be with them both. i think this will help your friend out alot because then she won't be mad at you because of your bf. And no one will get hurt or feel left out.
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17 f
hey guys well i made a demo and im a singer and songwriter and i submitted my music to this website. www.hamptonsentgroup.com.
and i dont know if its a record label yet. i checked it out but didnt really understand so i was wondering if you guys can check it out for me and let me know what is and stuff becuase they contacted me from there and they wanted to set up an interview for tuesday. i dont now what it really is and if its going to help my music carrer.
thanks so much dont worry i rate (link)
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i am on the website now, whitch one are you? i went through all the labels beside one that said it was being updated. so that may be you i am not sure, contact me back personal so i can hear you. Are you Yeng?
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i like a famous girl but i will never meet her and i can't get over her what do i do (link)
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if you ever meet your famous love than you'll be lucky, if she'll ever fall in love with you you'll be amazing and out of this world in luck! the odds are a million to one, but you never know you could be that one, maybe. For the mean time to forget about her by focusing on a real girl. someone that you can get and know could evently be with you without a miracle.
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There's that saying, "Behind every hot girl, there is a guy who's tired of f*cking her"?
Well, what is a girl to do when it gets to that point?
My boyfriend and I been together for a few years now, and honestly, I've been getting prettier and prettier. So I know sex and looks aren't going to sell here.
My biggest fear is that he's going to (or already has) cheat on me, just because he wants something new. It doesn't matter that he has the girl that everyone wants; he just wants something else.
I don't know what to do. It's like there is nothing left to talk about. We're "all talked out". What kind of new things should I do, or that we should do together (not sexually)?
I don't want for us to separate, but it's like we've reached a plateau and we're going nowhere. How the hell do I save my relationship?
Or if you are in a marriage, how do you as a couple keep from staying bored? (link)
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it's called a little vacation and you sound like you need to take one soon. on this vacation you just need to relax clear your mind think of other things and all that. see if that works if you get back and their still is nothing to talk about or anything to really pull your realtionship up fron the depts i say you should talk to him and tell him about it see what he says and if he really is bored of you. it might just be a mood or a phase you two are going through. their is nothing i can tell you about getting a tired realtionship on it's feet beside spending time together and maybe going on car rides, vacation away from each other and vacations together and maybe try a pinic or maybe something eles fun like a carnival.
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Why do people cheat?
If you are someone who has ever cheated on a partner, why did you do it?
Not passing judgments here, I just want some insight. (link)
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normaly people cheat because they are not happy with the person they are with but love or not love them. and other cheat because they want more in their realtionship. They what to have two people or more people in their lives to make it seems like they are king or queen and can have anyone they want. most people cheat because they find it fun and don't care who they hurt, others just wonder into it for any reason. people cheat for their own reasons, i have never cheated on any one but i can tell you looking over my life i can say that i really had all the options to go and cheat but i was blind to what i really wanted and than it was to late, that another story people cheat because they want to make the most of every realtionship that comes along to them. but that's just my though....
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