|
i dont want her in my lifee!!!
my friend and i have been best friends for ever,but shes gettting on my nerves. she is so annoying all she does is talk about guys. theres even a i hate:blank club all my other friends hate her what do i do i dont want to hurt her and i dont wanna gove up are relationship tottaly i just want space...kinda for awhile ???
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
You've been best friends 'forever", but you are considering seeing her a lot less all because she talks about guys? Your friendships should mean more to you than that. Why would it bother you so much anyway? I suggest you let your best friend talk about whatever she wants. If she is important to you, you should be able to accept her for who she is (unless of course these guys are mean/rude/uncaring towards her).
]
It's ok to want space from an annoying friend. I agree with the columnist below who said to tell her you need space. It's best to be honest with her. Let her know that you just want some time to spend with other friends, or to be by yourself, but you don't want to completely ditch her.
-Laura. (16-f)
]
try asking her to talk about something else for a while, like maybe school or any other subject. when she starts again change the subject. try avoiding her down the halls or don't answer the phone when she calls let it go to message, try hanging out with some other friends. you could also try just maybe going out with a few but not all of your friends. So she'll feel like it was only a small group and lot of people didn't go.
]
If you're getting annoyed by her friend, just tell her you need some space for a while. Don't break off your friendship completely. If you just tell her you want a little space, she should understand.
]
More Questions: |