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Q: Well I met this guy on advicenator's and I really really like him..... but I want him to know, and Im wayyyyyy to shy to tell him... wada i dooooo!!!??

does he live near you? if not, there's no way it could work. i know that may upset you, but internet relationships don't work. but you could have a little fun with it.. ;]

Q: how do you make livejournal icons?

i use animation shop 3.
download the free trial from jasc.com
make the size 100 x 100.
expirement with it.
then upload on livejournal.
:]

Q: ok there was this guy i met shopping.
and then i found him like 3 monthes later on myspace.
and now i like him and i dont no if he likes me.
but he has me on 2 on his top 8.
and he said
do you still like me?
and i was like
YES.
and he goes.
do you wanna hang out sometime.
then i said.
definently.
and yeah
he never replied.
i need help!!
please!
i rate 5s for trying!

well, it all depends on how long it has been since you sent him a message. check your sent messages and see if he has read it or not. if he has, and it's been a while since you sent the message to him, send him another message asking for his screenname. so you can talk more.

Q: does anyone know how to make a backround image on a layout move? or if theres like a program to make the image move thats free and download-able will rate 5s for anythingg

if you want to find your own background, search on google. or go here and find a premade layout. http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacelayouts.php

Q: whats a a way i can surprise my boyfriend. i need something like romantic and sexy a day that us to can just be lost in love. help please!
thank you
always and forever
Daniella

make him dinner. and light the room with candles. when he arrives give him a single red rose. guys like that. just spend time together. any time together will be special. :]

Q: OMG i'm soo bored can someone please give me some ideas of something to do thanks. bw i'm 14/f and all of my friends are busy

create a myspace.
www.myspace.com

create a livejournal.
www.livejournal.com

play games.
www.addictinggames.com
www.bored.com
www.disneychannel.com

take a bubble bath.
paint your nails.
expirement with make-up.
expirement with new hairstyles.
try on clothes and create new outfits.
clean your room.
watch chick flicks.
talk on aim or find a forum.
shop online.

there's so many things to do.

Q: Does anyone know of any cute little DIY (Do It Yourself) gifts i could give to 14-15 year old girls? I'm already making them a customized CD and i thought i might make some chocolate covered pretzles...does anyone have anymore ideas? I've tried to google this but its difficult!

i'm poor. and i have to make gifts for people. anyway.. my friend's birthday was last week and i didn't have money to buy her anything. so i wrote her a poem and printed it on pretty paper and bought a 2 dollar frame from walmart. she loveddddd it. :]

Q: Where can I watch the trailer for RENT online? I can only watch it on Media Player.

http://www.myspace.com/rentmovie

Q: okay im a girl.. wen i straighten my hair the right side always like curls out within an hour..its so annoying does anyoneee know how to fix it?

i wash my hair at night. then blowdry. and straighten by using a clip and doing layer my layer. then when i wake up in the morning, i straighten my hair layer by layer. and it stays straight unless it's a humid day. bleh. also, i use thermasilk leave-in conditioner and loreal hot straight [in the hot pink bottle]. it might also help to get a better straightener.

Q: I have really wavy hair, and i straighten it everyday for school. does anyone have a straightener that would straighten my hair easily and not damage my hair

i've had plenty of experience with straighters. and the chi is the best. it's expensive and i'm pretty sure they're still on back order. i searched on ebay and came up with these results.
http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?sofocus=bs&sbrftog=1&from=R10&satitle=chi+straightener&sacat=-1%26catref%3DC6&bs=Search&fsop=1%26fsoo%3D1&coaction=compare&copagenum=1&coentrypage=search&fgtp=&sargn=-1%26saslc%3D2&sadis=200&fpos=35126&ftrt=1&ftrv=1&saprclo=&saprchi=

Q: tomorrow, my boyfriend is in a play, and I told him I can't come because I have work, so he's REALLY bummed, but really, I'm gonna show up and surprise him. My question is, what should I get him? Like you would get a girl roses for a good performance, so what should you get a boyfriend? Keep it under 10-20 dollars. Just brainstorm a whole bunch of ideas. I don't care whether its unoriginal or really creative. I just cant think of ANYTHING. haha thanks.

90% of guys would like to receive flowers from their girl. :] get him a single red rose. unless he's like a total manly man.

Q: ok i have this friend...she's 17 years old and she was in this religion where you can only wear skirts and you cant cut your hair and all that kind of stuff and she got pregnant so now she's no longer in this "religion" but i found out last weekend she's pregnant by a guy that i use 2 be so inlove with...i want to still be friends with her because we grew up together and she's like my sister and she has had a rough life but then i dont want to get a bad name for being friends with her!! What should i do? And should i forgive her for messing with my ex boyfriend because we promised each other we would never date another ones ex or anything because thats wrong...what do i do...HELP
15 female

she needs you more than ever right now. it's the true test of friendship. if you really care about her, you'll stick by her even when everyone else is making fun of her. true, they may talk bad about you. but think about what could happen in you turn your back on her. i'm not saying anything would be your fault, but you could save her life. or the baby's life.

Q: What actually IS a thrift store and where on earth can I find one?
I'm English lol so I'm really not getting this and it would help if someone English could explain it to me...no offence if you are another nationality, but an English person will be more likely to be able to give me examples of these 'thrift stores' :)

it's where people donate things they aren't going to use anymore [clothes, toys, cds, etc.] to the salvation army or goodwill. it's like a consignment shop, except sort of lower class. i love thrift stores, they have really vintage stuff. :]

Q: when i use a hair straightener it straightens my hair but it doesnt exactly get the poofiness out so what im asking here is what can i do? does serum help so my hair will look thin and how much would it cost?

loreal hot straight.

Q: Okay so i need help with my hair. It's naturally wavy and very full. It's also EXTREMELY frizzy. Now, normally I straighten my hair, but its getting harder. You see, I am overweight and need to lose weight. And the only way to do this of course if to eat right and excersize. Well i dont like to excersize cuz when I do, I sweat..alot and working out everynight will make my hair smell by mid-week. So here's my dilema, I dont like to wash my hair, simply because of the fact that once I wash it, and it dries..its like "HOLY *****" and straightening it is WORSE! my hair always looks terrible when I straighten it for the first time since washing my hair. Is there anyway this can be helped? I'm sick of having Frizzy hair.

i asked a similar question and this is the answer i received. "I have naturally wavey hair and have to straighten it each morning. I use L'Oreal Hot Straight (it's in a bright pink bottle) When I have used this my hair will be straight all day and will literally only need the front lightly done the following morning, it will last all weekend." i'm going to try it, so you should too. :)

Q: hi, im 18 and my boyfriend/fiance is 22 (we are going to get married, we have discussed it an everything, but he hasnt properly asked me yet...lol) and he lives in New York and i live in Ohio. (i just moved here 2 weeks ago) and we have been together for a while but then i had to move here for a while (family thing long story) and we have been apart for 2 weeks and i miss him like crazy. i used all my prepaid minutes on my cell phone on the phone with him in one week. and we miss each other a lot. he is going to come get me as soon as he can get the money (he is kinda unemployed until he gets a job. another long story) but until then we only have email and phone to communicate. and it is tearing myself and him apart. he mopes around the house and things (his mommy told me) and its all because he misses me. thats why i am going to move in with him, but until then we are 5 hours apart and so deeply in love and everything. but im getting to my big problem here. my freind im living with, her fiance just returned from mexico after a month being gone. so of course they are all over each other, and it gets me depressed, realizing how much i miss my man. how i cant hold him or kiss him right now. and it has me to the point where i cant even look at the two of them when they are together. i have spent all morning crying b/c i miss him and things, is there anythign i can do to ease my pain (other than smoke a lot of ciggys like i have been?)? please help me.

rob a bank. and use the money for gas to go see him. i hope that made you smile. because i don't know what to say except talk to him as much as you can and remember how amazing it will be when you can be together again.

Q: i gave a guy head about a month ago, but now i havn't had my perioid in over 2 months. im 18, just wondering what i should do.. i have never had sex. so help!

well if you're concerned about being pregnant, that just isn't possible. you should know that. if you go any longer without having your period, go talk to a doctor [not specifically a gynocologist]. but don't worry, it happens to the best of us.

Q: cute or weird screen names no one would have.. im trying to think of one for my friend... she 16 and has brown hair she doesnt label(punk, prep..ect..) her self thats why its hard for me to think of one

thanks !!!

lyke omg lame, lets dance baby, suga im fine. gah im so lame.

Q: Is wearing a skirt while you have a period okay? Also, do I necessarily have to wear a tampon or could I wear a pad (bc I hate tampons). Its a white skirt. Or should I just wait till my periods gone ( 4 more days probably ) Thanks for advice!

i would wait until your period is gone. i wouldn't risk leaking. that would be horrible. just wait it out. :)

Q: Is the nano ipod a good buy?

yes!!

bio

I'm Katelyn. Not Katie Lynn.

PERSONALITY:
-God comes first.
-I am Pro-Life.
-I put others before myself.
-I'm usually nice.
-I don't cuss and I don't gossip.
-I'm not perfect, but I know God is.

APPEARANCE:
-I'm short.
-I have a mullet.
-I have freckles.
-I change my hair often.
-I have green eyes, not blue.
-I'm usually considered cute.