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Hey guys its Taylor... aka T Fro! hah well i love giving people advice and im sure i know a thing or two about it so ask me anything and i will give you my best answer!!

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Throughout my whole life, I've always been kind of 'pleasently plump' so to speak. Now, being thirteen, I was uber fat in elementary school, I've gained about twenty pounds since fifth grade, but I've grown a good seven inches. Is this healthy? My 'extra weight' evens out pretty well on my body..I'm five foot five and I weight about one fourty seven or so.

I have wide set hipbones, I'm a "WIDE" person..But I know I couldn't change that even if I tried, that's just my body type. SO should I even concider diet. Oh, I'm already a vegetarian...

Danke

-Mistress Maddy

There is this great website that sees if your over weight or not, it has excersizes, and many more. Dont be a vegetarian and go on a regular diet *no sweets eat healthy diet* also excersize like 3 or 4 times a week. The websites name is mean but its a good website lol. it is: www.am-i-fat.com < its a great website! hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

HHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP

I rate 5's for anyone who reply's
Thanx

If you cant call him or cant email him, have you tried VISITING him?? Thats the only possible way. Try texting him to see how hes doing. If it doesnt work out its better to break up with him, because i dont understand how you can have a conversation or anykind like this. I hope this helps. xoxo BLONDE911

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my hair is naturally a very dark brunette and i had it highlighted goldish-blondish. its starting to grow out now and i need some ideas for when i get it done next time. if you could give me websites (besides google) and maybe if you know alot about hair some ideas of your own. i kinda like reese witherspoons brunette color and maybe that with like an ash colored highlights? im open to any ideas though.

thanks*

Ok i dont have any websites but try to do a redish brown and a shade lighter than your hair. Ask your hairstylist to see whats best! Brunettes are in this year so maybe dont get anymore highlights for another year? Well maybe for the websites try some magazine websites like seventeen.com?? im not sure if that will help.
hoped this helped. xoxo BLONDE911

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okay well my friend is making me pretty mad because she keeps calling me boy crazy because im like in love with this boy. and she tells me, "boys arent life" well i told her that i while ago.. and now she's like, "yeah i know u told me that but ur worse than i was" and it's making me mad because i think she's gonna say that in front of my boyfriend, and it's annoying and might get him mad. she's saying this because i talk about him all the time and i have him in my info and my xanga everywhere, does this make me boy crazy?

nah ur not boy crazy! If shes around you and your guy, you should have a talk with her fast and tell her that you dont want her saying that around her anymore and its really annoying. I bet shes jealous. But have a serious talk with her and tell her that your going to be really mad if she doesnt stop. :) hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911

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Me and my friends want to see The Ring 2. Well, originally I told my friend Lauren that her, Sarah and I could go. Recently Sarah and I have been hanging out a lot, with another girl, Krystal. I don't know who I want to go with. I would just invite both, but it's not that easy. Lauren is your typical preppy, VERY girly girl. Krystal is more like goth. As much as I hate labels, that's basically the only way to put it. Sometimes I wonder how Lauren and I get along.

Honestly, I'd rather go with Sarah and Krystal. But I just don't know what to say to Lauren, because I think she really wants to go with us. But Sarah and I both kinda get annoyed with her sometimes.

Who should I go with?! Sorry if it's long =(..

Maybe go with just one friend. Thats always fun! Try going with just one friend or seeing the movie twice with each groups. Its the only way to see it with out a fight, anyways, how do you know they dont get along? movies are in rows so they are basicly divided, you probably sit in the middle when everyone is on each side of you!!

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OK. i have been going out with this guy for a month and we are both in love. problem: we never see each other outside of school. Another problem: he is 6'2. i am 4'11. as you can imagine i have a hard time kissing! please help!

lol. Well for the outside of school thing, if you dont have his number call him every other day or something like that. Maybe get a group together and go to the movies, or go to the mall, clubs?, out to eat, an arcade place.

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hey. all the popular girls in my grade are really pretty and smart and are good friends with all the guys and all. but then heres me...i mean im in the group of girls who are just not as pretty and not as smart. sometimes i cry because i want to be popular so bad. i mean some of the girls are really rich and their dad's are big time lawyers or doctors and they shop downtown every weekend together. i just wish i could be like them. their so awesome and perfect. i don;t know how to be like them help me!

I know everyone wants to be popular but sometimes it doesnt work out. Sometimes they are mean and snobby but othertimes there nice. There are sometypes of people who are called "climbers" they use people to get popular.

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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.

Is this a good outfit:

White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels

OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.

Sounds cute, all you need to do is to match your heels, accesorize in pink so it will flow together. Maybe even have black jewelry on. For the hair, maybe half down half up? Straight down? messy bun? Straight with a few curls around it? cute pony with cute lil pink or black flowers in it??

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I have a friend and she bosses me around. Sometimes she talks to me in a mean way. Once she asked my why I was talking in a negative voice. I hate that because she acts like she is my mom. I not sure if I even want to be her friend any more. Right now she is one of my best friends. I need a wasy to tell her with out actualy hurting her feeling or making her mad at me. How should I tell her?
Signed,
Angry but sad

Wow, I think alot of people have this type of friend! First try to call her and tell her whats up and how you think she is treating you. This might work for a little bit and then it will come back. If it doesnt work, Try telling her in person, have a talk with her 1 on 1 and just tell her the blunt truth. Tell her if she keeps treating you like this then maybe its not a good idea to be friends. Hope it works out
xoxo BLONDE911

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umm i almost have a 100$ and i wanna buy a pet my mom doesnt like reptiles or any thing that smells and my nana dont like anything that makes alot of noise that will make the dogs bark and my friend is guna make her chinchillas have babies but that might take awhile so should i wait to get a chinchilla or i might be able to get a guinea pig but i dunno please help!!!
ill rate high :)

chinchilla!!!! those things are really cool, plus your friend is going to give it to you for free!

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Me and my friends, (L), (S), and (E) are planning to perform in a lipsync. The song (S) picked out is highly innapropriate!! We all agree except her. We still haven't told her. We don't want to hurt her so what do we do?? I rate high!!!

List all the songs you rather have and let your friends agree the ones you want. If S doesnt like it then you have to tell the truth that her song is inapropiate. You better be safe than sorry. Hope this helps and isnt confusing! If ya want to you can IM me on renfro sayS. xoxo BLONDE911

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What is the website for all the color codes for your advice colum. I need the acual website because when I go to Colum Setting and click on that link it doest work. Thanks.

http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/ hopes this helps!
xoxo BLONDE911

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I have dark brown hair, it kind of looks black. People say I can't dye it blonde, but I kind of want to since people believe they can stop me. My skin has a natural tan, if that matters. My friend said I could dye my eyebrows to match. What do you think?

This might be harsh, but it might not look so good. If you dont care what you look like, then go ahead. If you want a different hair look, try highlights, I would do a dark reddish brown and a sandy blonde

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Hey. I'm in the 7th grade, and for my grade in math for the 3rd quarter, I know I got a 87.45% B+. Can that be rounded to an A?

It depends on your teacher and where you live.
In texas: 90-100-A
80-89-B
70-79-C
and below 70 is failing
If your teacher gives extra credit try that to bring your grade up. If it can be rounded it would be an 87. So if you want to bring it up just try extra credit or retaking tests or papers. Hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911

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well its kinda a 2 part question.

Well my aunts getting married, and im in her wedding. me and my other aunt HATE the dresses ALOT. we dont want to wear them at all. what should we do?

And i want to look good in the dress if i have to wear it, and im thinking about tanning and going on a diet of just water and like salad and fruit... but the thing is i dont eat alot. the only meal i eat is lunch and im never hungry. i think its because i dont exercise enough.. even though i play alot of sports and im pretty active.. i dont know what the problem is.

Its your aunt, Its once in a life time (for most people anyway) chance for them to get married. Most dresses are ugly anyways. Weddings are wierd! Some are beautiful for scenery but the dresses are ugly! Just fake it suck it up and have fuN! The dress doesnt count, its your hair! lol!

Maybe try to go to the gym more and work out, if you eat healthy and excersize enough, your fine! I hoped i helped! xoxo BLONDE911

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well were havin celeb day at school besides the olsen twins can anyone think of two celebritys me and my friend could do?

thanx a bunch!

Paris and Nicki, Hilary and Haleigh, Ashlee and Jessica hoped I helped! xoxo BLONDE911

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I'm torn between two guys. They are both really great and I like them both. I have no clue which one I should be with. I know I have to be with one of them, but I don't know what one. *Jake is 16 years old. He's an awesome guy but sometimes we get into fights and say really hurtful things to eachother. But I still really like him, because he always shows that sweet side to him around his friends, when he's known as a "Tough" guy at school. *Erik is 17 (my age) and is an all time sweetheart, he's always there for me when I need him. He's just plan amazing. I like something about both of these guys, but I'd like a little feedback from you guys about what I should do. Which one should I choose/not choose? Thanks.

Well i think you should go with Erik he sounds perfect! Sweet, your age, always there for you, sounds like prince charming to me! Jake on the other hand, well you fight and say hurtful things, thats a warning right ther! Hoped i helped! xoxo BLONDE911

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hey...i was wondering what can i do to get this guy i like to notice me and to let him know i like him?I'm 15 years old and female if that helps any. i know him (the guy i like) because i'm really good friends with his twin sister and i ride his bus alot with my best friend. we have alot of mutual friends but i havent talked to him personally i've gotten to kno him by being around him alot with some friends but i've never actually talked to him and up until recently i didnt realize i was attracted to him so now i'm wondering what i should do whether to just not tell him or go for it...usually i would know the answer myself but i've been screwed over to many times by going with my gut feeling Thanx to any one that helps!!!

Maybe try saying hi to him in the halls, or getting alot of friends to go to the movies including him and you sit by him. Make more conversations with him and try to flirt alittle.

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ok well whenever i go to the bathroom, i look at my underwear and theres this like clear slimy gooey discharge and i havent gotten my period yet ... what is this ? im 13/f HELP!

Its discharge, its ok everyone has it. Once it gets pretty heavy, it means that your about to get your period. If you need more information go to : www.beinggirl.com

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Okay, so! I'm 15/female and I met this guy last week and he seems pretty cool. He likes me and all, and I like him too. It's just that, I dont like him like boyfriend/girlfriend. He's a great person and all, and I'd be happy with being friends but other than that, I'm confused. See.. I'm not hott or anything, I'm average, but he sees me as beautiful. And I desperatley want a boyfriend because I havent had one in over a year and I'm getting lonely. But I dont want to go out with this guy for the wrong reasons. Should I go out with him once and see what happens or what?

Just try some *friend* dates and see what happens from there. If you have strong connections then go for it! If there isnt any connection, then just tell him you are better off friends. I hope you figure it out! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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