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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i need help FAST!!

how does this quote from alguna beach go?
u have a __________ way of making me cry yet a ________ way of making me smile

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It goes like this: "You have an amazing way of making me cry, and yet a beautiful way of making me smile." ♥

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does any1 know the name of eminem's new song i think its like "what i got" but everytime i put that it nothing comes up?

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If it's just him, the song is called "When I'm Gone".


But, he also got another new song out with Trick Trick and that one is called "Welcome To Detroit City". ♥

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one of 'system of a downs' songs is called B.Y.O.B what does that stand for/mean?

It can mean many things, actually. But 'B.Y.O.B' means 'Bring Your Own Bombs", in that System Of A Down song. It can also mean, 'Bring Your Own Beer', too. ♥

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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachotehr?

Does your best friends little sister like you? If so, you're going to have to talk to your best friend before you make a move on his little sister. He's probably going to be a little upset, just because you're crushing on his sister. But I'm sure after a talk with you and a day or two, he'll be okay with it all.


I think before you do anything, though. You need to talk to your best friend. Just explain to him how much you love his little sister and how much you care about her. Tell him that you really want to ask her out, but you wanted to see if it was okay by him, first.


You don't want to just ask her out, then have your best friend hate you for it. Remember, best friends are forever, girlfriends come and go. So just talk to your best friend about this, before you ask her out. ♥

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Hey guys..i am 15 and i am about to get my permit..so my first car is going to be a 2005 Chevrolet Colorado Z71 with leather, big tires, and a system..is that bad like for a first car?

I say that's pretty damn good, for your first car. You're some lucky! ♥

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my friend said that my other guy friend had a boner... and i didnt really no what it ment....what is it and how can u tell?

A "boner" is a slang term that refers to a man's erection. When boys and men become sexually excited; by sexual thoughts, wet dreams, or sex play with themselves or another person, their penises fill with blood and get hard and erect. Sometimes boys and young men get erections for no reason at all. These "spontaneous erections" can be embarrassing, but are perfectly normal. (http://www.teenwire.com/ask) ♥

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hey ok probably everybody has figured this out but me...lol but thats alrite wats a PSP?? wat is it and wat does it stand for...plz dont be mean:D

PSP is just short for "Play Station Portable". It's just like a gameboy. ♥

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Can you have precum by itself before you ever have cum

Yes, you can. ♥

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Hey, you answered my question yesterday and pretty much inspired me to start my own advice column. I just wanted to say thanks again. I added you as a favorite columnist, too.

This is way too sweet. I'm glad I inspired you to start your own advice column. You're very welcome. I'll add you back! ♥

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what is a good site to get music for free? i only have real player, not windows media.

You can check out this website, it's pretty awesome. http://cdzinc.com You just search up the artist or band you want to listen to and you can listen to all their songs off all their C.D.'s.


You can also go to this website: http://www.accuradio.com/hits/# It's a online radio and you're able to change the stations to what kind of music you like best. ♥

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is it unusual for a guy to like 2 girls.

No, not really. A lot of people like two girls or guys at the same time. It's not unusual for girls to like two guys, so I don't see why it would be unusual for boys. ♥

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Anybody know what a good site for qoutes and MSN display pictures? Not firehot qoutes ha ha :) Thanks!

I don't have any sites for good MSN display pictures, however, I do have a site for okay display pictures; http://www.mess.be


A great quote site would be the following: http://www.holliesquotes.com Her quotes are so amazing. I'm sure you'll enjoy them, too. ♥

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(16/M) I've been friends with this one girl for 4 years now. But, since about 3 years ago, I've had a huge crush on her. She liked me for a while, too, but I never made a move. I always just figured we'd end up together no matter what. But we drifted farther away and pretty much stopped talking. I never stopped liking her, but she got a boyfriend eventually. I told her this summer that I missed her a lot and she said she missed me too. She tells me she isn't over me or anything, but she's really wrapped up in her boyfriend. I don't know how to get over her, or if I even want to. I mean, I want her to know I still care about her, but I don't want to seem desperate or anything. If there's anything you can say to help, thanks.

You already told her you missed her, so really there is nothing else you can do since she does have a boyfriend. Just be there for her. When she needs to talk about something, be that someone that she can run to and share her feelings too. The person that she can tell anything to. When she's down and almost crying, be her shoulder to lean on.


Her boyfriend isn't going to stay with her forever. Most young relationships don't last too long, some do, but some don't. You could have a chance with her, you never know. If you like her as much as you say you do, then you probably won't want to give up on her and you shouldn't. If you guys are ment to be, it'll find a way. But for now, just be there for her and be her friend, first. Try to get what you guys had before, back. ♥

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Hi for the last couple of month i have been going on the computer giving my number 2 some guy on chat i talked to in Aust. and i give them my number so they can call me and have fone sex... i dnt cum i fake it but touching myself and playing with my toys and getting told over the fone stuff make me horny and feel so good...
is this normal and what things could i do to get the full Orgasm!!

Honestly, I don't think that going on chat line and giving a random guy your number is normal. I think it's kind of out there. I know you think nothing could happen, but you could be giving anyone your number; a 20 year old, 30 year old, 50 year old. But, I guess it is whatever floats your boat, and if you enjoy it, then that's okay, I guess. Just be safe, please.


For better orgasm's you might want to check out the following websites, it'll probably help you out more then I could. http://www.coolnurse.com/orgasm_female.htm and http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm ♥

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hey im the one who asked about weed/ blood test. your answer is exactly what i wanted to here. so i was just wondering.. are you sure?! haha. do you know from personal experience?

Yes, I do. I always thought that weed would show up in a blood test, but it doesn't. I went to get blood work, and nothing like weed showed up. (Even when I did smoke it a couple of days before I actually got the test.) A blood test is totally different from a drug test anyways, so there's no way weed could show up in your blood work. Don't worry. ♥

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how can you tell if a guy is flirting with you and not just being nice? what are some signs that he really has some intrest and isnt just trying to act sweet? thanks!

You'll know if he's flirting with you and not just being friendly, if he does the following:


1. The Eyebrow Lift - - When a guy first sees a girl he's attracted to, chances his eyebrows will rise and fall. Quickly. (You can slip the flip of an eyebrow back at him, if you're interested - it's a clear signal both ways.)
2. Gaining Your Attention - - Exaggerated movements or gestures usually mean that he's trying to stand out from the crowd. He may shift positions so that he is standing slightly apart from his friends or a group of people.
3. Slight Parting of the Lips - - His lips may automatically part for a second when your eyes first meet.
4. His Nostrils Open Slightly, Face Widens - - As his eyebrows raise and nostrils flare slightly so with the parted lips, he has an open, friendly expression on his face.
5. He Shifts to the Classic Male Courship Stance
The macho stance (cowboy style) he'll probably lock his thumbs in his belt or belt loops, point his fingers downwards, spread his legs about shoulder distance apart and tilt his head to one side.
6. Touches His Own Face - - He may rub his chin, brush his cheek with the back of his fingers or touch his ears. (He may not realize this is a combination of nerves and unconscious preening behavior.)
7. Strokes His Shirt Front, Smoothes his Jeans
More unconscious preening, smoothing a shirt sleeve, tie, shirt pocket. (The equivalent of the female lip lick.)
8. Fiddles with His Hair - - He may smooth or tussle his hair involuntarily and more often than you might realize - again preening for you...
9. Eyebrows Arc While Talking - - He may, accidentally, exhibit a slightly surprised expression with slightly raised eyebrows - which means he is interested in you. (Forget the guy who looks at you with a smooth, relaxed brow and eyes - he thinks you're boring. You probably think he's boring so drop your eyebrows and more on.)
10. Sock Adjustment - - If a guy pulls up or adjusts his socks in your presence, it's an almost 100 per cent sign he's interested and trying to look his best. The big preening signal.


I found this from a website; http://www.links2love.com/dating_tips_flirting.htm If you need anymore information on this type of stuff, just check out the rest of the site. ♥

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I just recently became a columnist and I went to go look at the list of the other columnists. I noticed that most of the others have rating stars next to their name. What are these for? Do I not have them because I'm relatively new?

First off, I would like to welcome you to the site. I hope you enjoy being on here, as well as helping others out with their problems.


As for your question, those five stars are your overall average rating. In order for those starts to show up, you need to be rated at least five times. So, just keep answering questions and you'll have your average rating in no time. ♥

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On Malibu's Most Wanted, B-Rad lifts up his maids headphones when he's like 3 and a song comes on like "You rock around you rock around you right on time you tricky" or something. Pffh the lyrics are very fuzzy it could be nothing like that. But the song was very catchy so I was wondering if anybody knew it.

The song you're looking for is, "It's Tricky" and it's by RUN DMC. ♥

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hey, i was wondering if weed will show up in a blood test. I'm probably going to have one for something completely un-related to drugs. i mean like, they aren't looking for weed or anything. So, i guess i'm wondering if it will show up at all and if they have to be specifically looking for it to find it. How long does it stay in your system? I've heard 38 days, but i've only smoked twice (yesterday and three days ago) and i didn't smoke very much at all. Between both days, i probably didn't even have a bowl. Thanks

It won't show up if you're going for a blood test. If you're going for a drug test, and you just smoked the day before, then it will show up. But since you're just going for a blood test, it won't show up. A blood test and a drug test are two different things. Don't worry about weed showing up on your blood test, though, because it won't. You have nothing to worry about. ♥

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What shampoo do you think smells the best, but still delivers a kick-ass wash?

I rate high :)

I love Dove (it's my favorite) and Herbal Essence. There's also this great shampoo that smells so good, however I don't know the name of it, but it is coconut flavored. ♥

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