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missed my chance?
(16/M) I've been friends with this one girl for 4 years now. But, since about 3 years ago, I've had a huge crush on her. She liked me for a while, too, but I never made a move. I always just figured we'd end up together no matter what. But we drifted farther away and pretty much stopped talking. I never stopped liking her, but she got a boyfriend eventually. I told her this summer that I missed her a lot and she said she missed me too. She tells me she isn't over me or anything, but she's really wrapped up in her boyfriend. I don't know how to get over her, or if I even want to. I mean, I want her to know I still care about her, but I don't want to seem desperate or anything. If there's anything you can say to help, thanks.
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You already told her you missed her, so really there is nothing else you can do since she does have a boyfriend. Just be there for her. When she needs to talk about something, be that someone that she can run to and share her feelings too. The person that she can tell anything to. When she's down and almost crying, be her shoulder to lean on.
Her boyfriend isn't going to stay with her forever. Most young relationships don't last too long, some do, but some don't. You could have a chance with her, you never know. If you like her as much as you say you do, then you probably won't want to give up on her and you shouldn't. If you guys are ment to be, it'll find a way. But for now, just be there for her and be her friend, first. Try to get what you guys had before, back. ♥
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