hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachotehr?
CDefense15 answered Monday November 7 2005, 8:39 pm: Hmmmm... This is a hard one, but just ask your friend what he would think of someone more than a year older than his sister to go out with her. What I think might happen is that if you don't ask him before then he will be in disbelieve and then accept it later on. Even though hes protective, you are his friend and he trusts you so he will learn to live with it. If you ask him before, then he will feel more trust because you asked him first to see if that is okay. I think that either way would be a win situation so just go ahead and pick one. I hope this works out for you. Good Luck! [ CDefense15's advice column | Ask CDefense15 A Question ]
MummuM answered Monday November 7 2005, 8:16 pm: Does your best friends little sister like you? If so, you're going to have to talk to your best friend before you make a move on his little sister. He's probably going to be a little upset, just because you're crushing on his sister. But I'm sure after a talk with you and a day or two, he'll be okay with it all.
I think before you do anything, though. You need to talk to your best friend. Just explain to him how much you love his little sister and how much you care about her. Tell him that you really want to ask her out, but you wanted to see if it was okay by him, first.
You don't want to just ask her out, then have your best friend hate you for it. Remember, best friends are forever, girlfriends come and go. So just talk to your best friend about this, before you ask her out. ♥ [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Monday November 7 2005, 8:01 pm: well if you are friends with him, he trusts you, hopefuly enough to not mind you going out with her. you could always just flat out ask him, or make some joke about it like "damn dude your sister is getting FINE" and see how he reacts. in the long run you might need to decide whats more important though, dating her or your friendship with him because he might not approve [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
sweeto answered Monday November 7 2005, 7:51 pm: Are you sure you're in love? Because I don't think so. But anyways, make sure it's ok with your best friend. I know I'd be pissed as hell if one of my friends asked my little sister out behind my back. And make sure you know how to treat girls because he will be on your ass. [ sweeto's advice column | Ask sweeto A Question ]
cheddar answered Monday November 7 2005, 7:34 pm: talk to your friend about it. you should definitely ask him about it before you ask her. he could feel betrayed and would probably get realllllly pissed off if you did that behind his back. [ cheddar's advice column | Ask cheddar A Question ]
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