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Me and Jordan have been flirting alot latley. He's 14 and in 8th grade, I'm 13, and in 7th. He lives in my neighborhood, and friends with some of my friends. The thing is, I'm not looking for another big relationship, just innocent flirting, maybe a stolen kiss or two, from a cute guy. He's told me he wants the same, but I have a feeling he's going to ask me out soon.

I'm not ready for him as a boyfriend, what should I do? I don't mean to lead him on, but he knows were both enjoying this flirting scene. Thanks guys

you basically answered your own question. tell him that. explain you don't want a serious relationship & you want to be his friend. he probably won't have a problem with it if you're honest. plus it'll cause less drama if you tell him straight out right away. then you guys can be friends & flirt er w/e.

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Ok so there's this girl who we will call Katie. She's kinda friends with some of my friends (especially the guys) and it feels like she's taking over my life. I heard her calling herself best friends with my best friend even though she realy isn't. She's taking all of my friends and probably talking crap about me (we don't have the best past) and turning them against me. Now she's even coming with us to this thing that was only supposed to be a tight group of friends. What do I do?

talk to your friends about it & ignore her. she doesn't seem like a great friend to begin with anyways. let them know what's going on & talk to her about it with them. if you express how you feel & seem serious, she might stop. if not, juss explain everything to your friends & maybe they can help you out.

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Okay I'm in love with two guys who are both 19, one I went to the dance with and one who I'm neighbors with....the thing is I barley see the guy who I'm neighbors with..it's kinda the same with the other guy my neighbors name is Brett and the other is name is Greg!!! Help me please

basically you have to juss sort out your feelings. sit down & think. maybe make a pro/con list about what you like/dislike about each & decide. you don't want to lead any of them on while you're thinking about it though. after that juss let them know.

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I was wondering if there was an HTML code that you can use to not show the amount of friends you have on myspace. Is there such a thing and if so, where can I find the code? Sorry, I've been stuck on this forever now and I really need someone's help. I've looked online a couple of times but couldn't find anything. I saw other people's myspaces that don't show the number of friends they have on there "friend space", but how can I make mine like that too. Thank-you! I'll rate!

if you get a "friend space" which basically means that you pick who you want rather than a "top 8" so you can have a "top 12" er how many you want, you can change the codes for each. so lets say you get that & then there's a code that says how many friends you have?? you can either delete the whole thing er put 0 er 93845783765. you juss change the number. here's a website-

http://r4wr.com/friends/

-hope that helped!♥

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I've had my period for about half of a year, ( Since June ) It still quite irregular, which I know is normal. However, I never know when to bring tampons with me. Like, it'll just pop up, and it always seems to happen when I'm wearing light colored pants. I don't wanna have to carry tampons and pads with me everywhere I go, but I don't get any warning signs like cramps or PMS. How can I make sure I can save myself from having anymore leaks!?

i guess you can't really. if you go to the gyno, she might have a certain pill you can take so you do get it regularly, er at least close, er she can tell you how to handle it. i'd say carry them juss incase. yeah, it's annoying carrying them around but it's better than getting it & having nothing. at school er work, you can juss stick em in a bookbag somewhere. the best thing would be to get a big purse & put it in a pocket so it's out've the way & you won't even notice it. if you have a car er a locker you can stick em in there. if you have them it should be fine.

-hope that helped!♥

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hey my name is frances i am a 19/f. and i have a problem, well not just one but 3. ok well about 3 months ago, my boyfriend of two years broke up with me and i have been having a hard time dealing with it. but about 1 month ago i met a great guy (24) and i like him and but he is moving really fast saying that he already loves me and everything and i am not ready for the. well here comed the confusing part. this other guy i know well call him bill(30) likes me alot and i like him(we have talked about it) but he is afraid to take our friendship further becuase of what ppl will say. ok now last but not least my ex wants back in the picture wants to kill both guys bill and josh (my ex is 22)for trying to talk to me. he is back telling me he loves me and he wants to hang out all the time. it is hard becuase i still love him but i am not sure i want to be put in the situation to get hurt again. help me what should i do i dont want to get hurt or hurt anyone and all of these guys are great ppl.

so basically you're in a love triangle. there's only one thing you have to do. sort out your feelings. don't pay any certain attention to one in particular so that you can juss sort everything out. you want to go with the right guy & not make a mistake, so be fair to each. sit down & think. maybe make a list of pro's & con's to see which guy you like more. after all of that, the guy you decide, let the other guys know that you aren't interested, but want to be friends, & let the guy you do like know. that's the way it'll be fair to all of them.

-hope that helped!♥

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Any other useless sites like VirtualStapler.com and Bubblewrap?

haha =) i know of one

www.holdthebutton.com

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ok so there is this girl and we used to be bestfriends and we grew apart and i didnt want to be her friend anymore and not becaise shes mean but just because it wasnt fun anymore anyway so i was trying to just seperate myself from her and so i moved lunch tables didnt invite her over but she moved to my lunch shes been inviting me over a lot and i just dont no what to do i refuse to tell her that we grew apart so dont put thatttt hope you can help

i'm guessing you juss don't wanna say "hey we shouldn't be friends anymore". i guess the best thing would be is to ignore her if you don't want to be honest. flat out ignore her. if she talks to her, you can either tell her why you don't want to talk to her (this might be better) er juss don't talk to her & see if she takes the hint. i guess you can call it the silent treatment & eventually she'll juss get mad at you & leave you alone. if you don't want her mad at you, you can basically juss say you don't want to be friends with her anymore.

-hope that helped!♥

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Well this kid i like isn;t in any of my classes so i like never get to see him during the day wchich is kind of depressing so my best friend and i kind of like "stalk" well his locker is righ across the hall from ours so we just kind of like go there when not needed and also when we have certain periods before lunch we can foloow him down to lunch I think maybe he notices especially wehn my friend is kind of loud and I'm not sure if he thinks I'm a crazy stlaker lunitic but its the only way i get to see him plus its become kind of like a really fun insider wiht my friend and i...should i continue "stalking" or what..?

hmm..this only happens in school right?? i don't think i'd really consider that as stalking, but it could be. it's not like you follow him to his house er something, bad idea. instead of following him around with your friend, because he might notice after awhile, try going up & talking to him every so often. don't try to over do it, but ya know, every one in awhile. it'll be better for you to become his friend rather than the girl he juss sees a lot ya know?? he might be flattered knowing you like him. i'm not saying you should say randomly "oh hey i like you" but get to know him better by talking & becoming friends.

-hope that helped!♥

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my parents are SO paranoid!its not even funny. well i have been hangin around my friends-boyfriends-friend since my friend and her bf have been going out. well anyhow, he invited me and my friend (and a bunch of others) to cedar point this summer. how can i talk my parents in to letting me go?

PS:
*im not stupid and i dunno why they dont trust me
*when im at my friends house i hang out with him so they dont know him
*last time a guy came to my house my dad interrogated him!!
*embarassing*

you can't really go against your parents er anything so the best thing to do would be to get them comfortable with it. show them you can be responsible. maybe do extra chores around the house er something. show them that a lot of people are going, it's not like you & him alone by yourselves. they can even ask his parents about it if they want er your friend's parents. it probably isn't because they don't trust you. maybe it's juss the fact that they don't know him that well. try inviting him over. let your parents get to know him.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok, ive had my account for a reaaally long time. So I have alot of questions, there's one I asked like 2 years ago, that I REALLY need to see, but whenever I press "Your questions" and then "All questions" it shows me maybe the 50 last questions I asked, and then on the bottom of the page it shows "page 2,3,4,5,6 NEXT" but when I press one of the pages or "next" it doesn't show the questions!! What do I do? Thank you.

the best thing to do would ask DangerNerd er go to Advicenators FAQs. it works for mine so it probably has something to do with your account.

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okay i wicked love summer dresses but i dont no where to find them besides alloy i really want some cute ones can people please give me the store name or websites or link or soemthing please i rate high

i'm not sure how much you're willing to spend er whatever but i have some good sites-

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/
category_feature_item.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90046&navroot=womens

http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=
Dresses&Page=1

http://www.target.com/gp/browse.html/ref=
sc_fe_l_2_3692501_10/602-1380910-1779843?%5Fencoding=UTF8&node=1104830

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=18109&PageID=18109*1*24*-1*-1&kw=Dresses&LinkType=EverGreen

http://teenfashion.about.com/od/seasonalstyle
/tp/summerdress05.htm

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when on a dinner date, how should handling the check go?

should i, the woman, grab the book and look at it, or should i wait until my date picks it up?

should i ask him how much it is? should i take the money out of my purse? how do i handle a credit card ?

try splitting it first. maybe go for the checkbook & ask if he wants to split it with you er what. don't worry too much about it. go with the flow. if you go for it & ask to split it, that'll probably go better. after you guys date awhile, it'll become more comfortable if he pays since he's the guy & what not.

-hope that helped!♥

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my nipples have been hurting a lot lately. they sting really bad, even when im just like watching tv. im 14 female and havent gotten my period yet. is it a sign im getting my period soon?

yes probably. a lot of girls get pain around that area before their period comes. i wouldn't worry about it. if it starts becoming worse than try going talking to someone about it.

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I have to present a speech infront of about 30 people tomorrow for class and I'm REALLY nervous. I'm doing an oratorical speech and it's just so crazy. My friends have told me to breathe in and out but it only works for like 4 minutes. I've never done a speech before, this is my first time. So...is it alright to be nervous? And what do you suggest I do when I'm up there?
Thanks

it's definately okay to be nervous. i used to get really freaked out when i had to do speeches infront of the class even though i'm a very outgoing person. it was juss different having to speak about school topics in class. don't focus on the people er your teacher. focus on your topic & what you want to stay. when you get to class, try talking to your friends er people in your class to lighten things up. if you laugh you'll probably feel better about doing your presentation on whatever topic you're doing. i took a public speaking class in school & we did about 20 minute speeches infront of our class & we did a bunch. now when i have to do speeches it's like nothing. here's a website-

http://www.toastmasters.org/tips.asp

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I'm in a relationship right now, and it's such a drag shaving down there like everyday. I hate it; it makes me itch constantly, makes me break out, and then i have stubs (it's gross). Is there anyway I can get all of it gone w/ out waxing and/or shaving. Like I know there is Nair & Veet for your legs, but is there some like that for down there? Thank-you. 14/f

there's creams called Depilatory Creams.

http://www.mypleasure.com/features
/bulletins/18.asp

these have some creams you apply & then wash off. they are for a short period of time, maybe a week tops. i know that isn't much but you won't have to shave er wax every day. on the website it says that they're basically at local pharmacies such as CVS er Eckard. this explains it-

http://www.ivillage.co.uk/beauty/bodybasics
/remove/articles/0,,548157_183474,00.html

-hope that helped!♥

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i am from texas.
my boyfriend asked me out a couple days ago. he's wild, hot, and hes so out there. i am too. exsept he thinks im shy... which i hate to be called. but i am truly really shy around him. even nervous. i wich i could jst act myself and jst live my life normally without looking like a dork around him.

i need boyfriend help!

if you can't act yourself around your bf, who can you do that with?? really, if you want him to stay with you, still be interested in you, & grow in your relationship, you have to be yourself. it wouldn't be fair to him if he's being himself to you but you aren't doing the same back. juss be out there & wild like he is. hold back when you have to, meaning maybe a serious conversation, but other than that be like him. you should talk to him about this & see what he says. other than that you can't do too much. once you guys hang out more, it'll probably be easier for you to be yourself.

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Alright, so my social is in about 2 weeks and I yet to find a hair style. Does any one have a hair style for medium long hair? I don't want any options but a site for one please. Also, I want some of the hair to go up. (assesories are always welcome to be offered.) My dress is blue and I am white. Thank you!

medium length hairstyles are easy to find. are you talking about prom?? er juss an event?? here's a few ideas-

http://www.beautyriot.com/category.php?id=71

http://www.promhairstyles.net/

http://www.hair-news.com/fu1.html

http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/

http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/

if you're looking for a name for a specific one er don't like any of those, try googling what you want.

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where can i find a list on new songs that just came out? i want to get some for my ipod but i cant think of any and i hate listening to the radio.

www.billboard.com

those are the billboard charts for the week & even the radio charts. if you have itunes, they have a section called 'new music' at the top & you can also go there.

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Okay, so I just saw the music video "A Little Less Sixteen Candles A Little More Touch Me" by Fall Out Boy. I didn't understand one thing in that video, can anyone make sense of it for me?

ME EITHERRR. okay the whole vampire thing?? idk what that was about. basically pete is a vampire & that's where the girls come in. if you watch it a few times, you'll catch on. it really is hard to explain like the whole background on it without watching it. here's a website-

http://www.mtv.com/overdrive/player.jhtml?vid=77658&id=1528945&launchedFrom=/overdrive/

maybe you'll pick up things

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