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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=

Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.

I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.

I do not like when people have issues with typing.

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i sweat alot under my arms even though i put on deoderant.The docoter gave me better stuff to use but i still sweat is there anything i can do so i wont sweat there? i rate!!!

By Certian Dri- you can get it at any drug store and it costs anywhere between 5-10 dollars. It works great. Hope this helped.

well i havnt been on my period in like a month mostly more then a month..ive already skipped once i havnt did nething..soo what could be wrong how many times can you skip your period please i need some advice

If you're sexually active, there is a possibility you could be pregnant. If you're not sexually active it could be from one of many things: Stress causes it not to be on schedule, if you do any physical activities ie: dance, soccer, track, cheerleading, etc, it could cause it not to come. Also, if you've only been getting your period for less than 4 years, it won't come all the time on the same schedule. The first 4 years of getting your period, your period will not be 100% on schedule. Stressing about this won't make it any worse. There is nothing to worry about, unless of course, you're sexually active.

This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!

First of all, we don't like to hear all that mushy love shit all the damn time because it gets annoying as hell. It has to be something that you mean, something that comes from your heart. You shouldn't be asking what to tell her, you should be able to just look at her and be able to say so many things about her. I'll tell you things NOT to say- never tell a girl that she is hot, bangin, fine, bootylicious (yes I've gotten that line before) sexy, or anything of that nature. Women like to hear sincere things from a guy, don't ever give her that line that "you're eyes are so beautiful blah blah blah" We get that all the time. Never tell a girl that she should be a model because you'll never hear the end of it. Never say anything to a girl that would have anything remotely to do with her weight because you won't hear the end of that either. We like to be held, touched, kissed, talked to, if you tell a girl once a day that you love her and that she's beautiful, you've already got her heart.

Im a 13/m and i have a B- in my algebra one class. Im a year up and im only supposed to be in intro to algebra but now because of my B- and the fact its on my highschool record im thinking of droping out... i dont know if thats the best idea because im already 3/4 done with the year... if anyone can give me any advice id really aprreciate it!!!

Why would you drop out? That would honestly be a really stupid thing to do. School will be done in 3 months so just suck it up and stay with it for 3 measly more months. If you want, you can repeat the course again in highschool instead of taking Geometry. There is no way you can get out of taking this course anyway so why not just get it done and over with now so you don't HAVE to take it over again like many seniors in highschool have to.

Hey! some of you might know already that i am making a power point thing full of memories for my boyfriend. I need some Love quotes guys!! Please help!!

THANKS!!!!!!!

*-KeLs-*

I'm not going to list every damned love quote I know because this would take you over an hour to read. I'll just direct you to a site where you can find many of them. http://library.lovingyou.com/quotes/ there are plenty of quotes there.

What is a friend with benefits?

A friend with benifits is a friend of the opposite sex (unless you're gay or bi then it could be either or) and you get sex from them with no strings attached. Meaning, you can have sex with them and do whatever but you're not tied down in a relationship with them. It's honestly really stupid because having sex with someone gets you emotionally attached. I wouldn't suggest it.

What is a fast way to get tan...like my mom said i she would get me a membership at a tanning bed but im scared ill get skin cancer...

Whether or not you go to a tanning salon, or you're just sitting out in the sun on a beach or by a pool, you can get skin cancer either way. That's why they made this great stuff- suntan lotion. It's SPF will protect you from UV rays which would cause skin cancer. Also, it takes a long time to get skin cancer, just visiting the tanning salon once doesn't mean you'll automatically get skin cancer. There's nothing to be worried about. Just use tanning lotion. You'll be fine.

I think I'm kind of short.. I'm 13 and just a little over 5 feet.. are there any ways that can help me grow taller?

Drink more milk, stretch more. You're only 13, girls get their last growth spurt around 18 so you've got a ways to go. You still have time to grow.

Hey, how are you?
I'm a 13-yr-old teenage girl, and I hope you won't judge me because of that.
In April 2004, I met this guy. He treated me with all the respect I deserved, made me laugh, and everything. of course we had our bad times, but they were nothing serious.

I am the type of girl that doesn't trust any guy, because I have been through so much with them, and when I met him, after the 1st month, I trusted him as if he was a longtime friend. I know you may think I'm too young, but I truly believe that I have SUCH STRONG feelings for him(won't say love, even though I really want to). We used to spend everyday at school with each other, and held hands on the bus on the way home, and even had our first kiss there. He didn't have to respect my wanting to take itslow, because he was the one who took it slow. Only after the first 2 or 3 months did we share our first kiss.

In December, his brother died and he had to move away. He still called and told me how much he cared about me, and how he didn't want to leave me. He said he would come back for me no matter what, even if he had to make his dad drive him to my house, just to see me, even if it's next January, when he'll be getting his license.
But as you can see, he's different from any other guy, and I do believe that he's stuck in my heart. It pains me really bad because one day we were cuddling on the bus, and the next day, he didn't come to school, I found out what happened to his brother, and I never saw him since, and I worry about how he's dealing with this, and I want to be there for him so bad, I cry ALL the time. I really care for him. Then I got furious with my mother because she wouldn't let me go to the funeral, where I could have saw him again.

My problem is, I think that this is too much for me to handle. the constant crying, and his brother was a good friend of mines too. I often wonder why all these things were taken away from people. I need to not get over him, I don't want to, but I seriously need to find a way to handle my feelings. I can't do it alone, and my grades are suffering. I'm thinking about counseling. Do you think that would help someone like me? I really wouldn't care what my friends think of me. I just need someone to talk to.

I feel the only way to solve this is for me to see him, and I can't wait that long. I just cannot do this alone. Please try to recommend something- anything! If it helps, I'll rate 5 for anything! Is there something besides counseling, because I've already talked to my mother, and she doesn't seem to care.
I'm really really sorry this was so exhausting for you to read, but that's just how serious this is to me. Thanks so much.

Oh, wow hun, two things I'm sorry for: Not answering this for a while and for everything you're going through! It wasn't too exhausing for me to read. At the young age of 13, I could see why that would be so much to handle. I remember when I was 13 I had so much on my plate but it seems like nothing compaired to what you have to go through right now. I would definately reccomend seeing a counselor. Trust me, they can work wonders. I was seeing one for about a year and a half because I had major depression and I was suicidal. My suggestion to you is to try to go see a counselor. As for this boy I would say you should try to call him pretty much any chance you can get, and as for your grades slipping, if he's older than you, you can have him help you with school work so that way you're basically killing two birds with one stone. You can talk to you're mom about what you're feeling. You're mom may seem like she doesn't care, but if you really sit down with her and talk to her about how serious this is, she might understand. You should also take time out after school and during your lunch period to sit down with your teachers and go over things that are going on with your work. Try to set aside weekends once or twice a month just for the two of you to meet up and hang out all day, go to the mall, catch an early movie and get a bite to eat somewhere. I want you to keep this in mind: "Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle; rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be." If you truely love him and he truely loves you, then you will overcome any obstacle that will get between the two of you. And I had noticed when you had said "I have SUCH STRONG feelings for him(won't say love, even though I really want to)" You could have said you loved him. Love is possible at any age. I was in love at 13, trust me, I know what it's like to be in love at a young age and then have pretty much everything thrown down the drain. My ex boyfriend broke up with me and I was completely in love with him. At least you still have him and he still wants to be with you. My current boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and it's hard not seeing him every day of the week like I was used to. But waiting to see him, makes every little thing in life worthwhile. You really need to try to talk to you're mother and ask her to take you at the very least once or twice a month to go see him. You two can do what my parents and my boyfriends parents do: Find a halfway mark between where both of you live, meet there and then you can either go to his house or he can go to yours. If you're mother won't take you to see an actual counselor, go and talk to the one in your school. Even talking to your friends helps so much. Having a group of friends to talk to is basically like one big therapy group, sharing problems and sharing solutions. I'm in hopes that everything works out for you and I hope you and your loved one will soon meet again. But please keep that quote I told you in mind. If you two can get through this, you can get through anything. I wish you the best of luck. If you need anything else, anything at all, please do not hesitate at all to drop something into my inbox.

♥Emily♥

Hey! If You have a favorite quote, or an inspiring something to share: please do!

I'll rate all 5's! Promice:)

-*KeLs*-

-Never break the heart that loves you

-If you aren't willing to risk it all, then you don't want it bad enough

-The world is going to give us a million reasons why this won't work, but all we need is just *1* good reason why it will.

-To some people, forever just isn't long enough.

-"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more; that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds .... That's what you've given me and that's what I hope to give to you forever."

-The Notebook

okay well on thomas' myspace editor, there is a thing where you can turn on the image effects and i wanted mine to virtical flip when you pur ur mouse over it and it just stays still! plz help! ill rate 5s!

Well, no one seemed to answer this so I guess I will. Click on the following link: http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/editor.htm You can change all the colors on your myspace and whatnot. When you scroll down where it says Image Effects Off, click the down arrow so that it says On then click on the one that you want. Hope this helped.

Does anyone know a very good way to get rid of warts, like on your hands and stuff, because, I've tried so many products and they suck. So, does anyone have any recommendations?

I had a wart on my hand and I tried pretty much everything to get rid of it. I went to my doctor, and she ended up burning it off. She puts novacaine on your wart through a shot, then pretty much burns it off with this special tool (no clue what it is). They go away permanently and it's not painful at all. You might be left with a small scar, but other than that nothing will be there. It's quick and it takes about a week or a few days for it to heal. Hope this helped.

Does anyone know where i can get a cute pair of dress shoes that are pink, and are kind of strappy or sandal like? Thanks! I live in NJ...and i need them by friday. x0

Journey's, Macy's, Payless, Wal*mart(they have cute ones) JCPenny's, Charlotte Russe, Mandee, Aldo... That's all I can think of. Hope this helped.

i dont know if this sounds weird but do guys mind girls making the first move? i mean like the only reason why i am asking is because i am going out with one of my good friends right now and it is kind of weird but i like him and i want to do stuff with him.. but i dont know if he thinks its weird to and is waiting for me to.. because he is a nice guy and he wouldnt try to make you do anything so yea i dont know what to do and i know its not like a big deal but could you give me some advice cause u seem experienced.. thanks hunn

If your guys really shy, he might be expecting for you to be making the first move. Wait it out a couple of days (3-4) and see if he makes any moves. If nothing happens, try to start hinting at things, get your face like really close to his and kind of brush your lips on his cheek to hint that you want to kiss him. Try to be more flirtatious wit him, touch him more, hug him more, hold his hand in the hallways at school (if you guys go to the same school). Kiss his neck a little, go up to him and kind of hug him but grab both of his hands with yours and wrap his hands around your waist and then put your arms around his neck and just give him a couple soft kisses on his neck. That should pretty much give him a few good hints. Hope this helped.

don't you hate when people send you bad, or annoying, or just stupid feedback! its so annoying!!!!! i mean, shouldn't they give you more than a 1 if you at least TRIED to answer their question? i mean, look at my column (shortie

Find the question edit the question and delete the questoin and most of the time, the rating won't show up for that specific question. You also have to understand we have quite a few assholes on this site that like to be obnoxious and give people bad ratings just for the sheer fact that they are assholes. And when you said that you gave her the best advice out of all the advice there, that is your opinion. Yes, you may have thought that you gave the best advice out of everyone, but maybe the person who asked the question didn't think so. Don't get upset when you get ones, everyone on this site has gotten one at one point or another. Do your best and give the best advice you can, you shouldn't care what other people think about your advice. If you think you give great advice, then think that you give great advice. It may not be true, but keep in mind that everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Good luck.

For some reason my rating isn't showing up in my column or anywhere else like it used to. Does anyone know how I can get it back on my column?

Go to this site: http://advicenators.com/tools.php?feedback=1 you may not have been given a rating in the past 30 days so it won't show up on your column. If you go to that site, it should show up and show you what your rating is and what all the ratings in the past 30 days were. If there are no ratings there, then you have not been rated in the last thirty days. If there are ratings shown there, go back to your column and check and see if it's there, if not then you should contact the site admin. Hope this helped. ♥

I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one

It doesn't hurt to get your braces off at all. It takes them probably about 20 minutes to a half an hour to take them off. One thing that might hurt is when you get a retainer and you don't wear it for a long time and try to get it back in. You're teeth will have shifted and the retainer is basically keeping them back into the same spot where they were when you got your braces off. Hope this helped.

Hey im 16, and iv had sex alittle over a few times. It seems that almost every time i have sex, I get these weird pains in my stomach (almost like his thing is puncturing my insides), what is this? Can i fix it?

If you're boyfriend is penitrating his penis too far into you and he's big, it's basically his penis putting pressure onto your cervix which is causing the pain. You could have him not go in all the way which will pretty much stop the pain. Other than that there is no way to "fix" it. It's quite normal for all women to feel that pain when they have sex. When I lost my virginity, the same thing happened to me, it's very normal for it to be happening. You might also get this weird feeling like right by the top of your butt like a stinging kind of a feeling and that's pretty much all the same thing and it's normal. If the pain is unbearable for you, tell your boyfriend not to do it that hard and not to go in that deep. Be safe! Hope this helped.

umm what do you have to do when you want to add music to your advice column?

Actually, moderators don't really like music being on the site but you can go to starlightmarks.com and urbnmix.net

My friends and I are going camping in Summer- has anyone got any nice, healthy vegetarian recipes that can be cooked over the fire? Also, how do you cook things over an open fire? Thanks.

Well to start out, cooking things over an open fire is quite simple. At any camping supply store, they sell these metal rods that you pretty much shove through the food you're going to cook and hold it over the fire until it's cooked completely. This isn't a vegitarian recipe but it's really tastey: Take apples (any kind you'd like) and stick it on one of those metal rods, hold it over the fire until it starts to brown a little, let it cool and eat it! They're sooooo good. I used to eat those all the time when I went camping. You can pretty much do that with any fruit and it tastes really good! I'm not a vegetarian, so I'm really sorry I couldn't give any recipies.

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