Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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My best friend and I always go shopping at the mall together, but there`s been a problem lately. My friend always wants us to match & it's starting to get annoying because I want my own style. For example: We both were shopping together & saw the same purses. We ended up buying the same one`s but in different colors, and now my friend wants to make a habit of this and buy matching purses for every season like a fall purse, winter purse, etc. This friend & I went to the mall this past Sunday [ Yesterday ] and she saw what I had picked out to buy, it was like a tshirt and a pair of jeans, and then she picked out the same one`s. She DID ask if I was okay with her buying the same thing`s as me and since I was on the spot, I said yes. Well now I don`t really want to have the same thing`s as my friend, because I want to be an individual, not a twin!! I`m not sure what I should do or say, because I would feed bad asking my friend to take back her purchases and I don`t want to take back mine. So what I`m asking, is, what should I do to stop the matching in the future? Please Help!!
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hahah, i used to have this same problem except it wasn't just clothes: stuffed animals, makeup, buttons, everything. what i just started doing was pointing out other things to her and helped her try and get her own style. i'd be like,"hey, check this out! this looks so great on you, you should totally get it!" and try and get her to veer off into other things. another thing i would do is remember in my head what i wanted to buy, and then as she went to head to the counter to go on ahead, i'm just checking out something, and whenever she'd head over, i'd grab everything i wanted and go buy it while she's already paying for her stuff. or while she was dressing in the dressing room, i'd go do it.
but, if that doesn't work, i suggest talking to her in teh nicest way possible about it. just be like,"_____ look, i think it's really cool that you want to match and everything, and i'm not trying to sound mean or anything, it's just.. i sort of want my own style. and you should have your own sort of style too. i mean it's cool whenever we get some matching purses sometimes, but not all the time. i sort of want to have my own individuality, you know? just like you want yours." [ or something like that ]
i hope i helped.
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Everyone keeps asking me what I want them to get me for my birthday next week. I really don't know what to say. I told them they don't need to buy me anything, but they keep asking! What should I do? (link)
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I always just go with the casual "suprise me!" or "you know me, get something you'd think i'd like, or just get me cash or something". But if they still keep asking, just be like "gift cards, a shirt maybe, shoes, uh, CD's, iTUNES gift card, a bath kit [ like with lotion, face mask, creams, etc. ]". I hope I helped.
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Okay, I'm 13/f
I love school for two reasons- my friends and getting away from my mom. Lately my mom had her tooth puolled and she's been whining and groaning and yelling at me and being nice to my brother. I feel like a burden, That's why I hate it at home. ShouldI get professional help w/ my problems or ask my friends because they help me with alot like I help them. I'm closer to them than I am my whole family. I've told my one of my Boy BFF's who understands (and who I like but thats different) me, but he swore not o tell and now I'm thinking I should tell this teacher who everyone loves including me, but I'm not sure soooo.... what do you think?
Jeni (link)
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yeah, a teacher or a guidance counselor could be a good person to talk to. but make sure you really trust them and everything. but you have to be careful, though. cause sometimes if teachers or guidance counselors think it's really bad, they could try talking to the mother or visting the house or something.
so, unless you really want to, just try talking to your friends too. it seems they're really helpful, and they're trustworthy, and they're your age, so they can obviously relate more with stuff happening and everything.
that kind of how it is with me. with my grandparents and stuff, i'll get yelled at if i don't talk to them or hug them or something, whereas my brother NEVER visits them or if he does something he might not get in trouble. it's weird, isn't it? but what i do to just get away is, i just sit in my room, light some candles, play music or read a book or just sit back and watch tv. sometimes i even lock the door if i don't want anybody coming in. and if you ever want to release feelings, and nobody there to talk t, just write to yourself and keep it somewhere special so nobody else can read it.
i hope i helped.
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i havent seen my friend all summer so we kinda drifted apart since school ended. i was talking to her online but she was kinda ignoring me and didn't say much. when i asked her what shes been doing lately she just says "nothing" and i was expecting an actual full answer from her. i've been asking her to hang out but she makes up a stupid excuse every day why she can't. and get this, ill ask her to hang out she will say she cant then 2 seconds later her away message is "going to ___'s house" i can't stand it. and it happens all the time too. shes not a busy person and she couldnt find 1 day this whole summer to hang out with me. if i call her she says she has to go within a minute and just hangs up. i've had several conversations with her asking her what the problem is and she treats me like a 2 year old and says i need to get over it.school is starting soon and we are on oposite sides of the school and we wont see eachother will keep us farther apart from eachother. i want my best friend back. the one that likes to talk and be around me. what can i do to get her back? (link)
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well, first of all, i don't think you should try becoming friends with her again. i mean, what kind of friend treats you like that? makes up all these excuses for not hanging out with you or talking to you on the phone?
i'm sorry to say, but this is the one bad thing about summer. friendships can sometimes end if people don't talk that much, and it seems she's not making a huge effort to keep the friendship alive. :l
i might want to try and give it one last shot and talk to her. just be ask her what's going on and does she even want to be friends anymore, because she's been ignoring you so much lately. and if she doesn't try and talk it out with you, i just say move on and find someone who'll treat you alot better. i hope i helped.
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okaty firstly, sorry if this is long. but please read.
okay, me and my ex dated for 3 years. and i`m in 8th and hes in 7th.. and we broke up when i was in 7th and he was in 6th because he wsa in middle school and i was in highschool. and idk we just grew apart.. (We broke up september of lastyear) and we went out a few times after that when we were still in diff. schools.. but it didnt work.. and over tha summer.. we were gonna go out .. ut idk it never happened i guess.. and now we`re in the same school... (today was the first day) and now that im like around him, since we`rre in the same wing (hallway).. i really miss him.. we havent really talked but everytime he sees me he runs into me and such. i still have lots of feelings for him and i can tell he still likes me.. but i dont know what i should do =[ any advice?
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Well, if you guys both like eachother and are in the same school, totally go for it! But don't just walk up to him and ask him out right away if you guys haven't talked in awhile. Just run up to him someday and ask him how he's doing and everything [ catch him while he's alone so it can just be you two talking privately ] and just be like,"Hey! Whats up? How was your summer? I really miss you, we don't talk as much as we used to. We should start talking more often. :]" and then just continue on from there. And then after awhile, just be like,"___, I just wanted to let you know that I still have feelings for you, and I don't know if you want to or not, but I was wondering if you wanted to go back out with me?" [ or something similar ]. I hope I helped.
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16 female.
i'll try and make is as short as possible but its kinda complicated so..SORRY!
well this kid that had a girlfriend of almost a year and a half broke up. and i knew that he still really liked her but was really attracted to me too! and so he slept over at my cousins house (theyre both 14) and so my other cousin/best friend nikki (whose 15) thought this kid ben was soo hott! and so then they wanted me to sleepover at their house but i couldnt so then i got on at like 12 the next day and i was talking to my cousin nikki and then all of a sudden someone types come pick me up and im like what? and it was ben saying that. and hes like i havent seen you in forever we can go rollin around. so i picked him up and i went shoe shopping for a bit and then i was like now what u pick. and hes like lets go get something to eat. so he payed for me even though i offered to and then hes like now what should we do. and hes like lets go see a movie and i was like ohhh jeeze. and he payed for me in that too and i say i could pay! so we did and of course he wanted to see a scary movie! and so then we were sitting there and in the previews hes like let me see your phone and then he typed to me..you look really cute today and im like not uh you didnt let me get ready you loser! and hes like yes you do you look beautiful everytime i see you. and then we kept typing back and forth on my phone and hes like is it bad that im younger and im like i dont know kinda why? and hes like why do you think i kept asking you who you liked. and then i was like i dont know?? and hes like would you mind if i got closer haha. and im like it dont matter to me! and hes like would you be mad if i kissed you because i want to. and im like probably not and hes like would you kiss me back? and im like..yeah what else would i do! and hes like allright then im gonna. so he got closer and then we started kissing and making out in the movie. and then we were like laying down on the seats (yeah dont ask how) and he was like kissing my neck and rubbing my stomach haha and hes like you have the sexiest stomache ever. and he kept complimenting me but then he was like do you want to jack me off? and im like NOO! and i patted his head :D because im not like that. ive only madeout one other time before this! and so then it was all done and over with but now he keeps calling me and talking to me and at the movie he kept asking if he could kiss me and after a while i was like no..no.. because i wasnt really attracted to him it was weird! so i dont like him like that but do you think he has a thing for me? or just wants to get into my pants. what should i say? because i dont want to be like i just want to be friends because what if he is like i dont even like you or something? ahh i didnt even plan on doing any of this it was such a surprise! and then he was like you cant tell ANYONE about this promise? and i already told my cousin nikki and im like okay..and hes like ok and i wont too! so i was like what the hell? he doesnt want it to get out probably so that girl doesnt find out and stuff. this is messed up! im soo confused. (link)
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Well, it seems to me like he sort of just wants to get into your pants. Cause laying down on the seats in a movie theater and asking you if he can jack off? Eh, gross. The next few times you guys hang out, whenever he tries to kiss you or anything, don't let him do it and see how he reacts. If he maybe stops talking to you, or he's persistant and keeps asking if he can, or doesn't call you back or anything, then it really seems that's all he's there for. And if you weren't really attracted to him, you don't HAVE to make out with him or anything. If you don't feel comfortable with it or anything, then don't do it. And I don't get why he doesn't want that girl to find out. See, it seems to me like he still likes her and all, and maybe he's just on the rebound? Like I said, just don't do anything with him for awhile and see if he calls you still and talks to you and everything. I hope I helped.
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15/f;; my bf has awful mood swings [16/m]. ive been talkin to him since i got home from school so basically about 5 hours [this is normal haha] anyway he was totally fine and then like in the last hour he got super quiet and was just giving short little answers to questions -- mm hm. no. yeah. k. -- we didnt argue or anything, he jus kinda shifted moods. he does this a good bit. a lot of the time, hes not in a good mood when he comes home from work [he works at least 6 hours a day 5 days a week] so i try to cheer him up then, but he didnt even work today. he knows he can tell me anything and that ill be there for him nmw, but whenever i ask him whats wrong he always says 'nothing', when somethin clearly is botherin him. im a gerenally mellow happy optimistic person and do my best to cheer ppl up, and he says that i make him happy since im like that, but when he gets like that i really have no idea what to say to him. i have like no words of encouragement or anything. do yall kno anything i can say to help cheer him up?? i hate feeling helpless!! thx (link)
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Yeah, I've been in that situation before. Sometimes there's just nothing you can do. People just tend to get depressed at times, probably just like you do, and he just might need some time alone and not to be talking to anybody [ which may be why he's not talking to you that much ] and he knows you're there for him and everything, but sometimes nothing can cheer people up. Maybe he is also suffering from depression, maybe? Maybe he can try talking to a psychiartist or a guidance counselor if he feels depressed alot of the time. But, you say he's happy and optimistic, so that might not be the problem. Just let him know that whenever he's ready to talk and if he ever does want to talk about why he's sad, just to give you a call or an IM or something. I hope I helped.
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Hi, I'm going into 10th grade 16/m- and school hasn't even started yet...
Well.. the harrassment has been going on since 4th grade...
Basically all the popular people and the majority of my class think that I'm a fag (like gay).. but I'm not.. I have a girlfriend of 6 months.. and we're really happy together...
I don't even act gay at all.. everyone just thinks I am.. and I think it's because most of my friends are girls.. but I don't understand why that would make me gay- because wouldn't that mean that I like hanging out with girls because they are nice to me??
I just feel like no one cares about me and everyone is making fun of me
Another thing.. I am one of the smartest people in the class (4.0 average).. and I always do good on tests.. do people make fun of me because they are jealous that I get good grades and they don't.. I mean I don't go around bragging about my grades.. people ask me what I got.. and I just tell them in a modest way...
I don't understand why everyone thinks I'm a homo.. when I'm not...
oh.. and on myspace- I put up a picture that was the one everyone does (upside down peace sign with big sunglasses).. so then one of the people who makes fun of me posts a comment about it saying "wow ur a homo" so i posted a comment back saying "i was making fun of myspace.. lol".. so then he posts regular comments saying stuff like "i wasn't kidding about the pic comment" and "everyone thinks you're a fag" and "we hate you"...
So that just made me think of how much my class despises me- and I don't even say anything mean to them.. I try being nice.. but they just aren't.. the only ones who actually care about me are my close friends.. and that's only like 10 people max. outta the 250-300 in my class...
Am I just worried about nothing?
Am I really that much of a loser?
Please don't say "go talk to a counselor" because I tried that in middle school and the counselor was really stupid about it
Please help!
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You're not a loser. Kids today might not even literally be calling you "gay". That word today has so many different meanings. It can mean like "you're dumb" "that's stupid/sucks", etc.
They're probably just jealous because you're doing so well in school and you get better grades than them, and especially the guys'll be jealous that you hang out with all the girls alot and are friends with them.
And of course, it's highschool. What do people always do, especially the popular people? They pick on eachother. And usually they pick on others because they have their own little insecurites about themselves, so they take it out on others and bring them down and make them feel horrible about themselves, just to make themselves feel better and look better to other people. Some people are such jerks.
What I suggest doing is just forgetting about them and ignoring them. Even if you only have 10 friends, they're 10 friends that like you for you, and won't even make fun of you, and are there for you and you can hang out with and have fun. So just enjoy the rest of your school experience [ and you'll only be there for 2 more years, it's not like you'll see these people for the rest of your life ] and just have fun with your friends. Who cares what the popular people have to say? Once they hit college, their opinions'll mean nothing. Gah, anyways. Sorry for the rant, but I hope I helped.
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I have a cousin who is 18 and she is obsessed with stephen coletti from laguna beach. it is really bad and scary and gross. she actually thinks in her messed up nut of a mind that she is gonna marry the guy. she bought like a really expensive gown/dress thing and always tells me how they are gonna name their kids peachy and cory. meanwhile i am sitting there thing of the best escape route out of that physcos house. she even has a pillow with his face on it and she actually masterbates with it and licks it and now their are wierd stains on it and everything! SCARY I KNOW... when she tells me all this stuff sometimes i just wanna sock her. her room is filled with pictures of him and she talks about how great his sex IS and all the dreams of making out with him. i have no idea what she means by "IS" she doesnt even know the poor man. she tries to make me dress up like him..so she can do "stuff" =\..FOR ME THAT WAS THE LAST STRAW. she actually cries when there are no autographs by him on ebay. i am scared for the guy if she ever meets him....does she need a boyfriend or a swift kick in the butt or SOMETHING? I AM DESPERATE AND GROWING SCARED OF HER. WHAT DO I DO? tell someone?..i think it may be serious...are other obsessed fans like this?.. help =[ 19/f (link)
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Oh my, haha. That really is freaky. Yeah, there are obssesed fans with picture of celebrities on their pillows, but not to the extent I think of where they make people dress up like them and do stuff with their pillows and everything. You just really need to be brutally honest with your friend, because she needs a serious wake-up call. Just be like,"Listen, _____, I know you're like, in love with Stephen and everything and that's cool, I mean it's normal for all teenagers to have crushes on celebrities, but seriously, this is getting way out of hand. The chances of you meeting him are really slim and the chances of marrying him are even slimmer [sp]. I know I'm sounding really harsh here, but you really need to realize how obsessed you are. I'm just getting really worried about you because everything's getting way out of hand. You need a guy who is actually obtainable and you can really be with and everything and who'll be awseome and you won't need his picture on your pillow or anything because you can just call him and hang out with him and everything." [ or something like that ] But you really need to tell her the truth, and if that doesn't work, she really needs to talk to someone or something cause I'm sorry, but that's like, WAY over obsessive. I know, I sound mean, but I'm sorry. :l I hope I helped though.
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(not sure if this is in the right category, if not SORRY!) anyway my big problem is i had my FIRST ever period on July 5th, and i havn't had it since! i'm really really worried. and i've never had sex so it wouldn't be that i'm pregnant. (i'm 14)
also, i'm pretty sure it was a period and not my hymen broke. because it lasted for 4 days.
please help me, i've been worried since august 20th! thanks. (link)
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there's nothing to worry about. my period actually hasn't happened yet [ and the "due date" was like, 10 days ago ] and i talked to my mother about it yesterday and she said that whenever you're younger, your period can be irregular at times and especially within the first year of having one. so don't expect it to always come whenever you think it is. but make sure to keep a chart to tell your doctor whenever she asks you next how much time it takes for your periods to come. so, no worries. yeah, it's not your hymen. the only way it can break is if you're really really active or horseback ride [ rarely though ] or you've had sex, which obviously, you haven't. I hope I helped.
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hI,I have a question. The thing is I really want to become a Goth. Only I have failed all my GCSEs in school. i only got a few G grades (apart from getting a C in English)
The thing I need to ask is: don't you have to be quite clever to be a Goth. They write poetry and draw/paint but I don't have a clue about any of these things so couldn't do them. Can I still become a Goth? If so how would I go about it?Or do you DEFINATELY have to write poetry/paint to be a Goth? Am i too thick? Will my lack of eduaction pose problems if I'm going to become a Goth?
Also I AM PANICKING SEVERELY OVER MY FUTURE/OPTIONS/EDUCATION but for a time I was thinking about working with horses. ONLY THINKING!!! i wanted to explore all my options.
was thinking of going to college to do Equine(horse) studies so that I could eventually get a Job with horses. Could I still be a Goth if I did this? If so then how? I haven't seen many Goths around stable yards.should I just be a Goth In my spare time?
Also I might not work with horses I might choose to do something else. What types of Jobs do/can Goths get? And would employers be put off employing them because they're Goths?
Can you provide me with any answers. PLEASE HELP!!!! I'm sorry if this is a really strange question by the way!!!!
I live in England by the way.
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Okay, you're thinking wayyyy too much into this Goth thing. "Goth", is just a label. The reason people dress that way and draw and everything is because that's just what they like to do, that's what they're into, and that's their lifestyle. So if you want to dress like one, dress like. If you can't draw, don't draw. If you don't want to write poetry, don't write poetry. You can be whatever you want to be, do whatever you want to do. I'm sorry, but you're thinking too much into the "label" that is "Goth". You can be a stupid Goth, a horse-riding Goth, whatever. If that's what your into, by all means, do it.
But it is, however, difficult to get a job if you're dressed all in black with piercings and such. I might suggest working at Hot Topic or somewhere where they don't really mind piercings and tattoos and dyed hair and everything.
I'm sure no Hilton Hotels will hire you if you have dyed hair and piercings and everything, because that'd be unprofessional.
But I'm sure in a few years you won't want to be "Goth" anymore, because it's probably just a phase. And I'm sure as you get older, whenever you have kids and want a real good job not at Hot Topic, you'll want to dress different.
I hope I helped.
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OK my best friend is going out with my ex and i think i still have feelings for him. They are trying to help me through it but nothing is working. Can you help me? (link)
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The best thing you can do really is to just not think about him, not look at him, nothing. And just hang out with your friends and live life and maybe even flirt with other guys, and just try and get your mind off of him. It's really hard to at first, I know, but slowly after awhile one day you're just sitting there and you're like,"pft. i don't like him anymore." I remember I did that with my ex, and whenever I finally thought of him one day, I completely forgot his last name! But there is a reason you two broke up, so keep thinking of that too. Just be like,"If [reason], why would I want to go back out with him?" And plus, you can't tell your best friend to stop dating the guy she likes or anything. She talk to your best friend about it. Just ask her if she can not talk about him as much since you're trying to get over him so reminding you of him might not help? If they're trying to help you get through it, then I'm sure she'll understand. I hope I helped.
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does anyone know any good mascaras and where to buy them? my eyelashes are extremely long, but arent really that thick so maybe one that makes them thicker or more defined? i really have no idea...
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I get this masacara called Maybelline, and it works really well. Actually, in the one magazine I bought last month, it said Maybelline and some other mascara were the two best kinds to buy. And plus, you can get it in any drugstore, so it's really not that much money. Here it only costs about 5 bucks. The bottle is pink and then the lid is green, so it's never really that hard to look for compared to all the black mascara bottles there are. Here's a picture, just in case:
http://pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/10998/200.jpg
I hope I helped.
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I have two friends that dont really like each other. The one is my best friend and the one is my second best friend. Lately I have realized I have a tendency to sort of "talk trash" on one friend when I'm with the other one. I dont really mean to do it, and it isnt anything extremely big, but it just comes natural like if something is bugging me about one I come to the other to vent, and then I realize "oh crap" later. And I'm not talking major trash just little things. But even that feels like I'm stabbing the other in the back. I feel like I do this because I am so close with each that I feel like I can talk about anything with each of them, but then I feel terrible after I realize what I've done! How can I stop this nasty habit!? (link)
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Whenever your one friend begins to trash on the other, just keep your mouth shut, don't comment or anything and just let her vent. And when she's done, start talking about something else. Or just be honest. Just be like,"_____, I really don't feel comfortable with you trash-talking about _____ because you know she's my best friend too. Just like if she ever were to trash-talk you, I would tell her the same exact thing." And if you feel the urge to let out, talk to your parents or just write it out. Sometimes whenever I get mad at someone, I just open up my word documents and pretend I'm telling it to someone and lashing everything I'm feeling out. And then right afterwards, I delete it, so it's never read, never said. I hope I helped.
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im not poor like at all but when i go shopping i usually need like a couple hundred bucks cause i like nice stuff lol and usually my parenst only give me like 50-100 and im 13/f so i need to know some jobs please! thanks babe (link)
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well, since you're only 13, you really can't get a real job yet, so you'll have to do alot of chores.
try:
walking dogs,
wash dogs/pets,
mowing lawns/weeding,
trimming hedges,
cleaning houses,
wash dishes,
take out garbage,
do the laundry,
babysit,
wash cars,
wash bikes, rollerskates, etc.
wash windows,
water flowers,
wash floors,
maybe bake brownies or something and then go around the neighborhood asking if they'd like to buy one for.. $5,
have a garage sale,
if you have an old brand names clothes you don't wear, and if you have a PLATOS CLOSET in the area, you can sell your clothes there, and if they like them, they'll give you cash. [ platoscloset.com ],
orangize people's stuff,
if you know things about computers/cellphones or anything, tell people you'll teach them how to work it.
just ask around and see if there's anything you can do.
make some fliers and post them around the neighborhood and provide your number so they can call you when they want something done.
I hope I helped.
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im a female thats 14.I know a guy named robert that I knew since 4th grade.He's my bestfriend and I really care about him.Near the beginning of 5th grade I found out from one of his friends that he really likes me.Robert didnt know his friend told me and he didnt want me to know...yet.I just acted like I never knew he liked me and nothing changed.
A year later robert and i got to go to the same m-school,and we started to hang around more.robert was really shy for some reason and people started to tease for that.I stuck up for him and people stopped cause i was one of those people that every one called `popular`.he started to like me even more and he finally got the courage to ask me out.I said yes cause i started to like him too.
Now 2 more years later wich is right now weve been going out since then.I find out he's cheating on me with some bitch.and then i find out its true.I break up with him and tell him i dont even want to be his friend.he is pretty emotional so i find out from one of his guy friends that he was crying in the bathroom.im one of those people that hate when people cheat but im also a nice person that hates to see people cry.he ends up going to my house after school and begging for me to forgive him.i tell him ill think about it.now should i forgive him or not? (link)
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well, whenever guys cheat, that usually means there's something about that girl that she has that you might've not had, so what's to say he won't repeat himself. and if he really had loved you, he would never have cheated on you. "once a cheater, always a cheater". but it does look like he's really sorry for what happened because of him crying in the bathroom and everything, so i would forgive him, but i wouldn't go back out with him. just tell him you want to remain really good friends, and then wait for awhile and see what happens. if you decide to go back out with him again, do so. but be careful and make sure he will never cheat on you again. i hope i helped.
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well, I have known this guy since i was 5. I am 14 now and hes about to turn 15 and we've been best friends for a great while now. && he always tells me he cares about me and he wants to do stuff with me and that i should because he actually cares about me and all that. Then he was telling me today that i am the only girl that actually really cares about him and doesnt use him. And he knows i have feelings for him, hes great. But, its like i want to do stuff with him cuz i do care about him but i feel weird doing it. We've kissed a couple times and it felt weird at first then it felt natural. && in all the movies best friends always end up doing stuff and he told that to me which i already knew. And i believe that he truly does care about me, but its the fact that he is my best friend.
Anyone wanna help me?
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Well, if you two both have feelings for eachother, why not just start dating? Because that's what ALSO happens in the movies. The best friends start dating. And, if you just do the whole "friends with benefits" thing, that'll end weird if one of you two ever find yourselves a boyfriend/girlfriend because you two'll obviously not be able to anymore. And just because he cares about you, does mean you SHOULD do this or SHOULD do that, you should do it whenever you feel comfortable and wanting to do it. I understand, too, that'd it'd be really weird doing stuff with your best friend, so just try asking him out. You already know he likes you. And if he says no, then that probably means he just wants a hook-up buddy, which I don't know if you'd really want to be. I hope I helped.
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hi, well im not a politics type of guy, so i dont know why george bush and tony blair are hated so much. what have they done thats so bad? (link)
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I'm not too political myself, but from what I've heard..
Well, the fact is, this whole stupid war is happening just for oil. All these soldiers and innocent people over in Afghanistan are basically getting killed over some oil. I mean, I agree Osama should be found and caught and everything, but there's no reason for the rest of them who didn't do ANYTHING to suffer. And also, I forget at what point of the war or what happened [ but I remember it being a big deal ] and where was Bush? He was on sitting there on vacation while it was happening. And I just looked up in an article somewhere that in 2003, Bush spent 166 days of his presidency at his ranch in Texas and has taken off 255 days as of August 2003. That was 27% of his presidency spent on vacation. And another reason people tend to hate him is because he comes off dumb. I once decided to watch a interview he was doing just to see what he'd say and everything, and I didn't hear any big words or anything. Just simple words that me or even like, younger kids could understand. And then, after his speech he tried getting out the door, and he couldn't! He did it for a little and then realized it was a "pull/push" door. [ I forget if he was pushing or pulling ] And I don't know anything about Tony Blair, haha. But I hope I helped.
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okay.
does anyone remember the show that was on tv .. probably early morning about 5 years ago. it was on TLC but it could have been on other channels.
it was a man who would draw a picture with a black marker first then color it in. it was kind of like a drawing entertainment show.
i would really like to know what this show was called!
SOMEBODY HELP! thank you. (link)
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HA OMG, I HAVEN'T THOUGHT OF THAT SHOW IN YEARS.
I think I know what you're talking about!
Pappyland, I believe it was called.
Haha omg I used to love that show, I watched it all the time. Whenever kid's mimick his drawings, they could send them in and they'd show them off at the end of the show.
I hope I helepd! :D
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ok whenever i swallow (like hard or forcefully kinda) it feels like i'm swallowing a lump. its kinda bitter, and its at the the back of my throat. it kinda almost feels like its made up of mucus. what is it? i've had it for at least 4 years if that helps any (link)
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Sometimes whenever mucus and stuff builds up, people get that way whenever they feel sick or something. But if you've had it four years, I'd highly reccommend going to the doctor soon and asking him about and have him check out what's going on. I tried Googling up what's happening to you, and this site came up:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/RespiratoryDisorders/messages/1001.html
So maybe you can read that and check it out and see if it's similar to what you have. I hope I helped.
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