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stephen coletti obsession GROSS


Question Posted Monday August 28 2006, 11:01 pm

I have a cousin who is 18 and she is obsessed with stephen coletti from laguna beach. it is really bad and scary and gross. she actually thinks in her messed up nut of a mind that she is gonna marry the guy. she bought like a really expensive gown/dress thing and always tells me how they are gonna name their kids peachy and cory. meanwhile i am sitting there thing of the best escape route out of that physcos house. she even has a pillow with his face on it and she actually masterbates with it and licks it and now their are wierd stains on it and everything! SCARY I KNOW... when she tells me all this stuff sometimes i just wanna sock her. her room is filled with pictures of him and she talks about how great his sex IS and all the dreams of making out with him. i have no idea what she means by "IS" she doesnt even know the poor man. she tries to make me dress up like him..so she can do "stuff" =\..FOR ME THAT WAS THE LAST STRAW. she actually cries when there are no autographs by him on ebay. i am scared for the guy if she ever meets him....does she need a boyfriend or a swift kick in the butt or SOMETHING? I AM DESPERATE AND GROWING SCARED OF HER. WHAT DO I DO? tell someone?..i think it may be serious...are other obsessed fans like this?.. help =[ 19/f

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kiron591 answered Thursday August 31 2006, 4:39 pm:
wat you need 2 do is tell her 2 come 2 reality,and if shes that much of a psyco just stop going 2 her house. then you wont have 2 worry about it anymore and move on with your life

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hannahd answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 9:52 pm:
Okay, it's one thing to get on ebay & look for signed autographs by him. But anything past that is..just sick & obsessive. I don't think you can really sit there & yell at her for her problems because she obvioulsy doesn't see anything wrong with it. So maybe she does need to see someone. It just sounds like it's really crossed the line.

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naturally_sadie answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 8:52 am:
Oh my gosh, ew that is so nasty. Thats not normal and it needs to stop now. I have 2 very good choices for you. Choice 1 : Bring her to a phycoligist where they can give her full attention and the help she needs. Make sure you find a really good one that's proven to work so she can get over this obsession. 2. You could always get her to be on the "My Own" show on MTV where MTV finds 6 potential people that are just like Steven Coletti and she can choose which one she wants as her boyfriend. I love that show, and if you could find a way to get on it I think that would really work although its a little out there, haha.

Best of luck.
♥

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christina answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 4:37 am:
Wow, she's a little weird. Get her some help, and if it doesn't work, tell her dumb ass to go on My Own on MTV. And then she can have someone just like him.

♥TiNA

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Jodieee answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 2:14 am:
She needs professional help.
Tell her that you are very worried and this is NOT a normal thing. Get her help, she needs counciling.

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MelLeDisko answered Monday August 28 2006, 11:57 pm:
Oh my, haha. That really is freaky. Yeah, there are obssesed fans with picture of celebrities on their pillows, but not to the extent I think of where they make people dress up like them and do stuff with their pillows and everything. You just really need to be brutally honest with your friend, because she needs a serious wake-up call. Just be like,"Listen, _____, I know you're like, in love with Stephen and everything and that's cool, I mean it's normal for all teenagers to have crushes on celebrities, but seriously, this is getting way out of hand. The chances of you meeting him are really slim and the chances of marrying him are even slimmer [sp]. I know I'm sounding really harsh here, but you really need to realize how obsessed you are. I'm just getting really worried about you because everything's getting way out of hand. You need a guy who is actually obtainable and you can really be with and everything and who'll be awseome and you won't need his picture on your pillow or anything because you can just call him and hang out with him and everything." [ or something like that ] But you really need to tell her the truth, and if that doesn't work, she really needs to talk to someone or something cause I'm sorry, but that's like, WAY over obsessive. I know, I sound mean, but I'm sorry. :l I hope I helped though. <3

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