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neighbor wont leave my family alone
im 13 and my sister is 9 and our next door neighbors have 2 sons (one is 6 ryan and one is 9 chris) my sister and chris are best friends and they do everything together and hes always at our house or shes always at his house. they cannot be seperated, ever. but the younger son (the 6 year old) who is the most whiny cry baby annoying kid in the whole world always has to tag along with chris. everytime chris comes to hang out with my sister,ryan has to come to. since hes 6 he has nothing in common with any of us and he always tries to play with my sister and chris. my mom hates ryan and wonders why he cant find a friend his own age to hang out with and she doesnt want to watch another kid because even though ryan is 6 he still cant walk right he always falls and he cries all the time and my mom doesnt want to put up with it. she sends ryan home but he wont leave and my mom tries to be nice and says "i have alot of things to do i cant watch 4 kids including my own so could you please go home" ryan just wont listen and if he does leave he just sits in OUR garage for 3 hours. of course his parents dont care, they just want whatever is easier for them so they send both of there kids to our house all the time. we dont mind chris since hes my sisters age but ryan is 3 years younger then them and 10 years younger then me so we cant entertain him no one has anything in common with him. today ryan rang our doorbell we knew it was him so we didnt answer but he rang our doorbell 9 times in a row so fast so my dad opens the door and says can you please not do that and ryan asks to come in the house my dad says no where leaving soon to do errands but ryan WOULD NOT leave. he kept begging to come in the house for 5 minutes and we kept saying no sorry and closed the door. then 2 seconds later he rang the door bell 20 more times. my mom told his mom and she just thought it was funny. my family has hinted in every way that we dont want ryan over our house because he doesnt leave and hes too young for us to watch and if you look away for a minute hes getting himself into trouble like running into a wall or falling down the stairs. we've even walked him over to the another boys house who was his age but he didnt want to play with him. how can we keep ryan from coming into our house even if the doors are locked he will just knock and ring the doorbell for an hour even in the pouring rain and if no one answers he starts screaming and crying so loud. his parents dont think anything is wrong. i want to say something to ryan to let him know that we dont want him over but i dont want to sound mean. how can i nicely tell him not to come over to play anymore??? its driving us insane
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if you really really need him out and he really bugs you that much you guys do need to say something to his parents. like not just hint but flat out say we can't have him there. it isn't your mom's responsibility and his parents should take care of it. you really shouldn't yell at him, he's just a kid and he wants someone to play with. he probably thinks it's cool to be hanging with older kids even if you don't. i really doubt it will jepordize your sisters friendship.
however if there's any cahnce your exagerating you might want to chill about. maybe he does just need attention and his parents don't give it to him. don't blow it out of perportion until you litterally lose it.
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Just tell Chris that you don't want Ryan to tag along because you can't watch him, and neither can your parents.
I actually feel sorry for this kid though. I know kids can be annoying, but he only does this because he's not getting enough attention from his parents.
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Since his brother Chris is probably supposed to be watching him, my suggestion is no Chris at the house
if he has to bring Ryan.
Your sister wants to hang out with him she will have to go to his house. Chris needs to be told "Do not bring your brother to our house, we are not being paid to babysit him."
You have to feel a little sorry for him. He sounds as if he just wants attention from someone. But, you are very right. He is not your responsibility. :)
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Sometimes you have to be harsh with people.
Talk to his parents. Be firm with them. And tell them that he is bothering you and your family to the point where you cant get things done. Bug the parents every time that there kid bugs you, and maybe after a while they will get the point.
Thats a toughie though. I would just not give up talking to the parents and try and explain to them why you dont want him over there.
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