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15/f
I really need help to overcome my jealousy problems or I think it's going to ruin my relationship.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and we really love eachother. But both of us have some problems with jealousy. He's not comfortable with me talking to other guys, just as I'm not comfortable with him talking to other girls. I don't know why I don't like it.. I know he loves me, but I'm always afraid that he may be attracted to someone else. He's very good looking and I think that may have something to do with it. I'm afaid just any girl could try and take him. I'm afraid that when I'm not around that he may be checking other girls out or talking about other girls with his football buddies.. because he said thats all they basically talk about. He says he never talks about other girls, and that he just listens. I don't ever know what to believe.. I always assume he's lying to me, when I know that he'd never do that. He's a really nice boy, and I don't even think he would be able to lie to me.
I really want to overcome this before it gets too bad. I mean, he's the same way, too. He checks my myspace and asks me questions about who I talk to because he's not comfortable with me around other guys. I want to help our relationship and find out a way I can get over my jealousy problems and insecurities.
thanks for your helppp :) (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/jealousy.php?ad=b23
http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Jealousy
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ok. 13/f.
i was at a party this weekend and i ended up having sex three time with three different guys. it was really good, but i wont go into details.
im only 13 though, like since im so young can something like that be bad?
thanks.
also, do you consider that as a slutty thing.
i did ALOT of things. (link)
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Unfortunately, my answer is yes to both of those questions. You're so young, you have your whole life ahead of you to have sex, and you're already doing it with multiple guys. There's more to worry about, like diseases and getting pregnant. Even with a condom and/or birth control, there's still that chance of getting pregnant.
I believe it's "slutty" behavior, more so when it comes from someone so young. I'm so sorry if I'm coming off rude, but I want to tell you the truth and maybe, you'll take some of my advice when I say..Please, do not continue having sex like this, especially with multiple guys. There are too many risks, not to mention your reputation can get ruined in a blink of an eye.
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I have an iPod 30 GB (Not the Classic) and is there a way to get cover flow onto your iPod so you can browse your music in cover flow like on iTunes? (link)
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No, unfortunately to do that you'll have to buy the classic or iPod Touch.
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It's like this food. It has like peanuts or cashews covered in a little bit of sweet stuff with like little tiny stick thingies on it, like a lot of them. Fiber-ish things maybe? They're kinda brown. I wanna say it's like cereal but it's smaller and thin and stuff. What is this food called? (link)
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Is there any free internet voice teaching program where I could become good at singing? I feel like my voice is sort of dull/raspy and gravelly (sp?) Dont get me wrong, I can get the tones right (most of the time) but I just sort of sound like I m singing through my nose. Anyways any free internet singing lessons?????????? thanks in advance (link)
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Sorry, this is the only thing I could find.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=B8uqnllKCA8
EDIT: Sorry to previous columnist, I didn't know we had the same link and I couldn't find any other good ones.
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Ok he cant date because he works at a christian place that helps teens and hes on staff and if ur on staff you arent allowed to date until hes 16 which isnt until may. Before he just broke the rule and wasnt on staff he was on like jr staff but he just broke the rule. i dont want him to break it and he doesnt either since hes gotten promoted and is a role model, ect. what should i expect/do when i tell him im changing schools tho? im not allowed to tell him im moving but im changing schools as well as possibly moving so idk what to do. and is it ok to just tell him on the phone because i dont think im gonna see him for awhile. Thanks so much again! haha :) (link)
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Ok, well, that is understandable. So I can see why he isn't dating you now, sorry, I was just confused about that part.
I think you can expect him to be suprised, and probably hurt by it. Considering how close you are, and since you're changing school's, he won't see you as much as he usually does. And yes, I suppose you can tell him over the phone, though I think it would be better face-to-face.
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Okay well i asked my guy friend to ask the guy i like (which by the way is his guy friend too ) to ask if he liked me the same way i liked him but not to tell him iliked him im 13 and the boy i like is 16, forget the age rite now, umm today i went to skool nd my guy friend kept looking at me smiling then looking down and stuff EVERY time id walk by, in the end of the day he did the same hting and i was like Come here and he came and then i was like.,, *stands and jst lookes at him* and he was like (ididnt ask yett ) i was like o, well okay then,& ok im nnot sure which one it is,, maybe he was smilig the whole time cause he knew a secret of mine for the first time and is like all hehe i kno to himeself, or maybe he did ask him but the guy ilike told him nnot to telel me but you see he had all day to ask himi because they were together most of the time talking so im sure he wouldve remeber im jus soo confused rite now all i want is your opinions,, (oh and by the way im sure! that my guy friend doesnt like because he likes some other girll, )
bye (link)
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It's one of the two things below.
1) He actually hasn't talked to him yet for some reason, only he would know that reason.
2) He has talked to his friend, but he may have said that he doesn't feel the same about you, as you feel about him. And is afraid to tell you that.
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Where can I shop for the different colors of Nike Dunks? .. (link)
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Right here... http://www.nike.com/index.jhtml#l=nikestore,grid,_grid,s-nike%20dunks&re=US&co=US&la=EN
EDIT: What other information would you like? I can try to find that for you.
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i have it from taking birth control pills, and i tried the reples brand but it didn't really work at all and then there was just this weird discharge and i read the reviews for it and other people had the same problem. does anyone know any better products to help this? (link)
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I've heard that the KY SILK-E product works well, but I haven't used it.
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Ok,i'm a 14/F and I'm CLUELESS when it comes to flirting!So how do u know when a guy starts flirting with u?What does he say or do?I know i sound stupid but I just dont know how the whole flirting thing goes.I know werid for a 14-year-old girl not to know when a guy starts flirting with u.So can u tell me?XP (link)
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The links on here should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
Here's another link, incase it isn't on the other one.
http://www.links2love.com/dating_tips_flirting.htm
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15/f
Ok well,
should i shave my pubes?
ok well idk i have once or twice but i find it hard to keep doing it because the skin gets irritated and its not the easiest task in the world. is there anything i can do to make it not get irritated?
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It's really a personal preference, I don't think it's a good idea. Just because the hair down there helps keep the bacteria away, and actually keeps it clean down there.
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do heat packs/patches you buy at the store help you when youre cramping from your period? abs and lower back? (link)
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For most people, it does -- it definitely helps mine.
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Ok my bgf and i r super close. We know each other so well and hes like i totally know everything about you and he does know me super well. Like better than anyone else. He just gets me. And everyone says we're perfect for each other. Even his MOM was joking about it. His whole family knows me even his sister and bro who r out of college and live away. He took me to his grandparents (formal) 50th anniversary and it was like this big thing and i was his date and he took me behind back and was like holding me and stuff. that was this summer.
and we've gone through a lot with each other. and at our church (where we mostly hang together) everyone there says we r perfect for each other and always have flirted with each other even when we were in relationships cause thats just how he and i r. now we have liked each other on and off but since the summer hes liked me and now says he likes me more than any girl he ever liked (and thats pretty big) and i kinda like him (im on and off haha) but i let him kiss me once and we hug and all that too. and flirt A LOT! anyway my main point is that he never says he cares or loves me but shows it and arent actions more important than just saying sumthing?
and second (main part)oh and btw he cant date yet so that why we arent dating tho yes confusingly he has been in other relationships. anyway im changing schools and we have a couple classes together (btw my teachers r on strike anyway so i havent been at school w/him lately) and i might even be moving. im not allowed to tell anyone i might be moving after this yr but im gonna change schools. how do you think he will react of both and what should i do about it and/or expect. the one thing about chaning schools that bums me (the only thing pretty much) is that i wont see him everyday and we wont have classes together and i would miss him so unbelievably if i moved half way across the country where i probably wouldnt see him for at least a really long time. our time together is so short right now but i cant tell him that but i wish i could somehow! help i want to tell him so we can spend this possible last yr being really close and hanging out a lot. since we dont that often esp. when we wont be in the same school. i know this is super long and im sorry and thnak u all so much for reading it and helping me and i will rate all helpful advice ;)!!!!
and ps i might go back and forth about him but i know i love him and care about him so much if that helps (link)
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I think this guy really does have feelings for you, he just might not know how to tell you. Even though he's been in other relationships, he may have more feelings for you than any other girl he's actually dated. So that makes it harder for him to tell you.
Here's where I'm having trouble at though, if he can't date you, then why could he date all those other girls? It doesn't add up. He may be using that as an excuse to not date you because he's afraid of ruining things with you, since the two of you are so close. However, that really isn't a good way to go about it.
Since you may be moving, I think it's time to try to get all of this figure out and squared away. That way, you know what's going on and if something is going to happen or not, for right now. I think you should talk to him about all of this, and let him know how you really feel. It could make a huge difference. And then, you can see where things are going between the two of you.
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I have seen trillions of myspace perfection groups going around lately.
Can anyone tell me about them?
I'm kinda confused.
What's whoring and trains etc.?
And what do you have to do?
And also please include any other information I may need.
Thankyou so much
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I'm sorry, the only thing I know is that "whoring" is a term for basically spamming people. On Myspace, it could mean your profile, or another website.
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Ok so last week my friend told me that this guy liked me. I was pretty excited cuz i had a little crush on him too. But now he shows like no signs that he likes me. It could be that hes just confused or i dont know. But i really want to get to know him more. any help here? (link)
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I think this will help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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Where Can I Find A Vest Like This One? --
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=f1z66g&s=2
Anyone Know Where She Got It? (link)
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I've seen ones similiar to that vest at...
*Forever 21
*Charlotte Russe
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Does anyone know how to delete your account from tapatap.com or at least delete your pictures? I have no idea why I signed up but now can't figure out how to delete my account. Please help if you know how. Thank you!! (link)
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I'm sorry, I've read through their "crummy" FAQ, and found nothing. But I looked through their terms and service, which is a bunch of crap if you ask me, they get all rights to your stuff and can do whatever they want with it. Be careful about these sites. Read this..
"If you want Tapatap.com to remove any of your Content from the Service, you must delete it from the Site. However, we cannot guarantee that your Content will be completely removed from the Service, user devices or user web pages, or that other users will not misuse any Content that you supply. In addition, other users may have already copies and forwarded your Content to others, making recovery impossible."
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hey im planning on having like a teaspoon of honey everyday.. But does anyone know what good can i benifit from it? I know its good.. but what will it do?
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Here you go. =)
http://www.wonderfulinfo.com/vinfo/honey.htm
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Ok so theres this guy, and i like him, and one day im sure that he likes me then another day it seems like he's not interested cuz like some days he always looks at me and i always unexpectadly see himmm in the hall at school, and stuff like that, and then another day hes looking at my friend and stuff, and im always hanging out with my friend, so i dont know if hes interested in me or her...i know this may sound selfish, but i really want him to like ME! im so confused because im getting mixed signals, and i really need help.
Thanxx (link)
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It sounds like he does like you, but with the mixed signals I can see how you'd be confused. Here's something I wrote that I can think will help you a lot.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
If I were you, I'd get him alone and just ask him what's going on. One minute you act like you really do like me, the next you don't even pay attention to me. So that's what I would do.
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I'm in 12th grade and am applying to colleges. But I feel like I ruined my chances at getting into my top 3 choices: Brown, UCBerkley, NYU.
So in 10th grade I had a GPA of 4.0
In 11th grade I had a 4.4.
And so far I have a 4.4 in 12th grade.
HOWEVER, in 9th grade I only got a 3.5 GPA.
Did I ruin my chances of getting into those schools?
I recieved a 2150 on my SAT, a 30 on my ACT, I scored perfect on my US History subject test and perfect on my French/with listening SAT subject test.
Please tell me, did I ruin my chances with my 9th grade GPA???? (link)
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No, I don't think so, because you've definitely showed MAJOR improvement, which is something those big colleges look for.
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