Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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hi im 13/f and i am really confused i went out with this guy for like a year.during that year he never once kissed me,never asked me to call him and we never held hands or anything but after a year he broke up with me.i dont no the reason but he did. i still have really strong feelings for him.so a year passed by and he is in a lot of my classes.in one class he sits right next to me and lately he has been talking to me a lot and flirting and he even likes to sit under my desk during class while we r watching a movie.he even told me to call him and gave me his number and walks with me to my next class,he invites to hang out with him at lunch at school, lately i feel like closer to him then i have when we were going out,why is hes doing this
cuz if he likes me still why did he break up with me?if he asks me out do i take the second chance cuz i really like him alot? help soon please
t.l.h.
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if you like him, go out with him! at least he didn't do anything wrong that resulted in the break up like, cheating or something. ask him next time you talk to him. just be like,"i'm curious.. why DID we break up, really? i've always sort of wondered cause i never really got why." and see what he says. maybe a year ago he wasn't really wanting to be in a realtionship or wasn't ready to be. he might've been afraid to do anything because he might not be experienced in kissing or he might be nervous/shy. but if you he asks you out again, go ahead! he seems like he really likes you, and hopefully you two'll hold hands and everything this time. :D i hope i helped.
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Today my friend asked me this riddle: "A man ate a seagull sandwich and then he died- How did he die?" I guessed and guessed, and then gave up. The problem is she won't tell me. Then I asked her sister... Nope, shes not telling me either. Does anyone know the answer because i's driving me INSANE!!! Please answer only if you have heard this riddle and know the answer! Thanks from the deep blue sea. (link)
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Okay, well I've gone on Google and tried "Riddles+seagull sandwhich" and I recieved similar stories ; practically the same. Except a few included a boat and an island but the main point was a man ate a seagull sandwhich and died, and how did he die?
The answer was that the seagull was his wife, and whenever he ate it, he realized it and then he killed himself.
http://www.greatwriting.co.uk/content/view/3944/77/
I'm not sure, though. This is where I found it. But everytime I searched it up, they all came out the same answers. The man realized he ate his wife, and he killed himself after. So try suggesting that to your friend and her sister, and see if that's it. I'm sorry if it's not, but I researched as much as I could. Haha, if that's not it and you DO find it out, please tell me cause it's driving me crazy now!
I hope it is though, and I hope I helped!
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Okay, well me and my boyfriend started dating 6 days ago.. and nether one of us have even had a long relationship, like we both are like 2 week people, and we want to change that... but we both get bored easily, we oth like eachother.. any idea on how to keep it going good? also any ideas for me to make things more spontanious [sp], and suprise him, i want to be a good GF to him. [:
thankyou, please help. haha
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just try and suprise eachother with random fun days. like, one week on saturday you suprise him with going somewhere, and then some week on a.. friday, he suprises you with going somewhere. you could do alot, go to the fair, amusment park, go see a movie, have a picnic, go out to dinner, go ice skating/roller blading, go to the mall, take a drive somewhere, go to the beach, just park out somewhere in the meadow and stay there and watch the sunset and stars [ if you wanna be all romantic ], just spend a day at the zoo, walk around and talk pictures of eachother [ maybe for a _ month anniversary a photo book of you two with all sorts of memories would be a good gift ], go see a DRIVE-IN movie, just run around and act like silly kids, have snowball fights in the winter, go trick or treating or go to haunted houses in the fall. if you ever start to get bored, just remind yourself that you really want this to work out and don't break up with him. relationship can't always be spontaneous every single second, but that's good you're trying to keep it spontaneous and stay together. :] i hope i helped.
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Ok so i went out with this guy for 4months.he was the first guy i have ever loved, kissed, and had sex with. We broke up because he wouldnt leave his ex alone. A few weeks after we broke up he called me begging me to come back to him, but my parents refused to let me see him. by the time i finally convinced them to let me see him again. he told me he didtn want to deal with their crap and he didnt want me to be "hung up" on him. But then he told me he stilled loved me when we were talking. I am extremely confused and miss him like crazy. What should i do? (link)
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i would just not bother with this guy. he wouldn't leave his ex alone, and then he tells you he wants you to come back and then winds up saying he didn't want you to be "hung up" with him or he didn't want to deal with your parents crap? he's just toying with your emotions, and i don't think you should bother trying to go out with him again. even if you did, who says he might not continue to leave his ex alone? it just might all repeat itself. i know you miss him, so just propose at being friends and nothing more. he can still be in your life, but he's not going to be toying with your emotions that badly. i hope i helped.
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14/f. i'm going into 9th grade, which at my school is the last year of middle school, and i think i know what i want to wear for the first day of school, but i don't want to look like everybody else. this is what i was planning on wearing:
skirt:
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=648&itemID=46122&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
shirt:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_297743_-1_12628_12552
it is that but the stripes are light blue & brown. and i'd wear brown flip flops. i'd also straighten my hair.
what do you guys think? i don't want to look like every other girl there, so if this isn't a good outfit, then any suggestions will really help!
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well, i don't know how all the other girls dress at your school, but i think it's really cute looking! so i think you should wear it. i hope i helped.
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I was wondering if any of you guys knew the name of the song in the scene.. when Patrick and Kat are paint balling..
and the song says like "You are lovely and.."
I dont know the rest.
I searched the soundtrack but I couldnt find it.
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I tried searching up the soundtrack too, but unlike you, I don't think I had much luck. I browsed through a couple songs and the one part in this song:
http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/10thingsihateaboutyou/fnt.htm
It says "you're lovely and", so I'm guessing that's it.
I hope I helped!
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i met this kid matt at the movies he was rilly cute and we gave eachother our numbers and screen names and we havent talked since. hes always online but i never talk to him because i dont know what to say!! I dont want to rush into a relationship yet i want to get to know him more. i want him to know im interested but i dont want it to seem like im obsessed.. what should i say and what should i talk about with matt when we talk online? (link)
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just IM him and be like,"hey! sup?" and there's alot to talk about. start talking about the movies you guys saw and if they were any good, talk about how's school going for him or if he's bummed that school's starting soon if it hasn't started for him yet. and just start talking about his hobbies, interests, whatever. it'll show you take an interest in him and that you want to know more about him, which he'll like. and of course, share similar experiences if you had any. don't let him talk the WHOLE entire time. you want to be a good listener AND talker. and haha, it won't seem obsessed. it just shows you're trying to make good conversation. and also, if you can't think of anything, he might try and think up stuff so you don't ALWAYS have to. but since you guys met at the movies, you could try and suggest another hang out there. just be like,"hey, did you hear that new movie coming out? ____? it looks really good, don't you think? we should go see it together!" so then the next time you guys talk online, you'd already have an instant conversation starter about the pervious hang out. i hope i helped.
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im on a new club soccer team and i dont know any of the girls! i have to go to a party with them today, and alot of them know eachother! how do i make new friends without looking like a loser? THANKS IN ADVANCE (link)
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Just stand near them and listen in on the conversation. If they make a joke, laugh. Or just join into the conversation. If you have a previous similar experience, share it with everyone so they know that you can relate to them or just be like,"Wow! I can't believe that happened to you? Were you scared?" [ or whatever they're talking about ]. And then just alternate with girls. Get talking to each one and listen to them and their stories and what they have to say. People like whenever others show their interest in them and actually hear what they have to say. You can even start talking about soccer, cause that's obviously right there something you all share! You could talk about the upcoming game, how to improve your kicks or block a goal, etc. And since you guys probably go to the same school, you can always talk about the teachers or what happened on friday with that kid, etc. [ I remember at my birthday none of my friends really knew eachother, but then whenever I started talking about some of the crazy stuff that happened with kids last year, we all just started talking about it and laughing and everything ]. I hope I helped.
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bitterly sarcastic...how would you define that? (link)
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Well there can be sarcasm in a funny and joking way, but then to be bitterly sarcastic would to be sarcastic in a rude or mean way. Like, "Oh yeah, you're hair's the GREATEST", when really they could be saying,"Your hair sucks." I hope I helped.
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I just got back from Lake Tahoe. My skin was pretty nice until I got there. The sun burned up my face. and now my entire face is peeling and red. my skin looks horrible. School begins on September 5, will the peeling/redness go away by then? or what can I do to make it go away??
help please:) (link)
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I'm not sure how long it'll take to go away, it sometimes depends on how bad the sunburn is, etc. But go to the pharmacy and buy some Aloe Vera cream/lotion. It's really good, and it should help your sunburn go away as quick as it can. Just remember to use sun screen next time. I hope I helped.
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ummmm yea how do u know if u have ADD without going to a doctor?????? cause people have told me i may have ADD but i dont know yet (link)
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Here's some sites I found:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060826152822AAuzAQN
http://add.about.com/
And this is a site I found where they give you a test and you just click on the anwers and it should tell you.
http://add.about.com/cs/diagnosis/tp/sitesdiagnosis.htm
I hope I helped.
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My bestfriend is starting to get annoying she won`t stop bugging me. I come up with excuse so I don`t hurt her feelings but don`t get me wrong she is my bestfriend and I love her but just I don`t wan`t to hang out with her every single day. do you get my drift. But how do I let her down easy by telling her I don`t wanna chill everyday with you without being harsh (link)
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Gah, I once had this same problem. Haha, first of all, don't go telling other people about this problem, cause they just might tell her, and then WHOO. Your friend gets mmmmmmmaaaddd, haha.[ learned from experience ]
So whenever she calls you to hang out, if you're going out with other friends, just be like,"I'm sorry, I already made plans for tonight. Maybe we can hang out tommorrow?" Or if you don't have plans for that night, just be like,"I'm sorry, I'd love to be I really just want to realx around the house for a bit. And I got some homework to do anyways. I'm sorry." And if she gets upset, you just need to talk about it with her. Just be like,"____, I love you, you're my best friend and you know that, but sometimes I just want to relax at home and be by myself, you know? I'm not saying I hate hanging out with you or anything, don't get me wrong. It's just sometimes I just need a break from people and just to hang out in my room, so if I ever can't hang out with you, please don't get upset." [ or something like that ]
I hope I helped.
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My boyfriend has another girlfriend and I known this from the start it piss`s me off but I love him to much to leave him and stuff but his bestfriend/cousin said I have to make him like me more then her. But I just don`t know how to do that. What should I wear, what should I say and do. got any advise please help me out :[ (link)
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I know you love him, but you got to dump him.
He's nothing more than a player, who thinks he's cool enough to have 2 girlfriends at once. He could even have MORE for all anyone knows.
There's no real way to "make" someone like you. They should be liking you for you, and if they don't, you shouldn't have to change yourself to make the person like you.
I know you say you can't do it, but you got to do it. I mean, he's hurting you alot, and you don't deserve to be treated like that. You deserve a good guy who'll want to date you and only YOU.
I hope I helped.
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do you think this is a good first day of school outfit?
shirt-
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90092&navroot=clearance&productId=1307_3030
skirt-
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90104&navroot=clearance&productId=1317_1833
shoes-
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/p/7266940/c/3.html
or
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/8244874/c/147.html
purse-
i couldn't find it on the coach website sooo.. http://item.express.ebay.com/Apparel-Accessories_Womens-Handbags-Bags__NEW-COACH-MINI-SIGNATURE-SOHO-HOBO-HANDBAGS-1461-PINK_W0QQitemZ6870195017QQihZ013QQddnZApparelQ20Q26Q20AccessoriesQQadnZWomenQ27sQ20HandbagsQ2cQ20BagsQQcmdZExpressItem
but it's smaller than that..
also the "ae eagle" is more pink than red.
which shoes should i wear/is it a good outfit?? and i was gonna straighten my hairr.. thanksss ;] (link)
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It looks like a really great outfit to me, and I'd wear the first shoes. :] I hope I helped.
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I was just wondering what do you think would be an appropriate age to start dating? (link)
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Well, I guess being able to date is also based off of maturity and all, but I say around 16 is a good time to date. It's just old enough to drive, so you wouldn't have to have your parents escort you everywhere, and it's a good older age and more responsible age where you're more aware of sex, condoms, etc.
But, if you're younger than 16, then show your parents how mature and responsible you are. And talk to them about it, and ask them when they feel it's appropriate for you to start dating. And if they say an older age, just be like,"I understand, but do you think if I was allowed to go on a group date to the movies, could I go?" Because then your parents will at least know where you are, who you're with, and that you and the guy aren't off alone somewhere.
I hope I helped.
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k well my ex boyfriend who was my first boyfriend, and first true love and first kiss. we went out for 4 1/2 months... him and my best friend might go ou and for all i know they probably already are.... well i dont aprrove at all! and even though we brok up 5 months ago i still like him, because if it wasnt for his friend telling me that he would treat me better i would have never dumped him, and my ex.. lets call him... james, james even told me about 1 month ago that if i never dumped him we would still be together, and for him to say that he has to have some kind of feelings for me, and also asked him last week 1-10 how much he likes me and he sais 6.5 and to me, thats pretty high! and now i find out my best friend, the person i though who was soposed to have my back, support me, and be there for me, is gonna go out with my ex... but the difficult thing is, i kinda did it to her, see, her ex richard and her, we will call my best friend rachel. rachel and richard went out for only 3 weeks, they didnt share near as much as me and james did.. k well richard asked me ut durring the summer and i never told him yes, and i never told him no.. he just assumed we were going out, but i never liked him... and my friend rachel knows that.... and i have told her over and over that i still like james... and she doesnt give a rip.. shes gonna go out with him, and to me it just sems like she isnt hearing me when i tell her she is risking our friendship for a boy who will eventualy break her heart and when he does whos gonna be there for her? not me, because i warned her... i just want to know.. and i making tooo big of deal about this, and what shoud i do?
if it helps im 15/f.... and i told my friend rachel i would do anything to be with him... and yet she still goes and does this to me... i mean he was there through think and thin, he was there when i needed him, when my grandpa got cancer, when my uncle died... hes been there.. and even after the breakup he has been the best of friend and he listens when i tell him stuff.. hes amazng!!! (link)
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You're not making a big deal out of this. You really like a guy and your best friend is going after him, and it hurts, alot, probably. Not just the fact your guy might get taken, but because you probably feel your best friend went behind your back, didn't think of YOUR feelings and everything.
What I would do is just talk to "James" about it. I mean, since your best friend already tried to go after him, no shame in yourself doing so. But, I've got to say, it seems to me this guy is going to destroy your and "Rachel"s friendship together wether you go for him or not. But talk to "James" about it and let him know what you're feeling and how you feel about him still, and see what he says back. And just talk and see if there's a possible relationship again.
Maybe you can even try talking to "Rachel" about it. Let her know that you're not comfortable with them two dating yet, because you still sort of have feelings for "James". And just ask her if she can just wait until your either comfortable with it, or if neither of you go after him because you're afraid it might effect the friendship you and "Rachel" have. If she was a real friend, she'd consider your feelings and at least WAIT till your comfortable with the whole situation.
But in all seriousness here..wether "Rachel" and "James" date or not, I would just stay good friends with them both. Whenever two good friends like the same guy, it can never end good. The friendship usually ends after fighting for one guy. I mean, he can still be just as amazing as a best friend, so why not just have him as one? That way, you can also be friends with Rachel too, and everyone's fine. I mean, of course you're always going to like your first love, cause you had alot of firsts with him, and really good memories. But unless you want to ruin friendships, then I suggest just focusing on living life and try and move on as best as you can. I hope I helped.
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i got a myspace account a couple days ago. i decided i don't want it anymore.
how do i delete it? (link)
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Whenever you log in, next to your picture there are all those links for like "Edit Profile", etc. And right under "Edit Profile" should be "Account Settings". After you click on it, at the top of the page shouls be "NOTE: Changing your default..." and right under there are three links. [ View My Profile ] [ Edit My Profile ] [ Cancel My Account ]. Obviously, you can tell which one to click. Now it'll ask you "are you sure you want to delete it?" and then once you click yes, a confirmation email is sent to your email adress so all you got to do is go to your email and confirm it, and then it should be deleted. I hope I helped.
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Ok So I'm a guy, who has had many girlfriends, but for some reason I find lots of guys attractive. I also like to watch gay porn....why is this??? (link)
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Well, most teenaegers have all these hormones running through their body, and they tend to get curious and want to experiment and experience new things, so it could be that you're just curious. Now, can you see your self having a relationship with a guy or being pyshical with a guy? If so, then you might be bisexual. You just have to wait it out and see if after awhile, you start getting stronger feelings toward guys and you really can see yourself in a relationship and want to become pyshical with them, etc. And if you see yourself then with guys and ONLY just guys and no longer girls, then you're homosexual. But like I said. Don't jump to conclusions. Just wait it out and see what feelings you have later. I hope I helped.
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My cousin(who is my favorite person in the whole world) has been ignoring me ever since I can into JR high... what sould I do? (link)
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Well, you weren't kind of specific as of possibly why she's been ignoring you, what does she say when you try to talk to her, what grades she in [maybe she's jealous cause you're in a different school or she misses you] etc. So I'll try my best to answer this.
Just try and talk to her. Be like,"___, I've been noticing lately that ever since I went to the Jr. High you've sort of been ignoring me, and I'm wondering why? I mean, you're my favorite person in the whole wide world and I really miss talking to you." [ or something like that ] and just ask her whats up.
Or, she might not be really ignoring you. It's just whenever school happens, you're there like, half the day, and then you get home, then you eat dinner, and then you got all that homework to do, and then you got to shower, etc. It can take away some serious talking time with friends unless you do it all quickly, so maybe she's just been gettin g alot of homework or something.
I'm not sure. Like I said, just try talking about it with her and ask her what's going on. I hope I helped.
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i have a myspace. and evertime i get pic. comments, comments, friend reguests, and messages, it dosnt say it under " my mail " i have to look and see if i have any. is there a way to fix it so i can see what i have under "my mail" ? (link)
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Well, another girl just posted a question sort of about the same thing. She's not being notified about anything either. Myspace is proably just having a glitch, like it usually does. I hope I helped.
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