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make new friends
im on a new club soccer team and i dont know any of the girls! i have to go to a party with them today, and alot of them know eachother! how do i make new friends without looking like a loser? THANKS IN ADVANCE <33
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look,just be yourself and your guarented to make lots of friends.just be really friendly towards people at the party.
hope i helped
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Get to know some of the girls on your team. Chances are, someone will want to be your friend but are too afraid to approach you. Just be yourself. Hope I helped!
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Just go up to them and say hi.You can join in on the conversation.And youll make friends with them in no time
ta ta for now =)
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Just stand near them and listen in on the conversation. If they make a joke, laugh. Or just join into the conversation. If you have a previous similar experience, share it with everyone so they know that you can relate to them or just be like,"Wow! I can't believe that happened to you? Were you scared?" [ or whatever they're talking about ]. And then just alternate with girls. Get talking to each one and listen to them and their stories and what they have to say. People like whenever others show their interest in them and actually hear what they have to say. You can even start talking about soccer, cause that's obviously right there something you all share! You could talk about the upcoming game, how to improve your kicks or block a goal, etc. And since you guys probably go to the same school, you can always talk about the teachers or what happened on friday with that kid, etc. [ I remember at my birthday none of my friends really knew eachother, but then whenever I started talking about some of the crazy stuff that happened with kids last year, we all just started talking about it and laughing and everything ]. I hope I helped. <3
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First, if the girls are talking... get in the conversation. Really listen to what they are saying and pretend like you know them. Being nice and talking is the main thing. Find 1 girl you think that has something in commen with you. Then compliment her and just start talking about something simple. If she thinks you are a loser ((which you are not!!!!)) turn to somebody else and talk with them. If somebody starts telling a funny story and all the girls are laughing, you should laugh too. That tells everybody that you are into their conversation and want to be part of the group. dont just sit there and do nothing, people will think you are a loser that way. Get involved!!
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
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