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what should i say
i met this kid matt at the movies he was rilly cute and we gave eachother our numbers and screen names and we havent talked since. hes always online but i never talk to him because i dont know what to say!! I dont want to rush into a relationship yet i want to get to know him more. i want him to know im interested but i dont want it to seem like im obsessed.. what should i say and what should i talk about with matt when we talk online?
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well obviously it doesnt seem like youre "rushing into a relationship" if youre just talking online...most people talk online.
and just say hi whats up talk about your favorite bands etc. its not that hard once the conversation gets going.
oh and: its really, not "rilly"
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You could always talk about the movie you guys just saw.Or you could just ask eachother questions to get to know eachother better.I think you should talk on the phone because if you have alot of things to talk about you probally dont want to type it all.But if your shy you can talk over the computer cause its easier.
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just IM him and be like,"hey! sup?" and there's alot to talk about. start talking about the movies you guys saw and if they were any good, talk about how's school going for him or if he's bummed that school's starting soon if it hasn't started for him yet. and just start talking about his hobbies, interests, whatever. it'll show you take an interest in him and that you want to know more about him, which he'll like. and of course, share similar experiences if you had any. don't let him talk the WHOLE entire time. you want to be a good listener AND talker. and haha, it won't seem obsessed. it just shows you're trying to make good conversation. and also, if you can't think of anything, he might try and think up stuff so you don't ALWAYS have to. but since you guys met at the movies, you could try and suggest another hang out there. just be like,"hey, did you hear that new movie coming out? ____? it looks really good, don't you think? we should go see it together!" so then the next time you guys talk online, you'd already have an instant conversation starter about the pervious hang out. i hope i helped. <3
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Saying "hey!" won't rush you into a relationship!
Maybe he's too shy to start the conversation, or assumes you don't want to talk to him because you haven't said anything to him since.
Say hello, ask about his day and what he's been doing since you last saw him and see where it goes from there. If all goes well, ask to meet up so you can both hang out.
Best of luck! Don't be shy when it comes to just chatting online. :)
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first say "hey, what's up?" just see what his mood is in right now. Then just talk about something simple such as whats your favorite movie or something along those lines. It's kinda like flirting on the computer, but he wont be able to see you. Being obsessed with him sounds like "omg your smile is soo cute! and i love your hair! in school i just really think you are amazing." now that is obsessed, but being like "what's your favorite movie? or what do you think of Mr. _______, the school teacher?" thats not obsessed, thats just starting a conversation. talk about normal life situations, and he will get the picture that you are interested in him.
I hope I helped and good luck!
-volleyball2150
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