Im still in love with my ex and he is over me what should i
Question Posted Wednesday August 30 2006, 6:51 pm
Ok so i went out with this guy for 4months.he was the first guy i have ever loved, kissed, and had sex with. We broke up because he wouldnt leave his ex alone. A few weeks after we broke up he called me begging me to come back to him, but my parents refused to let me see him. by the time i finally convinced them to let me see him again. he told me he didtn want to deal with their crap and he didnt want me to be "hung up" on him. But then he told me he stilled loved me when we were talking. I am extremely confused and miss him like crazy. What should i do?
bugsy answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 8:06 pm: i think you should move on because you deserve someone better than him!do you want a bf who treated you like that? i dont think you should go out with him because it seems like he liked his ex more than his gf!!!thats not right.he should have thought about how muched he really loved you before he wouldnt stop leaving his ex alone hope i helped.
t.l.l.
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Charade answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 7:23 pm: I suggest a nice long bath and a night of just you and your friends doing something fun, you know just to get you mind off certain things. You know, go to a party or have a party maybe a girls night out but if that doesn't catch your fancy the how about a girls night IN?. Well whatever you choose too do, just relax and take some time for yourself and clear your head.
Then maybe ask yourself,"do I want to be with a man who would choose his ex over his current girlfriend"? If want a lover/boyfriend/lifemate/whatever you should become a high ranking person in his life (somewhere in the range of family value) and never come second to a women he dumped or got dumped by.
beebee69 answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 7:10 pm: If you get with him again your parents dont have to know anyway.Just tell him how much you miss him and love him and if he really loved you he wouldnt care if he had to deal with your parents.
ta ta for now
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MelLeDisko answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 7:08 pm: i would just not bother with this guy. he wouldn't leave his ex alone, and then he tells you he wants you to come back and then winds up saying he didn't want you to be "hung up" with him or he didn't want to deal with your parents crap? he's just toying with your emotions, and i don't think you should bother trying to go out with him again. even if you did, who says he might not continue to leave his ex alone? it just might all repeat itself. i know you miss him, so just propose at being friends and nothing more. he can still be in your life, but he's not going to be toying with your emotions that badly. i hope i helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
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