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My ma
Ok me and my ma are not that close together, her boyfriend got into some huge trouble, and she is really freak out. She hasn't eatting anything,and if she does she will barf it up. I kept on telling her everything will be ok, and I hug her and everything but nothing I do seems to work. I was woundering what I could do to make things better for her? So if anyone has any suggestions I would really love to hear them!
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it sounds like shes depressed. you should talk to her about it, and go get professional help, and if she isnt willing to do it for herself than you should either get one of her friends to call the dr.s office, or yourself, to do it for her.
remind her shes trying as hard as she can to be the best mother and thats all that matters, just reassure her, and maybe try cooking something special so she might want to eat with you. or just encourage her to eat like a cereal bar now and then so she gets something into her stomach.
i definitely think a doctor is whats most important, and if you dont have enough money or something talk to your guidance counsler because im sure that they'll find some way around it.
i hope she feels better...:)
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it souunds like anorexia and if it is you need to seek help i think she is probably stressed but i dont think you will be able handle it by yourself get a family friend or or relative.someone you trust and can confide in i know it sucks but you cant do it alone.I suggest doing it soon before it gets out of control because it will be really diffucult your ma's boyfriend isnt her responsiblity remind her of that because she needs to see it.you may not be able too reach her maybe someone else will be able to.
Remember this is not your fault and you are doing the best you can.I think it is important that you see that because it will get harder and harder not easier and easier.
~nikki~
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First things first. It's depression. If she works, go through and you know clean the house for her, do dishes, laundry, and even bake for her! Doing small things around the house all the time will make things easier for her. Also, maybe you and her should hangout more. Go see movies together, have girl nights and pop popcorn and tell her gossip and whatnot. Spend time with her and do fun activities with her to get her mind off of her boyfriend. I really hope this helps, and if it doesnt, good luck with everything. Maybe you want to have her friends over and have a mini party to make her feel better.
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its good that you are trying to help her but take these matters into someone elses hands like her doctor. look in her phonebook and try to make an appointment for her. or tell her to call the doctor
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