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Image and video hosting by TinyPic" align=left hspace=10> hey my name is karen and i live in miami florida... im 17 and go to miami killian senior high.. anything you need help with ask me!! im great at answering questions about friends, cleaning, and relationships.

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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to...

yeah your over reacting these days thats how people are HORNY!! all day, all night 24 7! he was just VERY horny that day. guys are horny twice as much as girls. him feeling up on your boobs should have good.. but i guess your not the horny kind of person.. so well i do think you should get back with him.

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this is a little long but i hope someone will answer ok today in science i was writing a note back and froth with a girl then she said i was dared to ask you out and i said yeah sure why not now i dont know what to do becasue like this is the first time ive been asked out does everything like pan out or i just dont know how to deal with this situation. ITs confusing me so help it would be great

act as if you asked her out.. hold her hand like as if you asked her out.. everything pans out for guys if you go out with a certain type of girl it depends what kind you said yes to going out with. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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hey um i really need help. im going to a bar mitzah at the end of february and i don't know what to wear. i need a hot dress that will make me look good, but it needs to be under like, 40 dollars. its for my ex-boyfriend, and my mom hated him, so she wont pay more than that and i'm broke. if you know any good websites or stores that could help me, please tell me! thanx!

jcpenny has really cute dresses for cheap.. around 40 and under..depends witch one though.. i think a red dress would be REALLY cute. reds a sexy dress color!

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Alright, this is sort of a random question, but I'm cleaning out my closet today, because I have WAY too many clothes. It's hard to find anything to wear because I have so much STUFF that I simply never wear...does anyone have a solution to this problem? Like, can you list out what a good amount of clothing to have is? For example, how many jeans you should have, how many tee-shirts, how many skirts, etc. Also, what's the remedy to this? I have so much clothing-but nothing to wear! Should I limit where I shop to like...2 or 3 certain clothing stores? HELP!

having alot of clothes is really good. no matter what keep your clothes just dont go shopping as much. having nothing to wear and alot of clothes doesnt make sense you have something to wear as long as you have clothes even if it's a t-shirt and a thong. theres not a certain amount of clothes you should have just buy and buy and buy and buy and enjoy your clothes.

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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?

shaiina

maybe your friends are just nice.. maybe ur best friend is trying to tell you the truth so you can fix it. remember that thats what best friends are for to help you with things like that things you need to change.. maybe she is just jealous.. but tell her it bothers you that ur calling her fat.. she might get mad at you for saying that but at least she stops.

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I'm 13 and I need some help with my friend "Kelly"* I've been best friends with her since 5th grade and now we're in middle school. She has always been a very competitive person but lately she has been plain nasty. She insults us and makes comments that really hurt. She has even said something insulting about my mother. She always likes to win and makes sure she is right in everything. She is pretty self-centered and thinks highly of herself. I've been her friend too long to totally drop her but both of my other best friends agree she has been acting really horribly lately. What should I do?
*Changed name for privacy.

i think that you should drop her. she has no right to be a bitch.. especially someone she's "friends with" tell her how she's acting and just let it all out to her in person because some people like to write notes and thats gay.. there will be a possibility that you might want to be her friend again.. think about it before you do it. think about if you think that in the future you might deside to want to be her friend again. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do

to be honest it was friends before guys... and i personally dont know anymore. think about it really hard and think about who will make you happier... or how you can have both of them.

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dear advicenators i have a friend who cuts herself i havent known her for a long time bcz i just moved here but she does it and she cant stop !!! i would like some advice on how to help her stop ...

thanx

people cut becuz of stress and they dont have any other way to handle it... give her a rubberband to put around her wrist... both if you have to. well tell her everytime she thinks of cutting to pull on it and let go... instead of cutting. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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okay.. my two bestfriends do not like eachother and i dont know why but they cannot be around eachother. When I hang out with one of them the other one gets mad cuz she says I always ditch her. And if I go places with them together the one person will start talking about the other person and the other person will get upset. I've tried talking to them both but they won't be friends!!!! Its starting to really bother me! sry if this is confusing lol..someone help!!!

i think you should hang out with some other friends... let them sort out their problems without you in the middle.

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My friend has this bad problem with flirting with people and not even realizing that she's flirting with them. For example, she told my boyfriend that she thought he was cute, started giggling, and blushed. My boyfriend was rather...irritated...by this, as he can not stand my friend. Whenever I confront her about it, she swears to God she hasn't flirted. How can I get her to see that she really has a problem with this? It just irritates me to see her flirting with my boyfriend. x_x Please help?

telling her while she's doing it right there when it happens might help every time you see her flirting. and maybe tell your boyfriend to talk to her and say something.

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okay so my best friend has liked this guy for a LONG time..but shes always to afriad to talk to him! well he ALWAYS talks to me online and, even though i tried my hardest not to, i like him...but i CAN'T cuz shes my bff and she would get really mad. and i think he likes me to, cuz hes sending me all these signals, and im afriad of what will happen if he asks me out because i can't say yes but i REALLY don't wanna say no...

sorry it was so long. please help..thanks.

it's ALWAYS friends before guys. no guy is worth any friend no matter how good of a friend or best friend they are. in 6th or even 7th id be in the position of your friend and what id do is not talk to you for a while and it wouldnt be the same if we were to be friends again. i know its not right to be mad at you for going out with somebody you like because i know you cant help who you like but i think that you should tuff it out and say no if he ever asks you out. im sure your friend would do the same. friends do stuff for friends like that even if the other friend really doesnt know. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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14/m there is this girl who i kinda like. the problem is that she is out of my league. she is in all honors classes and im only in honors math and we're not in the same class. there is also this other guy that likes her (a friend of mine) and he has a better chance at going out with her than me cuz they are closer than she is with me. how can i get close to girls, so i'll have a better chance with them than other guys?

get her phone number and talk about your personal life on the phone... tell her stuff that you dont tell everybody else. if u have a really good relationship with ur mom... make sure you tell her that. thats really cute. as her to keep secrets for you then maybe she'll open up to you. i know i would. a guy that tells u everything is one of the best things you can have as a girl. mayb even metion the fact that you like her.

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i went all the way how can i tell my mom

just tell her... thats the best way and just take what ever she's gunna say to you... be prepared for the worst out of her... grounding etc. cuz she will do something even if it is just yelling at you but being prepared for the worst is always good... so just tell her and see what happens and what ever happens happens.

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I know this might be a dumb question but waht does idk mean?

it means i dont know. lol. dont think its dumb alot of ppl ask what it means. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:

I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." That day I came home and started crying. I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.

what i would do is keep tlking to him {{as friends}} but it would oviously hurt me or anybody else tho... after trying that out id prolly try and make us work out after a while... and deal with whatever happens because it is part a life. i really hope everything works out. sorry i couldnt answer very well its what id do tho... sometimes theres really nothing really great you can do and then that means its time to try and do whatever your heart tells you. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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how wud u have a conversation w/ a guy who like sports and cars w/out having to talk about sports and cars?

if you 2 are still in school tlk about school... theres always sumthing up in school even if its sumthing little or you can tlk about music. i tlked to this guy for a while just about songs. so maybe that'll help. if u need anything else leave me something in my inbox. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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HeLp! im thinking about buying NEUTROGENA BLACKHEAD ELIMINATING SCRUB...it says it eliminates blackheads...but i got clean 'n' clear blackhead clearing scrub, and that said it did that also, but it didnt! so, im asking...does the Neutrogena blackhead scrub ACTUALLY get *RID* of blackheads?? i need to know soon because im about to go shopping! thx!

they advertise neutrogena blackhead eliminating scrub everywhere... nothings for sure... the best thing to do is just start trying stuff and see what works.

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My apartment is really dust. I'll vacume and dust my coffee table, and 10 minutes later there is a thin layer of dust again. I don't like the idea of breating all that in.

I am thinking of getting a hepa filter but I know little about them. Does anyone have any experiance with one or any other tips to rid myself of this dust?

they are exspensive but they probally work really good if they cost so much money. they're prolly not loud again becuase their so exspensive. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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Well i just found out my friend (D) likes me and i guess i like him to but i like his friend (F) more than i like (D). i really dont no wut to do!!!! Please HELP!!

do what your heart tells you to. w/e you go with is gunna b fine. if u make a mistake and pick the wrong one... its just part of life and you need to live it. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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Ok...
I am 13 years old and i look 17
boys like my body i hate it
i dress like a guy and guys (i talk to) think its hott


am i weird or what?

your not weird... it might be ur really pretty and no matter what you wear you will be. x3 xogiggles37xo.

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