okay.. my two bestfriends do not like eachother and i dont know why but they cannot be around eachother. When I hang out with one of them the other one gets mad cuz she says I always ditch her. And if I go places with them together the one person will start talking about the other person and the other person will get upset. I've tried talking to them both but they won't be friends!!!! Its starting to really bother me! sry if this is confusing lol..someone help!!! <3Juliet<3
sUnsEt_rOO18 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 5:50 pm: until they start to like each other.. u just have to hang out with them seperately.. tell each of them that you will hang out with them equally! sorry thats a tough situation. RaCh [ sUnsEt_rOO18's advice column | Ask sUnsEt_rOO18 A Question ]
dramaqueenbabeiwb answered Saturday October 30 2004, 5:03 pm: Well, maybe when you hang out with one friend, don't tell the other. Hang out with them both equally. If someone gets mad for hanging out with the other, say, "I hang out with you just as equally as I hang out with you. Why are you so threatened when I hang out with tmy other friend too. She's my friend, you may hate her, but she is. And I love you both the same" Something like that maybe. Hope I helped, and hope it works out! [ dramaqueenbabeiwb's advice column | Ask dramaqueenbabeiwb A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Saturday October 30 2004, 4:35 pm: They shouldn't drag you in to the center of it all because it's their problems! Try to talk to them and see if they can withstand eachother when they are around... Just tell them to deal with it because you don't want to lose a friend in a silly fight! I hoped i helped!! :)
Sherry answered Saturday October 30 2004, 4:02 pm: You need to talk to them both. tell them not to drag you into their problems, and you want to hang out with both of them. If the other person gets mad, tell them to deal with it because you want to be their friend. Harsh, a little..but they shouldent try to do that to you [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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