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me nd my friend
okay so my best friend has liked this guy for a LONG time..but shes always to afriad to talk to him! well he ALWAYS talks to me online and, even though i tried my hardest not to, i like him...but i CAN'T cuz shes my bff and she would get really mad. and i think he likes me to, cuz hes sending me all these signals, and im afriad of what will happen if he asks me out because i can't say yes but i REALLY don't wanna say no...
sorry it was so long. please help..thanks.
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it's ALWAYS friends before guys. no guy is worth any friend no matter how good of a friend or best friend they are. in 6th or even 7th id be in the position of your friend and what id do is not talk to you for a while and it wouldnt be the same if we were to be friends again. i know its not right to be mad at you for going out with somebody you like because i know you cant help who you like but i think that you should tuff it out and say no if he ever asks you out. im sure your friend would do the same. friends do stuff for friends like that even if the other friend really doesnt know. x3 xogiggles37xo.
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if shes truely your bff, she'll be upset for a while and then realize its something she shouldn't dwell over. tell her to think about it this way.. if its osmething she cant help why dwell on it, get over it and be happy and move on with life. a guy isn't everything.. believe me, and explain to her whats going on, she's your bff and thats the least she deserves.
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You can't help who you like. Honestly. If things between you and this guy do progress, your friend may be hurt, initially. But, if she's your friend, she will understand.
How can she expect anything to happen between her and this guy if she doesn't even talk to him?
You <i>could</i> encourage her to talk more to this guy, but like I said, she can't fault you if she never made an attempt to talk to him.
♥ Lorelei
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