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I dont get good grades at all! I suk at skool! No kiddin bout it! Does n e one no good study habit's?

Ok, my friends and I do this. If you have to memorize, lets say, the solar system, aight? Then we make some crazy sentence out of it and my friends and I also make raps and songs to remember stuff in science and alla that. It's really fun, and my friends and I usually memorize them in minutes. Otherwise, just maybe...turn off the TV/radio/computer when you're studying? Hope I helped!

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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Ok, So last night (Saturday night) I met this girl (17 bout 4 months younger than me) and we talked, kissed, etc, Then she left and I got her phone number. Well, It's Valentines Day Tonight at midnight, and I was wondering if it would be too soon to ring her at midnight to wish her a happy Valentine? Or should I wait until morning? Any advice within the next 2 hours would be much appreciated! Btw I am 17/m

~Evilenterprisesinc

Omg, I think it's SoOoOoOoOoOoOoOoOo sweet that you'd do that! I think you should do that. And by the way, juss call her nd say "Baby, happy valentines day I wuv you so much and I dont know what I'd do without you!!!" That would be soooo sweet! Awl!! Lol, sorry if I freaked out but yeah I think you should call her Happy Valentines Day, hope I helped!

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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Tomorrow is valentines day. Ive been going out with my bf for 2 weeks now and we havnt hung out once, just at basketball games. I feel kinda wierd when its just us two. I want to hang out with him tomorrow everyones saying how pathetic it is that we dont hang out but none of my friends can come because they are ganna be with their bfs. What should i do?

I'm sorry to break it to you, but your friends are 100% right. It IS kind of pathetic to have a bf and not hang out with them, you know? And, I mean, if you feel weird when it's just you two, then hes not the guy. A guy that is the perfect match...you feel really comfortable around him, and he feels comfortable around you. If you dont plan on hanging out with him, then hang out with ur other girlfriends and they can bring their "hunnie bunnies" wif them, too.

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?

Signed,

Freaked out Friend

NO WAY! Hun, if you really care about your friend then you'd drive over there to see if he/she's okey! My friend did that for me when something happened to my G-pa when I was in the Philippines. I was so glad she came because that showed how much of a friend she is to me. I hope I helped, and I hope your friend is okey, too.

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?

Okey, I've been through this before. Here are some definite and some un-definite signs that they're going to break up with you. (some of these arent 100% accurate, it's just from my point of view and my experiences).

1) he doesnt call you anymore or as often as he used to.
2) when you say "hi" to him in the hallway, he doesnt even glance at you.
3) Whenever you go up to him for a hug, he dont hug u back (hate it when that happens...)
4) Hes huggin other chiicks.
5) He doesnt seem as interested in your thoughts as much as he used to.

Those are some tips for starters. If you need more, then just ask me. I hope I helped, I just wish I could have seen it coming with my BF.

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks

ashley

Dear Ashley,
Ok, so this guy is ObSeSsEd with you. That's creepy. Anyway, back to the point. I think you should get to know him better, but its kind of weird having an obsessive boyfriend. I mean, there has to be more to the guy, right? I think you should get to know him better and tell him to stop asking you out because you already said that you'd think about it. I hope I helped!

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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why is everyone so obsessed with giving hand jobs or all this other sexual stuff. I don't get it...to me it just seems so disgusting.

First of all, this question isnt about decorating your home...? o.O and for your answer, some people are just...WRONG. and Dumb. I'm sorry if that sounds rude or anything, but i'm just being truthful.

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch!

First of all before I start, SCREW THE LANDLORD! WHAT KIND OF JERK IS HE?! ITS A FREE COUNTRY!!! Ehm...excuse that :) anyway, I think that you should get a bunch of pictures of your friends and maybe make a collage on your wall. Put up posters of your favorite bands and celebrities, and put a DiiScO LiiGhT in your room, or maybe rope light! Make a collage of drawings your buddies and yourself make (thats what I do, and it's turning out real good). I hope I helped ;]

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)

Get a different shade of green, it'll look cooler. Or if you wanna color coordinate it to two colors, I suggest you go with either a dark or pale blue color for your bed. I think it would look really uber-cool (one of my new words). Hope I helped!

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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i used 2 always see matthew in school and hes always stare at me and smile. then i met him and he was friends with my boyfriend and whenever my boyfriend would go to the bathroom matthew would say mike if i was you i wouldnt get up your girls kind of cute i wanna sit with her..so it was sort of weird.. all the time in school he always says hi to me and yesterday i was in lunch and hes in the same one but i was walkin out of the caf to go to the bathroom and he was walkin in and like hugged my hips with like one hand and was like hey beautiful where are u going.. then later i was walkin by and he said hey and i said hi and kept walking and he was like how come you always walk away from me? so i stayed and he was like call me tonight if you want to hangout.. do u think he lykes me

No, he's juss flirting wif you for the heck of it!! Lol, YES he likes you!!! Lol, if he called you BeAuTiFuL and all that then he likes you! Hehe, that's sooo cute!

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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ok i have a bunch of friends that are just friends but i love them to death and i would do ne thing for them b/c they are my friends. some of them are girls and i wanted to get them sumthin so they would know i care for them. what should i get for a girl that i like a lot as a friend? like what do girls like to get from their guy friends?

From a guy, and girl likes almost ANYTHING. Give her a rose, a dozen roses, chocolate, or a teddy bear. Girls Lo0o0o0ove stuffed animals ;] Also, earrings are nice. I mean, jewelry doesnt have to be expensive. Or maybe you can get her a charm bracelet or just a charm if she already has one. Take this advice from a girl who likes getting gifts ;)

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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my brother got permanent marker on our kitchen table. its a finnished wood table.i need help fast please!!!!!!!or im in alotta trouble.

anyone know how to get it off? i will rate high!

Permanant marker comes off with SOMETHING!! Get some soap, a rag that you wont mind getting permanant stains on, and soak the rag and wash it! And while you're at it, take that marker away from your lil bro, he might put it on something else ;] hope I helped!

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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i'm a runner, but lately i have been lazey and i don't want to come home from school and run... but i love it and i am really good... now that my coach is hurt he won't be running for 3 weeks so i have to find a way to motivate myself since he is like my only running friend that calls practices and stuff. How can i motivate myself more? thanks

I suggest that you run with someone like one of your friends especially if they run faster than you do and maybe you can get some of your friends and have like a race or something. I think that running wif a friend really helps out and stuff. I hope i helped some! ;]

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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ok, im doing a science fair at my school blah blah blah...is this a good project: How does music affect one's ability to sleep well?

please be honest, p.s:im in seventh grade(13)
just thought it might help judge...thanx

Hey that's an AWESOME idea! Most science projects are like really boring and are usually about guinea pigs and tar...lmao, anyway that's really good I hope you do really well!

~SLeEp LyKe A BaBii~
xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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i am in 8th grade. and i am not doing VERy good in school. on my report card i got 2 F's! my mom is taking my phone, comp. after school act. away from me if i dnt get that up! what should i do??!!!

Woah! 2 F's?! Dang! Anyway, I think you should really get your study up. I mean, study more, look over your work, and ask your teachers for help if its absoloutely nessicary (I bet I spelled that word wrong, lol). Anyway, I hope you get your grades up ;]

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet.

Well, ignore those people! I mean, it doesnt matter if this guy is shorter than you, but if you really like this guy than dont bother with it! Those other peeps that make fun of you because of that, ignore 'em!! They're a bunch of Buffalo! I mean, Balogna!! Lol, sorry, a lil inside joke wif me and my friends Sammie and Aaron. Anyway, I hope I helped!

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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Hey, I'm 13/f and I think that my best friend might be gay. I mean, she's rather stalker-like, won't stop givin me stupid out-of-the-blue hugs, and keeps telling me online that she loves me. It's making me feel really uncomfortable and I have NO clue what to do.

I rate 5's for everyone..

Well, I mean, my friends do that to me, too. I mean, like, lul = luv ya lots. Anyway, about the hugs and stuff, I think thats normal, too. I might be wrong on this one, I gotta admit, but where I come from, it's TOTALLY normal. To girls, that is. Take this advice from a STRAIT girl. Otherwise, just ask the girl. I hope I helped ;]

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?

Of course it's NOT silly!!! If you've known her since you were a toddler, than your dog is like a sister to you. You know, part of the family. If your friends think that it's silly than they got somethin else coming to them because it's the same as losing a family member. So dont be ashamed to cry, ok? I hope you feel better about it.

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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I am having trouble, I'm babysitting for my neighbor. This one baby is very weird! She like poops every 5 mins. I do not want to change her diaper(that white thing that goes on her butt so she doesnt poop or pee in her pants). I am in the middle of watching a movie and she keeps crying. She has a brother too and he does the same thing(they are twins). It is crazy madness I tell you! So please help me and answer me ASAP! Tell me what I should do !!!! thank you!

LMAO Sorry about that, it just sounds kinda funny from my point of view ^.^ anyway, have you told the parents about it? I mean, if you havent, I think it's the best thing. Maybe then they can have some time to explain or maybe rethink about some stuff they did to the twins *cough* laxatives *cough* Anyway, I hope I helped some! ;]

xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo

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