Hey, I'm Kelli, better known as fabulous ;)
after a very long break from this site, I'm back and ready to help out anyone who needs it.
A little bit about me:
I'm fourteen and in eighth grade.
I'm a crazy girl, and I always have a smile on my face.
I love to sing and dance, I spend most of my time doing one or the other.
I am nice to everyone, until they give me a reason not to be.
I have the best friends in the world, and without their love and support, I wouldn't be who I am today.
Ask me anything, I'm told I'm good at advice so don't be afraid to ask my opinion. I'll do the best I can to help you out! ♥
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well i have this best friend lets say his name is umm starr lol anyways i figured out a few months ago that he liked me...a lot and like i told him a few days ago that since we were friends i couldnt hide anything from him and i told him i knew he liked me.. but now everything is all akward but the thing is we`re trying to get ourselves through it and we`re helping eachother get throught it.. we call eachother everyday which is kinda weird b/c the problem is us. but i`m really glad that we`re helping eachother b/c if we werent it would be really akward.. i guess i do like him a little but what am i so confused about?? and what should i do? (link)
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Hey. I hate to say it but we have all been through something like this at one time or another. Its very natural for you to be confused because expecially since your with him all the time its hard to imagine being something other then friends. You need to talk this over with him and let him no where you stand right now and also let him now that you don't want things to be awkward because he does like you. Once you decide what your going to do just remember to value your friendship and try to have a mutual understanding that your friendship comes before anything else. Sorry if this doesn't really answer your question but I hope I helped just the same. Good luck to you and your friend
♥ fabulous
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I have major cramps during my period and sometimes i even cry cuz they hurt so much. What can i do to stop or make the cramps better? I cant take advil or tylenol or anything at school so i need something that will last all day and/or night. And i live with my dad so i need some advice on talking to him about stuff like this.
Thanks.
*Christie* (link)
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Hey. Boy do I know all about bad cramps. When I have my period I get them terribly. Before you leave for school take either motrin or midol (I would recomend motrin though because it usually lasts 6-8 hours) depending on your size, for menstrual stuff some doctors may let you take up to four tablets. Also when your at home after school its best to just take it easy. Use the heating pad and take warm baths. Hopefully this will help it to not be so painful.As for talking about it with your dad, it will probably be easier for you if you can treat it as if its not awkward to talk about even if it is. Just say dad before I go to school I need to take some motrin or whatever cause I have some bad cramps. If your not comfortable saying that at first you could even just say you need to take it for stomach pains. Hope I helped and good luck with everything
♥ fabulous
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my mum just bought me home some footless tights, i never asked for them, she just bought them. What on earth can i wear them with?! Photos would be really excellent! thanks (link)
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Hey. All the girls at my school wear those (we call them leggings though) anyway they all pair them with denim mini skirts and either uggs or ballet flats. It looks really cute and it helps since you can wear a skirt in the cold! Hope I helped
♥ fabulous
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I'm looking for a sweet sixteen dress. I would like a pink one..can anyone tell me where i can find a cute dress?! (link)
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Hey. I would most definatly reccomend going to DEB. You can probably find it in the mall but if not go to www.debshops.com. They have awesome dresses there from casual to prom so I'm sure they will have something you like. The prices are pretty reasonable to. Good luck hope I helped
♥ fabulous
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I get alot of cramps durring my period. Why is that? I mean, like I don't mean like why do I get so many cramps. But I mean, what in the cycle causes the cramps?
Thanks much! (link)
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Hey. Before you get your period your egg comes out and for it to have a "soft landing" lets say the tissue in your uterist builds up. Your period comes when that extra tissue comes out because once the egg is out there is no use for it anymore. The contracting of blood is what causes you to have cramps. Try taking warm baths and using heating pads, also take motrin or midol ( i take motrin and with menstrual symptoms, your doctor may let you take up to four tablets) hope I helped
&hearts fabulous
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i remember seeing somewhere these boots that looked like they were wool or cotton or some material like that lol and they were like slippers...they were really cute but idk where i saw them does anyone know what im talking about or have any clue? i'll appreciate any place/website you tell me that has them. thanks :) (link)
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Hey. I know they sell things like that at aeropostale. Also you could check payless. Hope I helped ♥
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I'm thinking of getting a new hairstyle but I don't really know if I can explain it to the barber well. I want to have my hair staight up and spikey with red stipes. Does that certain style have any kind of name or something? (link)
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Hey. I don't think theres a name for it. When you go to get your hair done I would tell him to cut it close on the sides and leave more in the middle. Then if you want spikes use gel or mousse. As for red dye? Its your choice if you choose to do your whole head, the middle, or just wash out dye on the spikes. Hope I helped ♥
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Does anyone know where I can get a good hair straightener that works really good on fairly thick hair. My price range is 50$ and below. -
thankss =] (link)
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Hey. Walmart cells good conair straightners and other versions of the same thing for about $30.00. Also you can try places like brooks,cvs,walgreens, or job lot. Good luck ♥
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Hey, I'm a guy and I grow my hair out long, over a foot in length. I wear it parted in the middle and pulled back in a pony-tail, and have had it like this for several years now. Just recently, I've started having a lot of breakage in my hair, lots in the shower drain and in the brush or comb. (no, I am not going bald, in case you're wondering) I can see the ends where the hair has broken and it's looking really bad.
Is there a type of shampoo or conditioner that works well for longer hair and prevents breakage? I've been doing other things that my girlfriend suggested such as using a hairdryer and certain ways of combing. But I still have a lot of breakage problem. Don't want to cut it off, either, as I like having it long. =P
Any advice or suggestions? If it helps at all, my hair is also very fine, not thick or curly. (link)
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Hey. I use this shampoo its by garnier fructis and it is called length and strength. It prevents breakage and split ends and adds shine to long hair. Good luck hope I helped ♥
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what exersises could i do for my thighs to tone them??
thanks (link)
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Hey. At cheerleading practices my coaches have us do these things called peter pans and they hurt a lot but they really helped tone your thighs. All you do is put your hands on the front of your hips with your feet spread apart and squat real low but keep your back straight and your head up. Then jump straight up in the air and bring your feet together then land in the squat again. Keep doing these and you will see results soon. Hope I helped ♥
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ive always been unhappy about my nose. i think its kinda big and i dont know! i know i have to live with it but its something ive always been self-conscious about. and it made me even MORE tonight. you see there is this adorable kid and hes really sweet and hes always thought i was hott my cousin said. but then tonight he came up somehow and my cousin was like he said you werent so hott anymore and because you had a jacked up nose or something. this made me feel really bad about myself because i thought people were getting past seeing my nose. everyone thinks im soo pretty but i just cant get over my nose and sometimes i just think im overreacting but then when people start saying stuff i know its true. i just dont know what to doo.. =( (link)
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Hey. I wanna let you know I go through the same thing every day. No matter how good I look I can't look past my nose. What I try to do is boost my confidence but finding other good qualities about myself. If you can do that it doesn't really matter what people think of you. People are always gonna be mean and all you can really do is keep smiling. I'm sorry if this doesn't help much, I just thought maybe hearing that other people go through the same thing would make you be a little more positive about yourself. Hope I helped (even a little) ♥
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okay well this might not be in the right catagory so im sorry...
but anyways, me and my friend just got out of a HUGE fight and weve been gettin along better but we still havent talked about our problems but i told her that we r gonna talk about them either tommorrow or the next day.. i just wanna know how i shoulld bring things up..((if you dont remember or didnt read the fight it is labeled: its about to be a .....GIRLFIGHT)) i know corny title but yea, please help=]
thanx (link)
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heyy. I know it may seem tough to bring it up but it needs to be done. If whatever it was you fought about isn't brought into the open it could blow up again and make things worse off and you don't want to ruin your friendship. Get your friend to sit in your room with you or some other place without distractiona and say, I know this may be tough to talk about but its important. When we had our fight... hopefully she agrees that things need to be discussed between the two of you. Good luck with your friend. I hope things go well for you and I hope your friendship stays strong. ♥ Kelli
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I really need to pass all my classes with at least
a B+ the next 3 months because my parents are not cutting me any slack and my friends all get good grades and just once i would like to prove to them that i could get good grades also. So i need a study routine or something that'll help me get on track to better grades. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Hey. like you said you need to get yourself into a routine. If possible, stay after school to get homework done or to study because there would be fewer destractions then if you were at home or a friends house. Secondly, if you don't stay after pick a time that you do your homework and stick to it. If you do your homework at 6 everyday for example make sure you follow through with this every night. Study for all your tests and get a good nights sleep every night. Good luck I hope you do well &heartst; Kelli
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if somebody blocks their number and calls you, is there any way to find out the number they called you from? (link)
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Hey. I'm not a hundred percent sure but try dialing *69. I really don't think it will work but it is a way to find out who called you last so you can try it. Blocked calls are usually a secret though so I don't think there is too much to do. Sorry though I hope that number works for you ♥ kelli
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Ohmygod. Rawr. Right now, I have my period.
Its the worse one I have had in my life.
I have taken 2 midol, its not doing nothing..
My back is killing me, I havent aten in 1 day becasue I have absoutly no appitite, Everthing hurts. Even my legs.
help? What do you take for these things!? Midol used to work, now, it doesnt!
Thanks so much (link)
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Hey. Ugh trust me I know how it is.. take a hot bath and then take motron (depending on your weight you may be able to take as many as four but ask your dr) and lay down with a heating pad on. Even though you don't have an apitite try to eat something lite like soup. Good luck and hope you feel better soon ♥ Kelli
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I really don't know how to match up clothes. I want to look cute.
Any ideas?
Like... [color] shirt, [color] jeans or skirt, flats/boots/vans ? accessories?
I just look at my clothes and I have no idea how to put it together.
Any pictures would be nice so I can try to copy the look.
NOTHING from Hollister, etc. (I'm not made of money) (link)
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Hey. When your putting on your outfit in the morning pay attention to colors and designs. Too much of something can result in looking bad. If you are wearing the same color such as blue and blue for example make sure that the shades are either the same or very different because if you try to match them up and they aren't exact people can tell what you were trying to do and it doesn't look good. Same thing goes for jewelry and stuff try not to mix bad colors or have too much of a color. And shoes I would say wear a style depending on how fancy you are dressed. If you are wearing jeans stick with sneakers but if you wear a skirt or something then maybe wear something with a low heel. Good luck ♥ Kelli
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Ok so i am a blonde haired skinny girl with no boobs ( ok they are there but the guys dont think so) and i have some butt. But anyways i am growing my bangs out and they are to my chin my reg. hair is a little passed my shoulders my bangs look horrible just down with my hair straight any idea's on how i could do my hair and pulling the bangs back doesnt work i have tried. Please help (link)
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Hey. I am going through the exact same thing. Except for the hair color we sound a lot alike. What I do is I use headbands (get one with the material and size that you like best) or put your hair in a high pony or half pony and pull them into it ( you can flatten them out with gel) lastly you could do french braids or cornrows and tuck them inside. And of course you could stick them behind your ears. Hope I helped ♥ x0xfabulous0x
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I had my hair really long, i mean long, when i wore it down, it came all the way to my belly button and i wanted to get it cut so i did and now, its only a little past my shoulders! its WAY WAY to short!! I know that my friends wont like it either,,,i know i shouldnt care what people think but i do. I will always. I know this sounds like i am a prep but i really am concerned about this! please help! (link)
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Hey! Don't even stress it! The only reason it feels funny is cause its something new. A ton of the girls in my grade came back for school in the fall with short hair. It looks really good on most of them and its kind of the style now. Even if you dont like your hair it is so important to act confident because how you wear it will help determine what people think. And if you don't like it down expierement with ponytails, french braids, or straight and scrunched. I hope I helped ♥ Kelli
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does anybody know any ways that i can clean my straightener?
it has a lot of build-up & residue from the balm i use in my hair, and its soo bad that its not even working right anymore.
suggestions??? (link)
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Hey. First thing you should do is put rubbing alcohol on a cutip and get in between the cracks and hard to get spaces. Then just put soap and water on a cloth or any type of safe cleaner and rub it across the ceramic plates. Make sure the cloth is damp not soaked, that its not plugged in when you do this, and that you dry it off when you are done. Hope I helped ♥
Kelli
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okay this is how it goes....
a friend of mine recently quit the smoking habit although he still is a heavy drinker,and the wierd part is that his girl left him because of he quit the smoking habit.So my question is,do girls get turned on by smokers or off?and do girls mind if their guys are drinkers? and finally,what should I say to my friend's girl?cause we all are pretty good friends and I wish I could help mend their relationship.thanks (link)
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Hey. I guess it depends on the girl. Some girls ( usually teenagers or smokers themselves) could get turned on by smoking I guess but most people I know wouldnt. Same thing goes for drinking. As for trying to mend their relationsip- I would just talk to the girl and explain that he did this for health reasons. If she still does not agree then I wouldn't interfere anymore. Relationships take time and if they are meant to be then it will find a way. Plus this guy probably wants a girl that respects him for who he is.. not for what he does. Good luck ♥ Kelli
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