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anyone know any good bands or songs that sing songs about love? (link)
Hellogoodbye- "If you wanna, I might"
Chris Rice- "Lemonade"
Pink Spiders- "Little Razorblade"
Damone- "Carwash Romance"(actually, almost all their old ones are love songs!)
Secondhand Serenade- "The Last Song Ever", "Vulnerable", or "Half Alive"
Dashboard Confessional- "Warmth Of the Sand" and "Screaming Infidelites"

Those are some of my favorites...just hit me up if you want more...Hope I've helped!!!


okay i love my sister sooo much & we are extremly close, but 1 thing bothers me about her. she is almost 15 years old & i am 17, but everybody thinks she is older then me when they meet us! i do not look young for my age, but she has much bigger boobs then me (which is fine she's like a c or d & i am a b) & she's a little bigger then me in general. neither of us is ugly & i don't care that i happen to be smaller, but it just bothers me that everyone always thinks i am the younger one. what can i do to meither make them think i am the older sister or at leats stop it from bothering me?! (link)
Oh gosh, I know how you feel. There is nothing you can do at all right now but be grateful!!! Just think, when you're 30 years old, you'll still look like a teenager. And besides that, guys like small girls--alot!!! So hold your head up, and don't let it get you down!!! Hope I've helped some!!!


im 13/f and i want to get a small job somewhere just for the extra money. can i get a job now (besides babysitting or something)? or do i have to wait until im older? what age? (link)
Most places hire at age 15, part time. Some places might hire at 14 though, it just depends on the place. I hope I've helped you!!!


I always go to a specific hair salon to get my hair cut, but i've never had it highlighted before, (which is what i want to do ) on the salon's website it says "first time color $44.00 and up" but THEN it says "highlights and lowlights are 74.00 and up" what i was eondering is, what do they mean by a first time color? do you think that the first time color only applies to the dying of the WHOLE head as aopposed to highlights, which seems to be more expensive
thanx (link)
"First time color" seems to be the whole head. It's cheaped because it's much quicker than highlights are. Hope I helped ya!


First me and my EX was going together for 2 1/2 years. we broke up because i couldnt take who was protraying to be. BUT i promised him i will always be there for him. Then he has this new girl ma and my ex stll (mess around) but he pissed me off about 3 weeks ago and i said i want nothing to do with him but 2 days ago i got a letter from him from JAIL. saying that he needs me to get through this. SHOULD I BE THERE FOR HIM, OR should i tell him to call his gurl

thanks guys, now i need your help. (link)
I'd tell him to call his girl. I understand you really love him, but he moved on and now that he's in trouble, he seems like he's just trying to use you! If it were me, I would so not take that. Hope I helped!


Hello, this july will be me and boyfriends 6th month being together. I wanted to do something special for him for this day, but i cant really think of anything creative, so i was wondering if any of you can think of stuff. The 6th anniversary will also be on my birthday, so there's something you may think of. I am going to turn 15 and he's 16, just to help ya out a bit.

Thanks a bunch,
-Racquel (link)
Well, since it is your anniversary, try cooking dinner for him. Even if you can't cook well, he'll definately appreciate your effort. If you're afraid you might kill him by cooking something, go out to dinner together. It'll be romantic and fun for both of you. Well, hope this helps!!!


Last school year, my friend Shawn and I messed around like two times. Well since we were such good friends, we both decided that we didn't want all of our other friends to know about it. But, I had to talk about it to someone so I told my closest girl friend, Melissa because we tell each other EVERYTHING (well we used to anyway now I tend to keep most things like this to myself and not tell her).


So I was talking to another friend, Mark and asking him about his new girlfriend (this was about a month after I told Melissa about Shawn). He wouldn't tell me what I wanted to know and said that the only person that did know was him, his girlfriend, and Melissa.


That really pissed me off because, well, wouldn't it piss you off? So I asked him why he told Melissa and wouldn't tell me. At this point, I didn't care about him and his girlfriend any more; I wanted to know why he thought he could trust Melissa over me.


He told me that he doesn't trust her over me and that the only reason he told her was because she traded other information. He told me not to make a big deal out of it but she told him about Shawn and me to get the information about him and his girlfriend.


I was furious when he told me this and the only thing keeping me from fucking exploding in her back stabbing, untrusting, face was that she was having some serious family issues.


Now, every time she tells me about the guys in her life I remember how she "traded information" about me and it drives me insane!! I wasnt to say something SO bad but since it happened last year I don't know how it'd turn out. What do I do here? I seriously can't take it anymore.
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Hey, I say confront her!!! It's not right that she told your secret without your consent. Just sit her down at tell her how this made you feel. If she's a good friend, she'll apologize for what she did. Hopefully you can work things out with your friend!!! :D


Ineed money for my turtles supplies but I don't know how to get it. Allowence isn't an option anymore,neither are lownes. I need something genius that will help me earn enough to buy a special lamp for it. help me. I;m a girl in need. (bubba doesn't mean you're a girl). (link)
What I do for money is make braclets. Sounds lame, but if you sell them to people you know, you get alot of money.


which is better an Ipod or an Mp3 player and y? (link)
Personally, I love my Mp3 player...It was cheaper than the Ipods I looked at...


Hey I have chicken legs!!! =P
Well yea and I want to know if there is anyway to make them fatter without making my tummy fatter. I lub the rest of my body except my legs. And I really dont want muscular legs, i want to have a little fat around them before any muscle. =/ (link)
Just be thankful you have chicken legs, really. I'm quite sure there are people who'd want your legs.


hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.

I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?

thank you (link)
You may feel like you're being punished for telling the truth, but don't. You did the right thing! If he can't accept your apology, then it is possible that he never will. But for the time being, I say give him some time. He might come around and forgive you. If he doesn't and you know he never will, let him go. It's possible that he may realize how harsh he's being and get back with you.


okay so theres this boy. we'll call him Elmo. so i've liked elmo for what, 6 months now? and does he even care to think about me? no..and we're good friends but i must just not be skinny or pretty or slutty enough. he knows i liek him but i dont think he gets it. i also know i shouldnt stay stuck on him. im not everr ever gonna change for him, but how can he understand how much he means to me?

stupid elmo. (link)
I hate to say this, but the truth is...he probably never will. This sounds harsh, but it's true. If he only likes slutty girls, there is no way to change that. But have you ever considered that "Elmo" may like you? That he's just hiding his feelings for you until the perfect time? Guys work in strange and mysterious ways, you know. Another suggestion is that you step up to the plate and tell him for yourself. You say that he knows, but are you positively sure he knows?




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