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friends or umm..?
well i have this best friend lets say his name is umm starr lol anyways i figured out a few months ago that he liked me...a lot and like i told him a few days ago that since we were friends i couldnt hide anything from him and i told him i knew he liked me.. but now everything is all akward but the thing is we`re trying to get ourselves through it and we`re helping eachother get throught it.. we call eachother everyday which is kinda weird b/c the problem is us. but i`m really glad that we`re helping eachother b/c if we werent it would be really akward.. i guess i do like him a little but what am i so confused about?? and what should i do?
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Hey. I hate to say it but we have all been through something like this at one time or another. Its very natural for you to be confused because expecially since your with him all the time its hard to imagine being something other then friends. You need to talk this over with him and let him no where you stand right now and also let him now that you don't want things to be awkward because he does like you. Once you decide what your going to do just remember to value your friendship and try to have a mutual understanding that your friendship comes before anything else. Sorry if this doesn't really answer your question but I hope I helped just the same. Good luck to you and your friend
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Dear Reader,
You are most definitly not alone!!! I felt the same way with one of my guy friends that I used to like. And really what you're confused about is wether you can see past that "friend" and determine if he's boyfriend material. And also the other thing I think you're worried about is if your friendship can last through a relationship (if you do decide to go out) and if you two break up then would the friendship be over. I think if you two are really that close as friends then after you two break up you'll both stay friends. What you should do is talk to him and stuff and by your question you already do. Make sure that you really DO like him before you start leading him on because that hurts too. And really, things are going to be awkward from time to time, no doubt about that but try to put yourself back in the old days before you found out that he liked you. And just play it cool. Back to what i was saying, If you do like him and you decide that you want to take it to the next level, I say go for it! But really, the only way you're going to get there, if you're interested, is by TALKING TO HIM. Good luck and let me know how things go (:
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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You should try talking to him about the possibility of you liking him. Its good that you were honest with him and told him that you knew he liked you and its natural to be awkward around eachother now but if you like him you should tell him and maybe talk about going out/dating but make sure that you guys always stay friends no matter what because im sure you dont want to lose "starr" as a friend :] and im not quite sure what you mean by being confuzed about it. but maybe you're not sure if you have feelings for him or not? best thing to do is talk to him about it but only if you're comfortable telling him :] hope i helped. let me know oxxx Sam <3
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Hmmmmm. Maybe you should talk to him telling him how you feel. Tell him you kind of like him but your not really sure. Maybe you could even act like you did like him, not lead him on or anything, just to experiment and see if you do. And you should also tell him that you would be doing that so he gets it and doesn't think otherwise, you know? You could go on a couple of dates, see if any sparks fly, and if they do they heyyyy you got yourself a boyfriend! But if not hahh you can just be friends, no harm done to the relationship.
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