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love til you feel it
it's all that we need in our lives.
so stand on the edge with me,
hold back your fear and see
nothing is real til it's gone.
& hold on before it's too late,
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don't fall just be who you are,
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i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.
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I just recently (2 weeks ago?) lost my virginity,
and now I've been noticing my..er.. smell.. more. (16/f btw) is that normal?
Also, when my boyfriend and I have sex, sometimes he doesnt actually go inside me? Is that something that he'll just figure out how to do on his own or should I help out?
Sometimes the smell can be a little stronger, so that's normal.
If he's not going in you it's not sex? You need to tell him! Who cares if he feels dumb. I'm sure he'd feel dumber if you never told him. So just say, "Baby. The hole is right here."
okay. me and this kid have a history. we've dated on and off. but he's the only guy im fully comfortable with.
he asked me if id have sex with him.
and i want to .. bad.
but at the same time. this is gonna seem weird. but i get really bad ingrown hairs and their red and gross. i dont want him to think i have some weird disguisting disease .. i'm not sure how to go about it. i've avoided all stuff like this so i dont have to tell anyone. its embarassing and ugly.
so its either dont do stuff. or do it like udner blankets wit the lights off. i dont know ..
Well do what the people below you said.
BUT, if your planning on having sex soon before they actually go away then do it under the blankets. If he tries to eat you out or something like that I'm sure he wont care. If he asks say it's razor burn? He shouldn't care.
my boyfriend and i had anal sex and i kind of pooped a little....it was on the condom and he was like "you pooped". i was so embarrased but does that happen often.
I've actually tried that once. I don't like it, because I think it hurts.
I'm assuming it's normal to poop a little. When it went inside of my butt it felt like I had a huge poop stuck in there, and hurt so badly. It should be normal though, because somethings go up there and like making it come out faster.
why do guys always hit on u by sayin " heyyyy shawty" or sumthin unintelligent like this is there a way to stop this from happenin to me when i go to the local store
Hey shawty? That's just makes them sound ghetto and dirty, in my opinion.
It means they think you're hott though or something like that. If you think they're hott talk to them back?
Does anyone know any German bands/ German techno bands
other then Ramstein and Tokio Hotel
go on google and type in german techno bands.
you'll find some.
my boyfriend and i have been having sex for about a month now. We use condoms and i don't want to get on birth control pills because my parents may be able to tell. is there anything else i could do to prevent pregnancy
I'm sorry to tell you but other than condoms and the pill nothing else really works unless you go to a doctor. But if you don't want your mom to know then I'd just use condoms. Otherwise you can use a shot from the doctor, or a lot of other things.
should i break up with my bf? he is always looking at other girls and commenting on how hot they are. what would you do if you were me??
In my case I would, but that's just me.
I am a very jealous person, and that would just make me go over the edge. All people are different though. If you THINK he really likes you, and things could work out talk to him about it. Tell him that it bothers you alot, and you want it to stop, or you'll have to end it. If it doesn't then loose him. If he stops then good job. I just realized you said you've been together over a year, so apparently he does like you. If you spend a lot of time together explaning it shouldn't be that dificult. Give it a shot and see what happens.
Good luck.
What flavors do guys like when kissing a girl? Like what flavor lip balm or gloss would you like the gilr to be wearing?
I don't know about every single guy, but my boyfriend doesn't like it when I wear lipgloss. It gets everywhere on them, and they probably aren't too into that. You can try though.
My boyfriend of 7 months is really close to his mom. Yesterday he ended up telling her what we've done physically. [up to finger/handjob]. His mom was cool with it...but I am not. I'm absolutely shocked that he would tell her this. I'm glad they have a good relationship but telling her personal things like that is just too much. I'm gonna feel like a slut the next time I see her. He argues that they are close (his mom told him it was wrong today).. in my family, we're don't ask, don't tell. My parents just tell me to wait & be careful but don't ask for details because they know it's between 2 people only. I tried putting it behind me but it came up before & I'm pissed at him again. Any help? Am I wrong for being angry?
No you're not wrong for being angry. You have a lot of right to be angry. Like Tina said, it is your personal life and not hers. Tell him you don't want your buisness out everywhere.
ok so letz call him chris. he lovez me nd i really do love him. even doe i don't act like it. he'z like my bestfriend. so the other day he got drunk and he fucked 3 gurls. but he told me. atleast i didn't hear it from some1 else. inoe it was supposed 2 be hurt but i wasnt. i was mad but he was drunk. so last night when he said something about this girl he loved and his broken heart it hurt me. i never thought he could hurt me i didn't know i let him get so close and i've known this kid for so long. i love him but i don't know what to do. he really thinks me and him r meant for eachother. he wants 2 be together. i'm scared. i don't know what 2 do.
I can't really understand what you said either. Like Tina said below me. (:
If you are with him, leave him. Being drunk you have some sense of what you're doing. Three girls in one night is nasty, and trashy, and you need to move on. No affence, but he doesn't love you if he's going to fuck 3 other girls.
Dump him and find someone new.
So I'm getting kind of tired of dressing like everyone else. All of the stores have the same things around here. Everyone is either wearing Abercrombie, American Eagle, or Aeropostale. Anybody else have any ideas? Even if you dont think I'd like them.. just throw them out there so it is something I could consider. Thank you :] Any ideas are appreciated.
P.S. 15/F Avg. Body
Here are some good stores that MOST people don't wear.
Delia's.
Wetseal.
Kohls.
Buckle.
Gadzook.
Rave.
Sears.
Most of them are alot cheaper then Hollister, Abercrombie, AE, and sometimes you'll find some adorable things! Good luck.
im in 9th grade, 15, and im THIS close to going out with a 7th grader. he's 13. this is odd, because im not desperate, im just really attracted to him. and we like each other. but, is it worth it? and is that really odd? and, by the way, i don't care what people will say, that wouldn't be a reason not to go out with him. so any words of advice?
It's perfectly fine in my opinion. I'll be fifteen in June, and I'm dating a seventeen year old. He's a senior and I'm in eighth, (Only because I got held back.) People don't really say anything though. I don't think age matters and it doesn't make you seem desperate. If you like him you like him! Go for it.
just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss.
My first real kiss was when I was 12. I was in the sixth grade, and me and my friend Danielle made out with our boyfriends at the local ice arena. It was in the arcade, and my mom walked in. It was terrible. It doesn't matter how old you are when you have your first kiss. Yours will luckely be more special. Good luck. (:
I think You are really weired.
I agree. (:
There are somethings you don't know about me though. About the fact that I have a heavy flow and a wide set vagina, but shh. (:
14/f
well me and my ex broke up along time ago. we always still loved eachother, we were together for about 5 months.we just kinda floated away, now we are talking again. we wanna date again but im scared we are going to "float" apart again. what should i do? holla bac at da snowbunny "kizzaz"
If you want to go back out with him then go for it. What's the worst that can happen? If you work out things you probably won't "float" away.
16/f
Today me and my boyfriend that have been together for the longest time had sex for the second time. The first time was weird. This time it was amazing, it didn't last that long, but long enough. It would have been better if it was longer. I know why it wasn't long i do not need an explanation on that. However i wanted him to go harder and faster because it felt amazing. He said after the sex that he didn't go so hard because it felt like the condom was going to fall off because it was so tight. Now do you think the condom would really come off for that reason? Any other advice would help as well. Thank you. :)
Yes it could break because of the pressure between you two. But yea, durex works very well. They usually get the job done perfectly, and it can be pretty hard. Good luck! (:
How long should I wait after sex to get an accurate result for a pregnancy test?
If you know that an accident has occured maybe two-five days before your normal period, if you aren't sure then you could wait till like two-five days AFTER your missed period.
Good luck! (:
How long after sex should I start seeing signs of pregnancy? And what are the first signs?? Thanks
Some of the signs could varey as early as 2 days.
Nasuea (Morning sickness.)
Tender/Swollen breasts.
Smells make you wanna throw up.
Food cravings.
Obvisoly a missed period. (But some other signs can happen before this even occurs.)
There's a few more I can't think of at the moment. I'm at school right now or I'd get you some sites, but they're all blocked. Try going to google, and typing in "Pregnancy Signs." or "Early Pregnancy Signs." Those sites should give you some more answers.
Good luck!
i have an amazing boyfriend, he does everything you could emagine a wonderful boyfriend doing. we've been together 5 and a half months now. i used to be so happy with everything, but he's 3 years older than me. i'm only 15 and everything is so serious now. he also get VERY jealous, and i'm not allowed to talk to other guy, text any other guys or anything, i barely even get to hang out with my friends. i really love my boyfriend but i keep thinking do i really want to be so serious, i'm only 15 i need freedom.
i need some advice on what to do here?
i'm going thru the exact same situation. i deal with it though, because i am kind of the same way.
what you need to do is talk to him. explain to him that he's the one you want and if you do talk to guys you're not going to leave him. tell him it's talking OH WELL. i'm not guaranteeing he'll understand, but it's worth a shot. i really love my boyfriend too, and i know it's hard to deal with it, but if you can't take it anymore and stuff i guess just end it. i feel bad telling you that, but i'm sorry.
i understand you need freedom, we all do. what i'm trying to say is just tell him not to get jealous about everything, somethings are alright but everything is out of line. if nothing works then you become the same as him. make him realize how it's like, and possibly things will change. good luck. you can leave something in my inbox, i'll help you as much as i can. (:
So, I'm 17/m and my gf is 15. I live in Canada and just wanted to know what the legal age limit is for dating, sexually and non-sexually. We've been together for a year now and I'm just curious.
Thanks to everyone. o^-^o
i think it's 4 years, if you want to be sexually active. i'm not sure though. i'm dating someone whose 17 too, and he'll be 18 in september, i don't care though. don't worry about it. (: