Additional info, added Tuesday May 22 2007, 1:47 pm: if it helps..we are both 18 and have been together for over a year. we spend a lot of time together... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? crazyme6 answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 12:26 am: well if he says it in front of you thats very rude and inconsiderate to your feelings so talk to him about it! explain that it bothers you because you care about him and its a natural tendency of girls to feel a little bit jealous..talk it out and if he doesnt apologize or isnt willing to change..thats when breaking up could come into consideration but since you two have been together for so long if you truly like him alot or love him then just talk it out! [ crazyme6's advice column | Ask crazyme6 A Question ]
elizxabeth answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 11:33 pm: there's no reason to break up with him, especially since you've been together for awhile. it's only natural for guys to look at girls, you can't get mad about that. but if i were you i wouldn't be happy about my boyfriend saying those things right in front of me. so just talk to him about it, and tell him that you would appreciate it if he kept those comments to himself, at least around you. i'm sure he doesn't want you talking about guys you think are hot around him, so i bet he'll understand :)
Israelb13 answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 10:53 pm: tell him how you feel about him saying that in front of her and if he dosent stop all hes telling you that once you two break up hes going to try to get with that girl [ Israelb13's advice column | Ask Israelb13 A Question ]
jdiiiizle answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 10:14 pm: That is no reason to break up with someone, let be serious. Just let him know how you feel about that, but I honestly do not think you should break up with a guy for looking at girls. Like you never looked at a hot guy who passed you? Guys will be guys, and he probably feels comfortable enough with the relationship so much that he will just flat out be himself. You have been going out over a year, so I feel thats no big deal. [ jdiiiizle's advice column | Ask jdiiiizle A Question ]
DepthofHeart answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 9:57 pm: Well first off, guys can be so oblivious. He probably doesn't know how you feel about this.
So if I were you I would talk to him first. Say that you don't like or that it makes you uncomfortable how he's always looking at other girls and commenting on how they look. I would be upset if my boyfriend did that too. Tell him how you feel, and then if he still doesn't stop then you should break up with him.
x0advice4y3w answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 9:50 pm: In my case I would, but that's just me.
I am a very jealous person, and that would just make me go over the edge. All people are different though. If you THINK he really likes you, and things could work out talk to him about it. Tell him that it bothers you alot, and you want it to stop, or you'll have to end it. If it doesn't then loose him. If he stops then good job. I just realized you said you've been together over a year, so apparently he does like you. If you spend a lot of time together explaning it shouldn't be that dificult. Give it a shot and see what happens.
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