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how to invite my crush somewhere?
My friend is having some people round hers for a certain tv series fest. The guy I want to invite and his friends love this series, and so do we.
I would say I'm a friend of his, but a very new friend and I don't know him that well.
Already coming are me, my friend who's house it's at, our other friend who he knows as much as us, one of his guy mates who's one of my best friends and one of his best guy mates.
We've also already invited his best friend, but we don't know if she's coming yet.
I'm comfortable with him but not when it comes to asking him if he wants to do things.
I don't want to ask someone else to invite him cos I know if I always do that there's no way I'm going to overcome my shyness.
But, what's the best way to ask him?
Thanks in advance, xxx
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people always overthink about what to say right before they go up to someone and ask them out or anything. my advice is don't overthink. its really all in your head. just take a deep breath and say what comes to your mind and your heart. It has worked for me and good luck i hope it will work for you.
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if you feel more comfortable about it, you can just ask him on aol or aim. theres nothing wrong with that. start by saying hey and then he'll say hey, yall will talk a little bit, and then just say "hey u like (tv series's name) dont u? yea so my friend is having a get 2gether for the (tv series's name) fest. so u wanna come?
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First of all how do you expect him to start noticing you if you are too scared to talk to him or invite him? You need to treat this exactly like you would talking to anyone else.
It's no different and he won't judge you or anything like that. just talk to him like you would any other friend or person. The only difference is you might get a date or a smootch at the end of the night.
In your head think to yourself the following things: 1) He loves this show and so do I 2) He's going to want to come and watch it. and the biggest trick to tell your mind is 3) he's hanging on for ever word I utter.
All you need to do then is find him at school and say "I'm so and so, remember me? My friends are having this party to wtach a marathon of that show you like and we were all hoping you would come."
That's it that's all there is to it. If he's not interested and refuses other invites it's a sign that he's not in to you at least not as G/f material. All you have to do is just say what I just put in quotes above and you are fine.
If you cannot do the in person thing which I encourage you to do try using IM or call him and invite him. You need to do it person though as once you ask him you'll be able to talk to him or any other guy with ease.
It's just like talking to your best friend. We're no different to talk to. Just invite him when you see him at school. He's not going to hurt you. Do this once and you'll be fine forever with it.
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What I would do: Ask him online. Just say the usual "Hey, whatsup, nmu?" then say something like "u watch ___ right?" and he'll say yes, and you can say "well (lets say ur friends name is karen) me and a few people are getting together to watch the fest at karens house, you should come" im rlly comfortable around guys (im not too much of a girly girl) but online is easy because he wont know youre nervous.
hope i helped! xo
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