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i love this kid so much and he hurt me.should i stay or leav
ok so letz call him chris. he lovez me nd i really do love him. even doe i don't act like it. he'z like my bestfriend. so the other day he got drunk and he fucked 3 gurls. but he told me. atleast i didn't hear it from some1 else. inoe it was supposed 2 be hurt but i wasnt. i was mad but he was drunk. so last night when he said something about this girl he loved and his broken heart it hurt me. i never thought he could hurt me i didn't know i let him get so close and i've known this kid for so long. i love him but i don't know what to do. he really thinks me and him r meant for eachother. he wants 2 be together. i'm scared. i don't know what 2 do.
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Ok so this kid says he loves you? Yet he cheats on you with 3 girls. No offense but you can do so much better. I've been cheated on and I've cheated once to get back at that boy but I know how bad it hurts you. It's like your heart is getting stomped on. But trust me he's not the right one for you. If he cheated it means he's looking for something new. It's nasty and dirty but no girl will ever understand why guys do or say the things they do but we move on to bigger and better things. You may think you love him but trust me. One day your gonna meet the most perfect guy for you and you will be the happiest person in the world. But in the mean time Kich his ass to the curb. Find a guy who treats you like royalty...
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being drunk is no excuse to cheat. once a cheater always a cheater believe me thats true. I would leave him and give it some time apart and then talk to him about it again and the get back together maybe in the future but i wouldnt stay with someone tht did that to me thats not right at all if he really wants to be with you then if you break up with him then thats the time it will really show. ANd if he seems like he wants to be with you then iwould go back out with him but you should break up with him and see how he reacts.
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I can't really understand what you said either. Like Tina said below me. (:
If you are with him, leave him. Being drunk you have some sense of what you're doing. Three girls in one night is nasty, and trashy, and you need to move on. No affence, but he doesn't love you if he's going to fuck 3 other girls.
Dump him and find someone new.
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First off, get a dictionary & learn to spell. You don't go to school for the hell of it. Pay attention in English.
Secondly, being drunk is no excuse to cheat on anyone. And fucking three people? Hell no. Leave him. Not only was he drunk, but he cheated on you with three other people, & then told you about some other girl he loved.
Honestly, leave him. What he did was wrong & it was even more wrong for him to do that & blame it on alcohol.
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Wait, so are you together already, or not?
If you're not, then he's single, and you have no real reason to be hurt by him messing around with other girls. I understand that you love him and you say he loves you, but if he hurts you so much, can he really feel those emotions? If he knows you love him, why would he talk about another girl he loved, who broke his heart?
You need to tell him that you don't want to hear about that stuff, and that it hurts you/bothers you when he mentions it.
If you two are already together, then he needs to know that that is DEFINITELY not okay, and that if he wants to be with you, he's gotta prove that he won't do that kind of stuff anymore. Otherwise, I'd say he should kiss his chances with you goodbye - once a cheater, always a cheater. I hate to sound so cliche, but it's true. Guys never change, and you should never think you can change a guy unless he's in diapers.
Oh, and another thing - alcohol is NOT an excuse for anything. I have gotten completely wasted, and never did anything I wouldn't have done sober. You CAN control yourself when you're drunk, and anyone who says they can't is looking for an excuse to do stupid shit.
It's not okay, and don't let him think that it is, or that he'll be easily forgiven.
I'd leave, if I were you. It looks to me like he doesn't care about you nearly enough to keep you happy. He's not treating you well at ALL. You can give him a chance to redeem himself, but make sure he knows that if he doesn't, you're leaving. If he doesn't, you have to follow through with your threat, or it'll be meaningless.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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