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I love bf. but like someone else.
Okay, so their is this kid that I'm going out with someone. But i think i might like someone else. I mean i love this kid that i'm going out with but this other one is like really nice and everything but i don't know what to do. Help
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"Don't leave the one you love for the one you like; because the one you like, will leave you for the one they love."
Chinese proverb or something.. But it's really smart.
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this may sound really bad.. but honestly.. i know if it were me, i wouldn't want to break it off with the guy im with to try things with someone else unless i knew for sure i had a chance.. so maybe you should see.. and if you DO have a chance then you should try and mention to go on a "break" and see other people... then maybe your man might be willing to, especially if you've been together for a long time. if not then chances are you may not love him as much as you think.. and this guy might be one of the many other guys you're attracted to.
think about it.. still cant figure it out, then you need to sit down and be honest with yourself make a list. on this first list.. write all the things you in like ALL guys, and the things you dont like in ALL guys.. put them in number order, so if looks was your number one thing, and you had five things make it worth 5 and so forth.. then make two separate lists for each of the boys and put what you like and dont like about them.. give them a score and see what happens.. lol i dunno just an idea i guess..
good luck hopefully things become less confusing for you (:
l0veee alwayss-
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If I were in your position, I think what I'd do is make a list of things I like about my boyfriend and things I don't like about my boyfriend.
Then I'd go and make a list of the same kind about the other kid. Weigh your lists, see who has more good things and who has more bad things.
Or (you can also do this in addition to the lists), take a week away from both of them, no calling, no IMing, no texting, etc, and see who your mind drifts to.
If you're attracted to someone else while you're with someone, the person you're with probably isn't right for you. Take it from me, I've been in the same situation and I wound up breaking it off with my fiance because my mind kept drifting to the other person.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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