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13/f ok so i like this boy lets call him T. since 6th grade. and mi friend has like him for 2 years. well she REALLY likes him. so she invited him to a party and he was the only boy tht showed up. and she likes him and he likes her. but i would ask him out before her if i wasn't short and fat and unatractive. kuz i really like him. becauce he is a good student sweet guy and just really nice. shes fianlly gonna ask him out tomorow. what do i? i hate being jealous because he is soooooooooo nice. and i REALLY like him!
please help me i really wanna ask him out, but i dunno what to do. please help!!! on how to act and what to do.
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Maybe the guy would like you if you learn to type correctly, fix your grammar, learn how to use the shift key, start spelling 'because' or ''cause' correctly, stop putting so many 'o's at the end of 'so,' and stop being such a whiney little bitch.
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You should try talking to her and telling her how you feel about this kid and everything that is going through your mind. In 99% of relationships looks don't matter its the personality that counts and it sounds like you have alot! If they do end up dating don't let it bother and try to be supportive of it. If she really is your friend than she wontdangle the relationship in front of you.
But for real you are like what 13, you have your whole life ahead of you and there are going to be so many guys out there for you that will treat you the way you are suppose to be treated. Me myself am short and guys really like that in a girl i mean my boyfriend does and alot of other guy friends of mine do to and you will lose the wieght so don't even worry! But most of all the best advice i can give is listen and follow your heart and do what you feel is right. Live life to the fullest with not looking back or regrets. If you do that you will live a happy and rewarding life.
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If your friend likes him and is going to ask him out, you need to accept that & back off. He likes her, she likes him -- let them be together. It'll hurt, yes, and you'll be even more jealous, but you'll get over it. There's plenty of other guys out there.
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Eek ! Well, Maybe you should talk to your friend about it before she actually does it. I am sorry; but if you and him are meant to be together then it'll happen. EVERYTHING happens for a reason ! GOOD LUCK :D
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Ooh, this is a tough one.
Think about the consequences first. If you ask the boy out and your friend found out, she might get mad at you. If you ask him out and he says yes, she'll be REALLY upset.
On the other hand, if you don't ask him out, you'll probably be upset that you didn't, and jealous if your friend gets the guy.
But would you really want to keep your friend from getting the guy she likes? A guy shouldn't be the thing to tear apart a friendship. Though, you guys are 13. Boys do come and go - remember that.
Does your friend know you like him, too? If she didn't know before, and you tell her, she might reconsider asking him out in favor of keeping your friendship.
If I were you, I'd talk to your friend and be honest with her before she talks to the guy and potentially hurts your friendship and your feelings.
If you're really determined to just get there before she does, then be straight up with the guy. Tell him you think he's a really sweet guy, that you like him, and would like to go out with him. (Not necessarily in those words, but I'm a fan of blunt honesty. Lol)
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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