Heyy!! i love helping people and I like to think I'm good at it. I really want to become a level 2 moderator but I haven't been on long enough....so, yeah. Don't hesitate to ask me anything.
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Location: Pennsylvania
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Age: 13
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Member Since: August 11, 2005
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okay theres this guy. we'll call him fred. well ive had like one of those long unknown crushes on fred since i met him like back in 5th grade. but i haven't done anything. ive kept it to myslef ... tried likin other people. well i told him the other day i liked him. n he said he didnt know who he liked right now
well fred asked me to hang out with him on friday. hes gonna come pick me up n were gonna sneak out. well i think some more than "hangin out" is gonna happen. because i know i want him n he says he wants me. but like idk if thats a good thing to do since i have the feelings for him. i know he doens't like me, and it would be friends with benefits. but idk what to do b/c some action w/ him is better than nothing. but i've mosta the tiem been a relationshp person not a friends w/ benefits.
people are saying im a slut n stuff anyways even tho i haven't dont much. part of me just wants to give them something to talk about, and now i have the chance .. (link)
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Go for it!!
But seriously, friends with benefits sucks. One of my best friends is that with this guy and it's killing her. See what happens. Maybe he does like you. If you don't want him playing games with you, make that clear.
Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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what are 4 ways that explorations/transportation has changed since the 1400s?
thanx (link)
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It seems like you're trying to get other people to do your homework. Hahahaha I'm just kidding.
Weeelll....it's kind of easy. We have airplanes, trains, cars, etc. Back then people traveled by foot and ship and wagons(?).
Hope I helped!
!~*becca*~!
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What do you do if you want to kiss your girlfriend. But you dont know if you are ready (link)
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Right, if you want to you are ready. Try mentally preparing yourself for the moment and try to relax. Take her out somewhere. You'll know when the time is right. You'll both just sorta lean in, and just kiss her!
Hope I helped!
!~*becca*~!
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im 13, 5'2"ish and like 150lbs. is that over weight? cuz i think im really fat and everyone says im not and i know theyre all trying to e nice. i cant stand life anymore. my being so fat makes me wanna die. ive been called fat like 47 times in my life and countless people have told me im not so i dont know who to believe. am i fat or not? i really hate myslef andi cant stand life anymore. its like i just dont care about anything anymore. please help. (link)
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I'm sorry, but yes, you are overweight. That doesn't mean you should feel bad about yourself!!
A good way to boost your confidence and help you lose weight is to excersize!! Take a walk, go on a bike ride, go to the gym!! It really does make you feel better, I know personally. Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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Hi, i hav this new guy friend who is in love with my "best friend" this chick isnt really my best friend were not even close friends but she's so gorgeous! She makes being a girl look easy, standing next to her, you can look like crap!i've totally been jelous of her cuz my guy friend wont stop talking about her. i sorta like him but everytime i talk to him or wanna get closer to him, he just says his crush's name i like die!i m just sick of it! he has 0 chance w/ her but is always thinking about her. He is so out of her leaugue. Is this wrong that i m jealous? I told him that he totally had a chance with her, but that was a lie. Now he's trying to get her interested but the girl has a steady bf! I just hate my guy friend b/c i m a girl and not that confident. It just burns my throat the fact that my guy friend who isnt at all what you would call hot or even goodlooking likes someone who is so out of reach instead of liking someone more in his league. It just stresses me out (link)
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Guys can be so annoying. They just don't get it when girls like them/don't like them. All you can do really is wait untill he gets his big head out of the clouds and realizes that there's more to a girl then looks. guys....who needs em?
!~*becca*~!
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Ive started high school theres guys all around. How do I get them interested in me and wanna go out with me? I am really shy especially around guys. (link)
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Shyness is a big problem when you're around guys. You have to be confident and flirty to grab and keep their attention. It's very hard, but try your best to not be shy. Look confident, act confident, BE confident!!! Try to look your best. Act like you're the HOTTEST bitch on the planet!! (don't BE a bitch though if you want to keep your friends lol).
Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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i have 2 questions, and i would like honest answers!
What do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13. Had 2 other bfs at 14, cheated on the last 1 with a guy she hardly knew the 2nd day they hung out? (the guy was 17) they are still together.
What do you consider a guy that has sex with a girl he barely knows the 2nd night knowing she has a bf??
i rate 5s for intelligent answers!!! (link)
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I wouldn't say slut, because that's really not that nice. It was DEFINATLY a HUGE mistake to have sex, especially at age 13.
I'm very against cheating on people, because it really hurts to think that your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't think you're good enough. I really wouldn't hook up with someone I just met, either. But that's just me personally.
I think you seriously need to stop cheating and stuff or you will turn out to be a whore. No offense meant. Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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how do you make the n with the ~ over top in word? no it isnt uder the symbols either .. thanks everyone !! =] (link)
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It is under symbols in Word. Go in Insert, Symbol, set the first bar thing to (normal text) and the subset thing to latin-1. I don't know if it really matters what the subet is but it's there.
Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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I like this guy, and we talk all the time but as friends. i mean we flirt alot and stuff. we used to tell eachother we liked eachother and we used to hook up alot (this was lke a week ago) but thenhe hooked up with this random girl on an act of drunkness. we still talk and stuff alot but not the same way, and we only hungout once since then ( other than school). i want to get over him because i see him as a different person now, but its hard becasue i always think of the time we spent together and stuff. he is freaking everywhere i look and we hangout with the same peoople. but i want to find another guy, but he seems like the only one im after. HELP me get over this gggguuuuuuy :( (link)
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Yeah, it's pretty hard to deal with. It's natural to think about him and not think you're even going to get over him, but you will. I've been there. It does take a while, but start noticing the great guys around you.
It seems like this guy is either playing games with you or is just...well, someone who likes to hook up or whatever. Talk to him about it. Ask him if he's accually interested in having a relationship with you before you try to get over him (it's horrible when you finally get over a guy and you find out that he likes you). It's a lot easier to talk over the phone than it is face-to-face because there's not as much awkwardness.
Just see what happens. Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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whats the one thing a guy looks for most in girls, except for her being herself?! how do you get guys to like you?. how do know if a guy likes you? thxx p.s:rate (link)
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You can't GET someone to like you, really. You can flirt and play around with them and make sure they know who you are. The only thing besides that that you can do is be yourself. If they don't like you for who you are, then screw them!!
It can be both really hard or really easy (or somewhere in between) to tell if a guy likes you. It depends on the person. Some guys are really obvious, and some are shy and you have to take all the steps, which sucks. And then there are the guys who lead you on. You think they like you but they really don't. Guys can be really hard to read. But just try asking him out!! Don't be scared, it's worth it!! Look at it this way:
He says yes:
You now have a boyfriend/date!! YESSSS!! It's the best feeling in the world and it's totally worth the risk.
He says no:
You'll probably feel embarassed, but you'll get over it. It's really not a huge deal. Guys'll come and go, and more than 90 percent of guys aren't even worth your time, let alone your tears.
Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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hey how do i make something in word a landscape instead of a portrait ? i can use either microsoft word or microsoft works so if you answer please specify which!! quickly please if you know !!! =] (link)
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You want to use Word. You go into File, Page Setup, Find Orientation, and click on landscape! All done!
!~*becca*~!
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I feel so stressed out, but I don't know why. School isn't any harded than usual, and my family/friends/ love life is fine. I don't physically feel different than any other day, yet for some reason i constantly feel like crying about....everything. i dont know know why, but im so over emotional. nothing has happened to make things different, but im so stressed i feel like i cant take anything anymore. And advice? I rate 5's. (link)
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Okay. You are most likely PSMing. Have you gotten your period yet? Try Midol or another medicine to help you get through it, because it sucks!! Hope I helped!!
!~*bbbbbbbeccajones*~!
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Hey okay heres the deal , i want to make my hair like scrunched/wavy but i dont want to use roller things cause they break my hair to much. What should i use to scrunch it ?? By the wayy my hair is super straight naturally. (link)
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My hair is a little sorta wavy, so all I have to do is put gel in it when it's damp, so I don't really know how to scrunch it.
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can any one tell me a bunch of good country songs?
thanks a bunch.
song and artist please. (link)
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country songs? i'm sorta into counry.
I like Deana Carter, Lonestar, and that's about it. But you could get the Country's Got Heart CD. they have some good songs.
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I don't know if I'm going through a phase or not, but I have just suddenly been feeling EXTREMELY self/consious.
I feel SO ugly, SO fat, SO unpopular, and everything else teenagers feel, except all at the same time. (And yeah, I've heard the "Don't worry about whats other think" routine.) I just hate myself. I hate the way I act, look, and am period. I dont think I'll EVER got a boyfriend that's actaully not a geek. I never felt this way before, but all these emotions are coming at me!!! What do I do?!?!?! (link)
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Almost everyone goes through this. You could be PSMing, but I really don't know. Those people are right, you really shouldn't care what others think. but that doesn't always work. you probably feel uncomfortable with youself because you haven't grown into your body yet. do you feel awkward just walking? you're probably not fat, either. If you really feel strongly about this, then excersize and eat less junk. Who cares about being popular? all you need are those good friends that really care about you, and they're really hard to find. if you want to spice up your look, play with your hairstyle. straighten you hair, put it up, ya know? play with makeup untill you find what works for you. just don't use too much. hope i helped!
!~*bbbbbbbeccajones*~!
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y did my parents get mad when i sang "im just a notch in your bed post but yur just a line in a song"?? does that mean a bad thing or something ?? thanks bii (link)
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hahahaha....by saying "i'm just a notch in your bed post" it means...well i can't explain it but it's about sex and well, some people put scratches on their bed post to count how many people they've had sex with. yeah. i'm not surprised that they get mad. lol
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f/14. October 1st is my boyfriend and my four month anniversary. for stupid reasons, we never celebrated other anniversaries. so this is our first. i wanna do something specail for him. any ideas will help. i don't care how cheesy or lame it seems. we like doing that kind of stuff for each other.
i'd prefer ideas that didn't involve using money because we both come from poverty stricken backgrounds so we decided not to do anything like that. (link)
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Well, if you were thinking, then you would know that a "four month anniversary" isn't an anniversary at all. look at the word ANNiversary. As in annual. As in yearly.
Right-o...most things do cost money, so I don't know how far you can get, but i agree that baking something would be a nice treat. Make him cupcakes and put them in his locker (if you know his combination, which you can easily find out by looking over his shoulder while he's opening it) and make a little card. Sometimes the little things mean more.
hope i helped!
!~*bbbbbbbeccajones*~!
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I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female (link)
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I've been there. It's really annoying. But that doesn't mean you should just at the first guy who's interested. If your friends seem to be hanging out with their boyfriends, talk to them about not bringing them around so much. Don't feel bad about yourself!! A lot of REALLY good-looking people don't have boyfriends/girlfriends. Don't worry about it so much. It's nice being single!!
Hope I helped!
!~*bbbbbbbeccajones*~!
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Are there any word processing programs that i can download onto my computer from the internet... get it?? Like you know is there some kind of wordpadish type thingy that you can use with ABC check and that stuff??? (link)
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Um...you could just go on Microsoft Word.
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okay i really need your help..okay well anywayz i really like this one boy and i dont know if he likes me back i mean he flirts with me but like then at other times he gets all like grumpy and wont even talk to me.. like this one time he was at the gym and he came back and i was like hey and he didnt even say anything.. so what can i do to notice if he likes me or not.. other then if he flirts with me.. Please Help!! i will rate high for good advice.. (link)
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This isn't really an easy thing to answer....Everyone has been there at one point. Of course there is no way of knowing if he does or doesn't. He could, since he flirts with you, but there was once a guy who flirted with me a lot and I was SURE he liked me....but it turned out he just wanted to be friends. The only way you can find out is to ask him if he likes you. I know it's really hard but the worst thing he can say is no (well not really but I doubt he would be mean about it).
I really do hope I helped.
!~*bbbbbbbeccajones*~!
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