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Ive started high school theres guys all around. How do I get them interested in me and wanna go out with me? I am really shy especially around guys.
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That;s the problem. YOu're shy. I was the same way in high school, but as an adult I learned not to be shy and have more confidence in myself. When I went to my high school reunion, I found out that a lot of guys thought I was really cute. And I never knew, because I was way too shy. Guys are intoxicated by confidence. They think it is sexy. YOu must find a way to get over being shy and have more confidence. I am 52 now and have a lot of confidence and men always find me to be sexy. SOOOOOOOOOO, don't wait until you are 50, get some confidence, and confidence doesn't come from guys thinking your cute, or from having the hottest clothes, or even the hottest body. It comes from being smart and from being capable of doing anything you put your mind too. It also comes from helping out adults in adult situations and haveing them tell you what a smart girl you are and what a great help you are, like when we do volunteer work.
This is my advice to you.
Michele
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Be yourself of course. Don't try and shoot for getting guys to like you before they even get to know you. Get to know anyone and let them know about yourself. Form friendships. Thats how you get to know them better, who they hang out with, other people, etc.
As for being shy...don't think about that too much, as in don't remind yourself that you are shy around guys, because chances are that when you do that, it will be more difficult to overcome that. You could also try talking to them as if they were already your friend, not in a weird way, casual. Hope that helped, good luck.
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Shyness is a big problem when you're around guys. You have to be confident and flirty to grab and keep their attention. It's very hard, but try your best to not be shy. Look confident, act confident, BE confident!!! Try to look your best. Act like you're the HOTTEST bitch on the planet!! (don't BE a bitch though if you want to keep your friends lol).
Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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Well as a guy myself, just act normal be your self. If a guy likes you for who you are then it will last. If your shy, act shy most guys like that.
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