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okay theres this guy. we'll call him fred. well ive had like one of those long unknown crushes on fred since i met him like back in 5th grade. but i haven't done anything. ive kept it to myslef ... tried likin other people. well i told him the other day i liked him. n he said he didnt know who he liked right now
well fred asked me to hang out with him on friday. hes gonna come pick me up n were gonna sneak out. well i think some more than "hangin out" is gonna happen. because i know i want him n he says he wants me. but like idk if thats a good thing to do since i have the feelings for him. i know he doens't like me, and it would be friends with benefits. but idk what to do b/c some action w/ him is better than nothing. but i've mosta the tiem been a relationshp person not a friends w/ benefits.
people are saying im a slut n stuff anyways even tho i haven't dont much. part of me just wants to give them something to talk about, and now i have the chance ..
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Don't do that to yourself...Friends w/ benefits never works and majority of the time you end up regretting it. I've been there done that. Just think...how many other people hes been willing to mess around with. You don't need that. Good luck.
-Nina
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Damn it. I typed out a brilliant answer and then my stupid computer went and deleted it. ARGH. I'm not going to type it all out anymore =___= I'll just start with what i was about to say before my stupid computer went retarded.
Whats your question? o__O;
Are you serious? Are you really willing to have people talk about you [in a bad way]? Why give them the chance to talk bad things about you? I dont think that 'some action with him is better than nothing." I actually think nothing is better. You said that he doesnt like you anymore than a friend, so do you really think that he would care after doing 'more than hanging out'? Friends with benefits may sound like a good thing, but it really isn't. Don't 'sneak out' with him, at least tell your parents where you're going in case something happens [not that im implying something will]. You can ignore my advice, but i'm strongly advicing you not to do anything stupid... like sneaking out and doing 'more than hanging out'. And don't do the 'friends with benefits' deal. It's stupid and it isnt worth it. Find someone who will love you.
i typed a lot more, but i cant remember any of it x__x it was like a spontaneous thing...
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Go for it!!
But seriously, friends with benefits sucks. One of my best friends is that with this guy and it's killing her. See what happens. Maybe he does like you. If you don't want him playing games with you, make that clear.
Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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