Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: November 15, 2007
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okay....theres this guy names james that i have been in love with fer as long as i can remember...we've had so many rough tymes..and good ones to..and we've went out about a ton of tymez...the first tyme things went wrong was wen i started gettin interested in sum1 else...because me n james didnt talk as much as we should have...n sumtymes he would juss come in my life n expect me to b all open to him...when i dont talk to him i get sad...i think about him all the tyme..he makes me feel wanted...and he makes me feel comftorable wen im around him...we've kissed before but thats about it....i mean we slept in the same bed fer nights be4...but nothing didnt go on..lata he told me that he didnt want to rush me n stuff...hes so sweet..but sumtymes he has in moments...idk why i am obssesed with him..b.c its not like i cant get ny otha guys...but i mean hes just in my mind 24/7...i cant have ny otha relationships b/c i cant say i like them because of james...he has my heart...n he wont let me have it back...a couple of dais ago he told me that he loves me n stuff...but juss the otha day he told my friend lexi "fuck amber(my name)"...i cried that whole night..wen he got on the next dai i talked to him about it...n he said that he doesnt like me nymore b/c he thinks i play games...wen hes the one who plays games...i rly want to keep him in my life...he holds a BIG part of my life...n hes changed me so much..hes tuaght me things and i just love him so much...well now i guess he likes sum gurl names kristina...and my friend chris (james's friend) said that she was so uglie and that she was a hoe..n do nythin to nyone...it just made me feel so low that he would ferget about me fer sum slut!!?!?!....i just dk right now...im so confused...can u help me..n tell me what i should do...plzzz
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-ConFuseD- (link)
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aww im sorry!! if i were you i'd call him and tell him everything.. just be like look, i've loved you for the longest time and i probably always will.. i made a big mistake but so does everyone else.. stuff like that.. the more u talk from ur heart the better things will be and the more he knwos how u really do feel... and u can even tell him what u think of him and how u think he really plays the games.. but just tell him u dont want to start anything with him... seriously, if he doesnt want to be with u then tell him you'd rather jsut be friends ten.. u might be like why friends but its ebtter to be something to him than nothing.. good luck n i hope this helps.. if u have ne other questions or need help w/ something else just let me kno!! let me know how it went!
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maybe someone can help me with something that iv been having a problem with. Ok well iv been going out with this guy Chris for like a month and half now, and im in love with him i mean i know some people think its crazy b/c we werent dating that long but i know the feeling and its definitly love, well anyways he had to go off to military school for 5 months, so he wont be back till december sometime, before he left he got me a Promise ring, its so pretty, but anways i told him id be waiting here till he gets back he said once he gets back everything will be perfect and will just be starting our lives. But heres my problem how do i make time go by fast? Iv been so depressed since he left im still in my pj's and he left 3 days ago. All my freinds tried getting me outta the house but i dont wanna leave i just sit in my room and cry b/c hes gone, so u think u can give me some advice into telling me how to make time go by as fast as possible....thnx to who ever answers it IF anyone answers it.
Mandy (link)
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yeah you should definitely try hanging out with you friends.. it will help.. just go live your normal life and do fun things.. your hobbies! that will DEF. help! the next thing you know.. you'll be having such a good time that he'll be back and you'll realize that you didn't even think about him very often!!
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Okay lets start with this...we moved down from ohio to florida 2 years ago....okay anyway my moms best friends brother who was my moms first love died on thursday unexpectedly and they were supposed to come down here and now they probably wont and so we were going to go up there but my mom can not figure out a way for us to...my moms car will over heat so we can't take it my grandparents will not let us take their car because they say we trash everything and we do not have enough money to blow on a rental car or airplane ticket and now I will not be able to see them again till like next summer and i have been looking forward to them coming down here for a yearr and now they are not even coming and we can't figure out how we can get somewhere half way or all the way.
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Haleigh Ann (link)
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ehhh im so sorry!! well.. wat my mom made us do before we went on a cruise one year is like awhile before start saving up money and put it in this really big bank or something.. and then when the time comes spend all that on airfare so you can go!! talk it voer with your mom.. it will probably be a lot of work but its worth it right?!or tell your mom that you will pay half of it or something and get a summer job! good luck!
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well i still realy like my x bf i dumped him cuz i am dumb and i regret it. but ne way while i was going out with him i gave my friend his sn for this reason and told her not to talk to him..well i found out today that after we broke up (she still knows i like him alot) she IMd him and was flirting with him alot..this just bugs me becuz she knows i wouldnt do that to her and how much i like him. so i didnt find this out till today it happened like a week or something ago but that day he ran into my friend at the mall and they talked and then that night he called me and i am just really confused..i guess its jealousy but idk anyone have anyone to say anything about this if u actually kno what i a,m talking about..? thx if u do (link)
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yeah maybe you should talk to your friend and ask her how she could do such a thing.. thats real horrible n messed up.. as for the guy hes just as bad! i know you like him and all but ehh.. maybe you should just give up.. shes obviously not a real friend if she did that to you!
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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':. (link)
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aw it'll be ok.. ur just going through a lot of changes.. just enjoy being a kid cuz one day you'll miss it all!! when the right time comes and it was meant to be then you'll get your first real relationship and kiss and stuff. jsut try not to rush things even though i know its hard not too.. i know u just want to get kissed and everything but just wait and wait for it to be a specia ltime!! =)
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I have really smelly feet and everything I've tried didn't work. And whenever I walk into a room no one wants to be around me when I have my shoes off. Do you know anything that would work? If you do please respond quickly! (link)
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try lotion on ur feet or somethin lol
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Im a 15 yr old girl and there was this guy that I dated for four months last year and I never totally got over him. I am currently dating his best friend and I really like him. Last night my ex told me that he wanted a second chance, and that he changed. I think I want to give him one, and I like both guys. Theyre best gfrirnds and I don't want them to stop being that just because of me. What should I do? (link)
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ok i know EXACTLY how you feel.. i think this is prolly like the hardest decision any girl has to make with 2 guys.. if i were you i'd be single until you figure out exactly who you want not just both.. its wrong to like or like want to go out with both of them while going out with one fo them.. its not fair to them and its not fair to you.. so if i were you i'd just take sometime for yourself.. i know it sounds stupid and its lke why would i be single when 2 great guys are out there for me but trust me.. if you want whats best its to just be single until you figure out exactly who you want
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This year while I was vacationing in a place I regularly visit I met a girl. The night after I met her I drank way to much and ended up losing my virginity with her. I was really beating myself up over it the next morning, but it turned out that we hooked up for the entire time I was vacationing, however we never slept together again. The problem is, she doesn't know she was my first. She actually thinks she was my 3rd. Now im beating myself up for lying to her, but Im afraid that if I tell her now things could get awkward and I may not ever see her again. I feel horrible about lying, but if things got weird between me and her and I lost contact with her I would probably fall over and just never get up. I'm not sure whether to tell her, and if I do, I'm not sure how or when. I am extrememly thankful for any help someone can give me. (link)
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aw things will be ok.. just tell her though! the more days you lie to her the worse your going to feel and the worse shes going ot feel when she finds out because you kept it from her longer! just tell her that you care about her a lot and you didn't want her to think that you were immature or something just because she was your first.. but make sure you tell her you really carea bout her and your real sorry for lying to her.. stuff liek that just speak from your heart! let her know how much you like her and all.. the more you speak from what you think the better things will be!!
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My boyfriend & I never spend any alone time, just the 2 of us. I guess it's mostly my fault, because it just freaks me out a little being alone with him, I don't know why. Anyways, I would like to go down the shore with him, along with my older brother & his friends. Everyone there is really responsible & my mom is not letting me. She doesn't think its right for me to go down the shore with a boy! I don't get, I'm going to be with my own brother and older, responsible people! What could happen & whats the problem?? (link)
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maybe she doesnt trust you or something.. shes just looking out for you though.. she doesn't want anything to happen and maybe she doesnt trust that your brother will really pay much attention to you because his friend is going too.. i dunno but if your afraid to be around him then maybe its best he doesnt go with u! -- the only thing i can tell you is that its okay to be alone with him sometimes.. every guy and girl in a relationship needs to be alone SOMETIMES and you know.. its going to be okay because if he does something that you really dont want to do or makes you feel uncomfortable all you have to do is tell him and hopefully he'll be man enough and repsect that and stop.. otherwise you should probably dump him and he doesnt stop!-- just let your mom know that you are responsible enough to be with him at the shore and suck up to her =) lol thats what i'd do..
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i'm going into high school and im really scared and nervous..what if i dont know anyone during lunch and i have to sit by myself?! i dont know what to do..how can i be more brave and not be so scared? (link)
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ahh dont worry things will be just fine! if you dont know anyone yet you will real soon.. believe me you stress about it now but once you get there you'll make a TON of new friends!! just try to be nice to everyone and don't be so shy.. just be yourself and act normal and things will be ok lol
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i love running! but i hear its bad on your joints in your knees...what else can i do isntead of running? (link)
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i didnt know it was lol.. umm you could probably go walking instead or jog.. go on the treadmill stuff like that if your talking about working out or losing weight
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Every year I vacation in my absolute favorite place in the entire world. I have so many really close friends up there and I always have a wonderful time. I just got back 2 days ago and my parents told me we aren't going up next year. I've felt really sick to my stomach the last few days, back til the night before I left and I've been feeling kind of nauseated. Do you think it's just an awkward time to get sick, or do you think this could just be a serious case of home sickness? (link)
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yeah maybe your just homesick.. just tell someone and maybe if your parents dont want to go up there next year you could go by yourself or take some friends with you!
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i really dunno what to put this under but- i get really sweaty hands and feet sumtimes for no reason at al-at skool it becomes difficult to write and when i like hold my bfs hand i well cantso like yeah my dad has the same condition and i have no clue what it is and if i can take meds for it (link)
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go to a doctor or tell your parents!
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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu (link)
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awee im soo sorry.. and no way!! its okay to cry sometimes but maybe you should talk to an adult about it.. i know theres not much any one can do right now but i'm sure you could be comforted! i know its gotta be hard but you just gotta live through the difficult times!! - thats good you go to rehab in a few days.. maybe they'll help you out and you'll be able to walk again or at least get better! as for sports- i know if you get into basktebal theres a kind that you could play.. just talk to your gym coach or w/e!
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(I'm 14) I've been going out with "James" for 8 months, and at the beginning it was all great, except for his ex, Sarah, who, I know for a fact part of the reason he went out with her is because she's...She'll MAKE you go out with her, she has a way of making you, because she can't get anybody because of a bunch of reasons but she's a VERY nasty person (if u get what I mean) and not even pretty, or popular and just...horrible. She accused me of stealing him, and about a month later, came up with a note that he supposedly written to her, stating that he loved me, but still wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and also said that she could go over to his friends house and they could "have sex since i haven't had it in awhile" The second he saw it he ripped it up and nearly bit Sarah's head off, was the angriest I've ever seen him, and really upset since I refused to talk to him. Sarah though, has been known to do ANYTHING to get a guy, and she's known for forging handwriting, and most of her old friends who now hate her, were pretty sure she forged it. It looked a little bit like his writing, but barely, and the way she said "aren't you going to dump him?" Put it into my head that it wasn't him. So I forgave him, then a couple months later she came up with some more "notes" and one time he looked at me pleadingly and just said "I didn't write those" which I forgot about, again, but they always stuck in my mind. Then she gave a note to my friend supposedly from him that said he still wanted to be friends with benefits, but HE had a note from HER that she had written to him, with HER wanting to be friends with benefits, she admitted it, that she had forged the note from him, and BEGGED me for forgivness, with bull notes saying "I'm SO sorry i'll never do it again" I'd never been more upset in my life, because I didn't know who to believe, and it took a toll on me that I did some things to myself I'm not proud of (think hard...) Eventually I "forgave" her, pretending to be her friend. None of it ever happened again, but that had been the third time. Ever since the first time, I've been paranoid, always imaginging him making out with her, and I know they did A LOT of stuff last summer. And now with summer, I hardly see him because we live a whole 5 miles away (sarcasm) and he always has to work at night (which i know is true, I've been there when he's working) and I've only seen him three times since summer started. I broke up with him once, right after summer started, because another guy wanted to go out with me, a guy that I knew I wouldn't have to worry about him cheating and a guy who could go to movies with me, even if I didn't love him, I could trust him. I lasted 3 days of crying and screaming to no1 inparticular before I broke down and went back out with him. A part of me is telling myself that I have to break up with him because everytime he has to go on the phone, even after the best conversations that last for hours, a cynical part of me thinks "Is he going to see Sarah?" and the part that for some reason he never wants me to go to his area makes me even more paranoid than I already am. It haunts me, and I know it's not healthy, but I also know if I break up with him, I'll be more miserable than I've ever been, but a tiny part of me thinks it's better in the end, but I have no idea. I love him, he's wonderful, he makes me feel wanted and loved and he's just...Wonderful. But the thing with Sarah, and that he doesn't want me arond where he lives (btw, two of his ex's live there) makes me paranoid. And I need to decide now, because I can't go on living with those thoughts of Sarah in the back of my mind. Sorry this was so dang long, and help would be GREATLY appriciated. (link)
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wowww that was soo long lol.. yeah i think you should dump him, its gunna hurt and i know you don't want to but it sfor the best and if you really want to make yourself truely happy then you should... this sarah girl sounds like an obsessed crazzy bitch so i'd stay away from her.. she needs some serious help!
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I'll start from the beginning....
When I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
signed,
confused love (link)
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awe u should totally tell him!!
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I'm going into high school, and I'm a smart person (3.75 gpa) But VERY disorganized, I've gotten 2.6's on my report cards because I'll do assignments, then lose them, or procrastinate on projects. And I'm so afraid that's going to happen in high school, because I know how important high school is, and the college I want to go to is out of state and a VERY hard school to get into, and the other one, though not as hard is still out of state (I refuse to go to college in this state, I hate it here) and my only chance is probably a scholarship because it's just me and mom so there's not a lot of money.
I just need tips to help my organization skills, because I'll have a lot of sports and other things going on, and I know that I really need to get it together soon. And advice would be lovely. (link)
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well for starters for your homework and stuff, you could get an agenda and make sure you write EVERYTHING in it.. and every night before you go to bed just make sure you have all your homework and stuff done.. that should help with homework! for schoolwork-try not to be too messy.. keep all your work some place at home like a drawer or something.. that way if you lose something you know its there.. also when your odne with your homework just put it in your backpack! hope this helps
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Hey Should i break up with my P.A. relationship i haven't see her yet and i m really confused and i like this girl erica and samantha but erica is to young for me and samantha is like 2 years what should i dunno
Mike (link)
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if you like other girls then yes
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Okay..I like this kid and lets call him tony...lol and he is my age and he is really nice and he likes me too..he just broke up w/ his gf like 2 days ago and my friend ash has been talking to him a lot...he says he broke up w/ her to go out w/ me.the problem is he's sooo shy.Everything I find out is over the phone.And I don't think he's gonna ask me out himself.I think he mite ask my friend ashley too.And I don't want ashley in on all my business..no offense to her ya kno?So should I talk to him or should I go for it and ask him out or what??? *he's told me that he likes me in person but thats about it* thx..bye (link)
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hmm.. well, i think that if he gets your friend to ask you out that hes a shy pussy and you should tell him thaty our not going to say yes until he does it himself.. thats crazy!--but yeah just let him know that you want him to be comfortable around you and its cool to tell you things if you know what i mean! and tell him that you like him a lot and that you really care about him and all you want is just a good relationship out of things
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my sis is 17 yrs old and she just told my family that shes preganant...idk wut to do but cry! she is under alot of stress bc my parents r trying to get he to get an abortion! im only 15! im not rsy to be an aunt! wut should i do to help my sis? she alrdy said no to getting an abortion! HELP! (link)
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awe im so sorry.. you must be going through a HARD ass time right now.. umm.. theres not much you can do but be supportive of her! try not to cry.. just try be strong around her and not let her see you cry because that will just remind her of her mistake and make her all sad.. just try ot be all happy and stuff around her-even though its gunna be hard you just have to.. just try not to keep things inside.. if you wanna talk or anything just write to me and we can talk! its perfectly fine!! good luck!
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