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High School
i'm going into high school and im really scared and nervous..what if i dont know anyone during lunch and i have to sit by myself?! i dont know what to do..how can i be more brave and not be so scared?
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well you will meet ppl that are in your class that you will no and they will sit by you at lunch its not like nobody is goin to sit by you there alot of ppl in high school
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Meet new people that are in your classes and be friendly
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I sit by myself at lunch all the time, if ya can't tell by lookin' at my column.
People will come and sit with you.
Trust me.
There are other kids out there just like you.
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Don't be scared..Have energy and go up to people and talk to them and make new friends..
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All you have to do is be nice and open minded! If you're like standing there by yourself with a frown on, no ones going to want to talk to you. But if you're friendly and warm, everyone will like you! From classes, you should know someone, so for lunch go up to them and ask them if you can sit with them! Make sure you smile a lot.
xoxo
ali
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well the first thing to do is stand out. Be unique in how you dress, but nothing too noticable. Be nice to EVERYBODY you see. Even if someone asks for a pencil give a huge smile and say sure or something like that, exaggerate your politeness, try not to appear cheap tho or flaky. Try making acquaintances and by lunch someone might offer for you to sit with them!!! If not, sit down alone, and if no one approaches you or offers for you to sit with them, they must be pretty out of their minds and the next day should definetly equal pure results.
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ahh dont worry things will be just fine! if you dont know anyone yet you will real soon.. believe me you stress about it now but once you get there you'll make a TON of new friends!! just try to be nice to everyone and don't be so shy.. just be yourself and act normal and things will be ok lol
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Well at lunch if you know 4 people you could hang out with them, or I'm sure you'll meet someone in your class for you to hang out with, you'll find someone don't sweat it :-)
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dear,person
um..don't be scared just act like your not scared just be friendly don't be shy just dont be scared or shy because they will think your not popular just be popular
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Aww don't be scared! You'll be fine!! You just have to be outgoing. And plus you have classes before you eat lunch. So, in each class, talk to people that sit around you, just be friendly and talk to them. You'll meet friends that way. Just make sure you talk to people. And the 4 kids that ARE going to your school, see what hour lunch they have and if they have the same hour lunch as you, you can also sit by them too! Hope this helps. And you'll be fine!! If you need any more help, I'll be glad to help =D
xoxo Kourtney
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Well,you're going to meet a few people in your classes,right? Talk to them about girl stuff(I'm obviously assuming you are one) and just be yourself. If you see them at lunch,ask them if you can sit there. You won't sit alone. In high school,there's a group for everyone.
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Don't freak out.Just be yourself.At lunch, go up to peopel and introduce yourself.Your gonna make friends, don't worry.
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omigosh.. l0l.. im goin to highsk0ol too.. and i have that little phobia.. where.. im s0o scared im not gunna have anyone to sit with and feel lyk a big loser.. l0l.. but yea.. just ask people in ur classes whaqt lunch they have.. and see if they have urs.. and if they dont.. then be lyk.. k0ol.. o well.. and if they do.. then be lyk.. o.. dude.. i have NoBuDdY to sit with.. l0l.. and most people would be lyk.. o0o0o.. u can sit with me.. l0l.. so yea.. trust me that works.. and u make new friends.. :D
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Only way you can be sure of yourself is if you are confident. Go into the 9th grade with expectations to meet new people and to make friends that will last a lifetime. Do not be afraid to ask people if you can sit with them, they wont say no. Build your confidence up over the last couple weeks of the summer and go into that first day of school with endless self-esteem.
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so sit by yourself, what's the big deal? I actually tried to sit by myself a couple times in high school, and every single time some random kid would come up and be like, "I'm afraid to sit by myself so you must be too, let's sit together" and that's how it went.
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omgosh dont worry!! school is not as scarry as it seems! u will find someone to sit with! im sure ur worrying about nuthing! i will say a lil prayer for ya that u have a good day at ur new school!
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Don't Sweat it.. im going into highschool 2..I bet you don't remember meeting all of your friends but you did.. Its always scary going to a new place.. especially when your scared of rejection.. but don't be.. put a smile one your face and say hi.. Just start talking to someone.. chances are there just as nervous as you. You can practice being more brave by getting involved in stuff over the summer...do a community thing, volunteer, go swimming in a public pool etc. Do stuff where thers alot of people.. and guranteed you'll make friends.. that should give you the confidence to walk into highschool knowing its going to be a great year!:)
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xoxo
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well u were in middle school sweetie<3....i bet alot of ur friends frum there will b goin to ur school soo just try not to think about it n have fun in highschool cuz its the best time of ur life!!! XoXo luv ya DaNiElLe...
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grl omg! im goin to high school too! im scared but there is so many damn people there! ur gonna make tunns of friends...IF U ACTUALLY try...join sum clubs after school activities...grl u r gonna have so much fun...i mean if u promise urlsef u r gonna have friends than u will, u have to look aty the bright side and say everything is gonna be ok...than everything will be ok...also in order to have friends...u must be a friend....love ashley
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