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maybe someone can help me with something that iv been having a problem with. Ok well iv been going out with this guy Chris for like a month and half now, and im in love with him i mean i know some people think its crazy b/c we werent dating that long but i know the feeling and its definitly love, well anyways he had to go off to military school for 5 months, so he wont be back till december sometime, before he left he got me a Promise ring, its so pretty, but anways i told him id be waiting here till he gets back he said once he gets back everything will be perfect and will just be starting our lives. But heres my problem how do i make time go by fast? Iv been so depressed since he left im still in my pj's and he left 3 days ago. All my freinds tried getting me outta the house but i dont wanna leave i just sit in my room and cry b/c hes gone, so u think u can give me some advice into telling me how to make time go by as fast as possible....thnx to who ever answers it IF anyone answers it.
Mandy
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yeah you should definitely try hanging out with you friends.. it will help.. just go live your normal life and do fun things.. your hobbies! that will DEF. help! the next thing you know.. you'll be having such a good time that he'll be back and you'll realize that you didn't even think about him very often!!
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Mandy,
You need to chill with your girlfriends. My guy left late June for Vegas and he's not coming back 'til late August. I was really depressed for a few days, then I decided I needed to stop it, and went and hung out with my friends.
The best way to make time fly is to have fun while waiting.
I know you don't want to leave, but you probably should. He's not gone forever, just for a few months!
Oh, and a month and a half is not too soon to fall in love. I fell head over heels for my guy in almost less than a month, and our nine-month mark is on the 14th.
Go out with your friends. It'll help. Trust me on this.
Hope you feel better and all that!
-Siren =)
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Anyone can understand that you're depressed, I know how you feel, and it hurts. However...you have to think about it, i mean, if you wanna make time go by fast, then you should listen to you friends, and get out of the house 'n do fun things with 'em.Just think, would Chris like it if you cried over him like the the WHOLE time he's gone? I don't think so.Have fun, 'n hope I helped~!!!
-Tori
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Yeah, of course your depressed. That's understandable. But maybe you should listen to your friends when they try to get you out of the house. If you think about it, staying there isn't going to make you feel much better. It's only going to give you more time to think about him. Try to make it to where you don't have time to dwell on the fact that he's gone. Get a(nother) job, something to fill the time.
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Ok i definitly know how you would feel about this and yes i couldn't even IMAGINE how hard that would have to be!! but honey, when ur friends are trying to get out of the house then GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!! once u start hanging out with your friends and other people you tend to have so much fun that you don't even think about it. The more things you do with people and by yourself, the less time you're going to have to be sad and depressed about it. And if you ever do feel sad and depressed about it then write it down in a journal or a diary. Then when he gets home you can have him read the entries that you made so he can see how much you missed him and boy will he appreciate that:-D Good luck with everything sweety! and if you ever need anyone to talk to my s/n is Sexyblueyezgurl. oh yea btw my name is amber too lol. good luck!
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You just gotta motivate yourself to get out, otherwise those 5 months will be miserable and they will go by sooooooo slow, get out and do something that will keep him off your mind
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