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i've been more than you think for a 14 year old.

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When I am about to do a backflip I get nervous and fear falling on my back or head... do you know of a good place to practice... is grass sutible.. please repond..
Thank you

hell yeah the grass is fine or your bed

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my ears stick out soooooooo far i feel like dumbo.. what am i supposed to do .. should i staple them back? my dad just got a new nail gun , i think that woould work. suggestins PUH LEASE!!!

bwahahahahahha
maaahahahamauhahaha hahaha
unless you want to get an infection, and possibly bleed in your BRAIN, NEVER EVER EVER EVER stapil your ears back.

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Well, I LOVE middle school, but...its not the greatest. I'm not ugly, I've been out with a couple diff. guys the last few years, and I'm friends with regular/kinda popular/popular people. Although I'm not popular, and I'm not a geek. I have a feeling this year more guys are noticing me 'cause I've gone through some "look changes" as my friends call it, but I've heard that everyone has more fun/life gets better in High School.

I heard most guys get more mature, get done with puberty, etc, and girls get prettier, get nicer, get more mature, etc. Is it true? Does your life really get better in High School?

I'm just wondering. This question is really for anyone who's ever been trough public High School & Middle School. Thanks, everyone!

(13, 8th grade, yeah...)

yes to all of your questions, most guys get more mature, most- to all get done with puberty
the girls get prettier because they start wearing makeup and their acne isnt as bad, so yes, life is better in high school.

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Hey I was just wondering...where does it start, that is, STDs. If a guy and a girl are both virgins, is there still a chance? How does it like begin, because it doesn't seem to make sence. If its not infection by spreading it, then what starts them? Thanks - will rate.

if the guy and girl are both virgins then they havent had sex yet, if they havent had sex yet then they didnt have sex with someone who had aids or hiv or any other std.
if you have a std and you have unprotected sex, your partner will most likely get the std too.

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Im getting my hair highlited a little at a salon and i was wondering how much it is and how long it takes to get highlited? also will the highlites stay in? thanks i raste high.

i dunno about how much they cost, but they do stay in, for at least three months.

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hey i got a new job. and my friend margeret works there, shes cool with a lot of people. margaret was talkin to this boy craig and hes popular and he gave her his number for me to call him. so i talked to him online but i was too scared to call him. a couple days later i decided to call him but he didnt anwser so i left a message with my number and telling craig to call me back. but he never did. i joked about it with him and he told me he didnt have service in his room. he always asks me too hang out but we did tonight and he didnt even talk and just decided to leave after a while. my friend margaret says he likes me. why else would he give me his number. i called him again tonight but he talked to me for like 2 minutes and then randomly had to go.his sister's friend marcy said that she was talking to him and she said believe me he likes you he is just the very shy type today at lunch. i dont know what to do. or think.please help meeeeeeeee


he likes you, do you like him back? if you do, just call him up and tell him you want to hang out tonight and tell him to meet you at the mall to see a movie, when you see him at the mall, jokingly(so he doesnt freak) be like OH I MISSED YOU and like run up to him and give him a HUGE hug. if he doesnt have a cow, then he totally wants to get to hug you more often, and if he gets all awkward, just start laughing and be like, you shoulda seen your face, just change the subject really quick if things get awkward.

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for homecoming i cant decide whether to wear myhair down ( past my shoulders length and loose curls) or up in a fancy updo or down w/ just the tiny top pulled back. any ideas in what i cna do? also my dress is strapless and id like my shoulders covered.. should i straighten or curl it?

curl it. or krinp the bottom few inches and kinda curl the top a little.
or part it, a little off center on one side and moose it so your hair looks thick.and curl bigger part of the hair.
or you could part it down the center, put moose in it to make it look thick, and where your cheek bone is, thats where you start curling your hair.
or, part it down the center, moose it, and from where your chin is, thats where you start curling it.
or straighten it,
or go get a perm, but not like a funky one, get one so its wavy
i googles 'hairstyles' and i came up with a lot of sites that you might want to look at

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Does anyone here use Buddy4u? I want to create one of those quizzes about myself, but I don't know how. How do you make a quiz?

dont use buddy4u or whatever.
use www.quizyourfriends.com because it works a whole lot better.

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(14/f)Well i know everyone ask how do you makeout and stuff... I know how but i was just wondering if there were any tips? Also I have what they call a seperator on the roof of my and its to bring my teeth together and stuff....(you put a key in a twist it and yeah) So is it possible to makeout with it? Should i tell the doode before we do makeout just so he knows... I dont wanna like freak him out!!

yeah tell the dude before you make out.. sometiems those seperator smells, so before you see him, always use mouth wash. and
i wouldnt recommend making out with that thing in there. when i had my seporator in there, i didnt want to even think about making out with it in.
btw, its your choice,
plus, one of ya'lls tongues might get cut on it, and blood would kinda ruin the situation.

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I'm doing Community Service at my church helping out for Vaction Bible School and I'm the teacher of 4-year-olds. I need some ideas on what kid of things to do with them. There are 5 boys and ever so often a girl.

ive made a notebook of ideas,
1)trace and cut out hand stencils of the kids hand. then take an ink pad and dip each finger in there and put it on the corresponding finger on the paper hand.
2)out of the kids, pick out 3 kids and put them on the side.make the other kids get underneath a tablecloth or huge blanket,make them lay on the inside so it's hard to get in from the inside, and have the other kids try to get inside
3)everybody sit in a circle and hold hands, then in the middle of the circle, have a plate of things that the kids can pick up with their mouths. the kids have to keep holding hands, but they have to bend down, one at a time to pick something up, and they only get one chance.

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i know that it's fine if my boyfriend has [girl]friends, there's nothing wrong with that. but how can you tell when the friendship has gone too far?

when he spends more time with her than he does with you.
when he has more cute nicknames for her than you.
basically, when she has more something than you do.

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okay, so tomorrow I am getting my tongue pierced... before I do, DOES IT HURT? and what does it feel like and what can i do and stuff... you know

what do you think??? of course it hurts. take some tylenol for pain

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how do u shut thing advice thingy site down cuz lik i dont want mine no more soo i wanna shut it down?

stop coming on the site maybe?

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Today i rean 9 laps (2 miles and a lap/ 1600 meters)in 30 well a lil under but basically 30 min. Do i have a good endurace or what?

nope. less than 10 minutes per mile, other wise... work more, your endurance needs some work.

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I think i might have sumthign for my friend who isnt great looking (im bi hes a guy im a guy) and is a bit big like me but i keep imagining me and him going out and making out (No sex or anything) and i dont know what to do i cant tell him but i wanna go out wit him

make the first move, try hugging him or something first, and just brush cheeks, and kiss him, see what he does back.

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Okay so Halloween is only a month away and I've kind of been putting it off. Last year without thinking I promised my friend Kim (Names have been changed.) that she would come over to my house for halloween and we would be the pink ladies. I really don't want to be a pink lady and I don't know how to tell her. The worst part is I have no idea what I want to be for HAlloween. I want to be something totally original but pretty. I want to have a costume that nobody else has like last year I had an awesome costume and I loved all the attention I got for it. -Isn'tlifegreat?
age 13

P.S. I also have to tell Ashley she can't come over for Halloween because I really wan't to go to my friends Haloween Party. Gosh, I'm a mess.

a hooker.. thats what i'ma be.. lol.. or elmo.. thats cool too.. if youre tall you could be big burd

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i need to know how to grow my ails the fastest way before my birthday party its in a week and there just a little bit long not that much i want the white part of my ails to show relly good and relly long i know not to bite them cauz i decided to stop but any other ways !!!!!!!!!

acrilic nails.. make sure you get the ones with the glue not the tape to put them on... other wise the tape wont stick on.

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WHAT ARE SOME GOOD SITES FOR JOURNAL ICONS ?
thanks i rate 5s

if you go on xanga and in the search bar search blogrings for "icons" and hit enter...
then you will come up with a list of blogs.. click on one, and click on a user... and each different blogring and user will have different ones.

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hi im thirteen and my moms been having really bad neck pain, i was just wondering if this could be a problem like a deadly thing because shes been getting headaches and she has been really tired lately and she doesnt seem very comfortable. but my main question is: is this serious?

tell her to go see a chiropractor, it may be something wrong, and chances are, they will know wether or not it is within the first 3 visits. and your insurance should cover the cost.

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Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice.

i'm totally with you on thinking premarrital sex is wrong, sex should be a sanctuary between a newly wed couple.. never back down or fall into temptation that premarrital sex is ok.. because it is not.

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