...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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a girl likes me i dont like her and she wont leave me alone.what do i do
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Tell her that you do not find any interest in her or you could just ignore her. Im sure she;ll get over it soon.
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HERE IT GOES!!
I answer Questions but its time for YOU to HELP me.
I know this guy "Keagen" and I totally like him! I THINK he likes me but I can't be sure! I don't know of I should tell him how i feel or not. we can't date til' were 16 but thats not the problem. I mean we have been alone togather before and stuff but its hard for me to really know. when i think of him i feel as if im floating and there is nothinkg better in the world than thinking of him! i have this feeling at pit of my stomic when ever ithink of him i can't get rid fo it! i think of him even if im trying not too! when he see's me he is allways watchinkg me and when he looks at me its different then when other guys look at me. his voice sound TOTALLY different when he talks to me. its like he is be EXTRA sweet to me! and he is guy that goofs off ALOT! i just don't know what to do! last year i sent him a valentine marked and "the cat" well the next time he saw me he said "hello cat" well i lied and said that i didn't send him a card but when told him that his face just fell! like he was dissapointed! so I REALLY need some advice! PLEASE help! should i tell him or not? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sincerely
KATHLEEN (link)
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I think that he like you A LOT!!!!!!So I think that you should go up to him and tell him that you were just kidding and that you really did send him that card.
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I have been friends with this guy for 6 years ever since i was 9 as we got older things started to change i started to like him for more than a friend. he is the guy that when i see him i always feel better i haved some major medical problems and afterwards he always cheers me up but latly he hasen't been comming to his moms house that much so i don't get to see him but once a month i don't know what to do? (link)
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Wait for him to come. Do you have his #? If so call him up and tell him you just want to talk and you need some support. And hes the only one that can give it to you.
shay :-)
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Can anyone tell me if surfing is hard or easy or anything? I mean, it looks totally awesome! I lived in Hawaii for 5 and a half years, but that was when I was in, like, 1st grade. Well, I moved to CA in the middle of 1st grade. Please tell me if it is hard or easy. I really want to know!
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It depends. If you want to surf like the duys on TV, thats hard, but if you're just going to be out there for fun I would say you could learn in about a month or so if you practiced everyday. I live in cali too!
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Does it hurt to get your ears pierced or your nose or your cartilige or whatever????? (link)
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Usually it doesnt, but it all depends on how tender ones ears really is. I mean for me it didnt hurt.
Try maybe going somewhere you can trust. Or you could just do it yourself.
shayshay
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I told my friends and family that I was thinking of becoming a lesbian and they just laughed. What do i do to make them believe me? (link)
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Usually people really dont take those kind of things seriously. You may be the type to make jokes all the time. Really look serious when you say that and they will know then.
I wish you the best of luck!
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Can someone give me some names for a girl and a boy, please? I love writing stories, but I don't know any good names! PLEASE help! (link)
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Go to a baby book and look for some, but I guess I could help you out. Lashel, Ski, Rachel, Brook, Ryan, Todd, Hector, Steven, Sydney, Lanel, Patrisha, Arnold. Hope those were goos enough.
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How come there is no boys asking questions? I'm a guy and I have a question... anyways... I'm kinda shy when the topic asking girls out comes up. I'm 13 and I dont ever think im going to get a girlfriend, because im so scared on what would i do if i asked someone out and then they said yes? i mean i dont know how to make out and stuff like that... what should i do? (link)
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You sink or swim when it comes to this kind of stuff. Heres what you do... flirt with the girl and get to know her a bit. Make her feel comfortable around you and when you feel like the time is right ask her out. If she refuses act like it didnt really matter and keep being friends no matter what. I hope I helped!
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ok jessica my friend to me nick liked me and ect. then she asked if he asked for my number should she give it to him. i said no, but then the next day jessica and her boyfriend andrew called me (3-wayed) the andrew to jessica to leave the phone for a minute and he started askin if i would have a 3- some wit him and jessica since jessica isn't good in bed(me and jessica play like we go out but we are 2 gurls and we arent that way) then he asked if i would have sex with him, then he asked if i would ahve sex with him and nick, and then askd if i would have sex with nick. for like teh whole time he was askin where he stands with him and nick ect. well after a while andrew and jessica wanted to chat on the phone together. like 20minutes passed and nick calls sayin he got the number from jessica but says she mixed the last four numbers. at school the next day i was messin with andrew cause i promised i would (the day before he said he got jealous cause nick had his arm around me). nick tried to mess wit me to after andrew tried to undo my bra with his hand again and nick tried to do it and i wouldnt let him adn he got mad i think cause he left. andrew grab my hand and walked me near nick and like pushed me on him and nick like gave andrew a dirty look. well this is really confusin but like wuts goin i dont like either and andrew has a gurl but always ask me if i want a 3-some with him and his gurl andi yelled at jessica the other day cause of it and now i dont know wut to do i left he a message sayin sry but i dunno if she will forgive me. and grrrr... it just suxs so thanks for readin and hope you have an answer i can use (ALL NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED) (link)
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Okay well I dont think that you should do anything with Andrew anymore because he already has a girlfriend who happens to be one of your friends. I dont think that she would be okay with all of that. Maybe get to know someone before you get in bed with them? {not to be mean} Maybe you should wait a wile for Andrew and Nick settle down from all of this and then talk to them.
Yours Truly,
Shay Shay
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I know this guy lets call him CTW and i told me friend to call him she did and she told him i liked him... i do. and i don't know him that well but i'm in 7th grade and he rode my bus in 5th grade he's been at a couple partys and i think he's really nice. There is only one thing, i think he has some brain problems cause my friend said he is dangerous and he spazes out and hurts people while he spazes like on purpose but uncontolably he is going to sit at our lunch table when he is unsuspended for punching this kid but He would never purposly hurt someone. I know he will go out with me i just am not sure. can someone help me? (link)
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He may have some problems, but Im really not to sure. I mean he could have done it on purpose. He may just have ander problems etc. But Im sure he wont be very open to you if you ask him about it though. Does your friend ever make things seem bigger than they really are? Maybe shes just overegzaggerating.
Yours Truly,
shay shay
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What do I do if a boy likes me who I don't like back? He wrote me notes in math class...had his friend give me one and he gave me one himself.
I keep complaining about this but its just annoying. I feel nothing...its feels like somethings missing whenever he looks at me...like somethings not right. I have NO feelings for him.
Everyone either tells me to stop complaining or
give him a chance but it's not that great when someone likes you and you DONT like then back. I don't really feel something when a boy likes me unless I like him the same way....so it's not that great. He still comes up to me and waves and says Hi *******! and I just wave and he like giggles or some weird thing. I mean...he's a really nice kid but nothings there...I feel like i want to cry...I have no clue why. Is this normal? I don't like him and I'm absoulutely sure about this...100%. I like someone else...and I don't know, whenever I see him my stomach twists and turns because I dont want him to give me another note or actually come up to me and ask me out...so I avoid him. I just don't want to deal with this...I don't want to turn him down...every girl turns him down and I feel so bad. But then again if I did go out with him nothing would be there anyway so there would be no point to that. I like another kid so much but i just have to get up the courage to at least smile at the boy.
errg! I'm so frustrated! I DON'T WANT ANY MORE NOTES! what do i do? And I'm NOT going to give him a chance because he has admitted to liking a whole bunch of girls just last week and even if I did like him it wouldn't be real if we went out...and last I heard he was going out with some girl named Ashley or something...ERGGG! what do I do...HE'S EXPECTING AN ANSWER SOON AND IT'S JUST ANNOYING! please help! (link)
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You dont have to listen to people when they say to stop complaining because they also just feel bad for the guy. You have the right to make your own decisions! :) I believe in you. Tell him that you want to focuss more in class and not on notes.
Your truly,
-shay :-)
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Not to be rude or anything, but I'm not trying to follow the trend, I just like it, and If i like it, then I should do it right? Im not trying to be cool, or popular. . I just wanna be what suits me best. I happen to liek the clothing gothic people wear, and I sometimes act as if i were gothic. So I guess you misunderstood. . well bye (link)
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Okay... Good for you!
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OK, I was at school today and a fifth grader who I danced with at a dance ONCE asked me out through one of my friends. I'M AN EIGHTH GRADER!!!! I told my friend to tell him no thatnks and I think she DID carry on the correct message but I think he told everyone we were going out and now people are making fun of me because they think I'm going out with a fifth grade russian. I mean, I don't care that he's russian but isn't the girl supposed to know when she's going out with somebody and now I have a dance tonight and I'm afraid he's going to ask me to dance and I really don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to get any rumors started again. Please respond quickly because I have to leave at 7:15. I need to know what I should do and I don't trust myself to make the decision. Now it's 4:26
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You shouldnt dance with him because you seem to have lost his trust. Tell him that also tell him that he is being quite imature.
-shay :-)
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I feel very sick lately.
after walking up the stairs or standing or walking for a bit i feel like i might vomit.
it hurts to breath in deep and i cough alot and it hurts my sides. alot. today after standing in the hall way, going downstairs and walking down the block i almost threw up, kept gaging and coughing which hurt so much i was doubled over, and it hurt to move.
what could this be?
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I had this in November. You need to lay down somewhere and get a lot of rest to help gain your energy. It also helps to have soup.
-shay :-)
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My oldest daughter's biological father lives in a different country and we haven't spoken to each other since I was 19. I am now 30 years old. I let my daughter use my maiden name in her birth certificate but have indicated there who her real dad is. I've been married for 8 years now and my husband has been great to my oldest daughter. My dilema right now is should my husband legaly adopt my daughter so she could have his last name. My daughter sometimes says she is the only one in the family that has a different last name and that she doesn't look like her brother and sister. She already knows that her father is different from her brother and sister and I told her that it is not important that she uses a different name but what's important is how much her dad and her siblings loves her very much. I just wanted to get opinion if it would matter if she changes her last name or not. (link)
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You should ask her. My older brother and sister have the same problem, they have a different dad than I do. I know that my sister really doesnt like her last name and would prefer mine, but it all depends on the matter of opinion. Also ask your husband if he would be willing to adopt your daughter which Im sure he'll be okay with.
-shay :-)
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I have a friend that is a boy. His name is Marco and he is really nice. We e-mail each other, and I sit in back of him in language arts and social studies. I really would like to hang out with him, but I don't want to tell him that. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
desprate 4 help (link)
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Over an email maybe ask him if he wants to go to the mall or see a movie with you because you've got nothing else to do and you'd like to spend some sun time with him.
-shay :-)
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okay, this guy likes me (im pretty sure) and i want him to ask me out, but hes too shy, obviously, so how do i get him to ask me out soon? (link)
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You cant force anything to happen between you. He may not even really feal like going out with you, but who knows.
-shay :-)
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when can a girls really notice that a boy likes her?????? (link)
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Well the guy usually hits the girl a lot just playing around and they LOVE to flirt with girls. They'll do a lot to just talk to you.
-shay :-)
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...I have my very *first* job interview coming up! And since it's my first one, I am very nervous. :) I want the job mostly because I need to raise some money- but I know that's not the answer that the manager will want to hear. Any suggestions about what to do for the interview, other than dressing up? ;)
Much Love!
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Tell him that you would enjoy more responsabilitys and getting a job is something a teenager needs to save for a car or college.
-shay :-)
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My friend asked me if I was goth, I didnt know what to tell her. . I mean goths dont usually go right out and yell IM GOTH! But she asked and I always tell the truth, I said ya. She said ew ur weird. . . She asked me this online, she hasnt seen me for weeks. . and I have maracuously changed, not because this lifestyle has become popular, but because I found it deep down in my heart. She got mad at me and everything .. she gave me a necklas and now she wants it back, she said she'd call the cops if i did anything to it, which i didnt and anyways its mine she gave it to me, is being gothic worth it, i rlly ant to be and i like being this. . but should I give up our friendsship and go gothic, or forget gothic and be ehr frined, I think I should forget her, but please tell me if Im right! (link)
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I think your friend is just being selfish. You have the right to make your own decions! Try talking to her and reasoning with her.
-shay :-)
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