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ok i have dark circles uner my eyes... i get a enough sleep but i still have them... ive tried concealer and foundation n crap but it gets so annoying because it comes off throughout the day and i hate reapplying... anyone know any way to get rid of dark circles for long periods of time? i rate high =)

Well..if your sure you get enough sleep..you can use like mosterizer or lotion or something for your face for things like that. But other then that and like coverup theres nothen you can really do !! Hope i helped

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ok i have pretty skinny legs... like i eat well n stuff im not anorexic or anything like that but ive always had really skinny legs... i want to give them some shape... does anyone know some good excersises to do that? thanx a bunch! i rate high

Well to get muscle you can do some like excersises involving those...running alot would help. Joining sports would make them lets stronger to. Or if you have the kind of machine like a leg pull you can use that-Hope i helped

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I wrote a question about the guy i saw a while ago and got many great anwsers... alright I went to see him and he gentally grabbed my hand and started rubbing my thumb you know how they do that when you holding hands, we layed down a watched a movie. We were just cuddling. When the movie was over I went out into the living room and he came out there and started talking to me... he told me that he really never meant to hurt me and he will never do it again. I was scared when he told me he loved me and didn't say it back.. he told me to call him but I am too scared. Should I call him and if I do what do I talk to him about.. I need advice before I pick up the phone and dial his number... please help I can honestly say I love this guy... do you think he loves me?

Well i dont recall reading your question so i dont know your whole story ; sorry. Anyways i think you should definitly call him back! See what he wanted maybe he's changed you never know, when you's were watching the movie were you happy? Didn't it seem like he changed all ready?
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EVERYONE i know always says that your first love will always stay in your heart no matter what, etc.. Do you guys think this is true? Even after a year or longer after breaking up and gotten with new ppl and not talking at all, you think that those feelings for your first love are still there?

Personally i dont think guys think that but there could be some guys out there who do.
hope i helped
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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..

I think you should do what ever you want what ever you feel..if you feel that you ready go for it!!

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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused

"I think it was better when we were friends, so sorry but i'd rather just be friends and i hope nothing changes between us sorry!"

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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help!

Dont write a note because if you say something'chessy' or something he has proof and he can act stupid and show it too all of his friends. Or he can rip it up in your face which wouldn't be good either. The best way is to talk to him face to face or on the phone say like Im not looking for a long term relationship right now im not ready. or something hope i helped

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How do you put music in your column, like, not MIDI, like starlightmks. I can't find a site that has the music with like, the person actually singing. Thanks in advance. I rate 5's for effort.

Well its not good to put it in your column because its very distracting but ...musicville.diary-x.com

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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do?

Well why did she break up with you two days after? I think you should talk to her in private about it and tell her not to talk to her friends about it because it seems like her friends have an impact on her choices. You should ask her if what you hearing is true if she really does like you and if she does ask her out again.

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my sister gets white stuff in her under wear what is it I mean I get it too but I dont want to ask her

its called a discharge its perfectly normal

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i like my boyfriend alot but every time we talk he never seems to wanna talk and he always gets frustrated with me.. so i try not to call him anymore but i really wanan talk to him and then he says that he can never see me.. what should i do??

Sorry hunny but if you's dont talk or dont ever see eachother thats not a relationship!Im not sure if you care but last year I had a terrible boyfriend.His name was Evan alright out of 8 months he did NOT call me ONCE and he hung out with my enemy Renee..she liked him also and when i tried to call him he wouldnt talk and if i emailed him he would delete them or renee would delete them for him..it bugged the shit outta me but i was so blinde i just 'liked' him so much it was all bs..well anyways the one night i cried and cried nd then i talked to him online and i said we have to break up..it was the best for us..it really was..so just think whats best.
wanna talk? im me:cherricandi1217

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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not.

well if their making fun of him and teasing him ..its just not about sex..if you think you ready..do something else like 2nd base or 3rd if ur that ready...since its january now..what happened?

spicy xo hott

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

Theres nothing wrong with you. Thats normal esp. for your age, younge and horny and wanting to be sexualy active. Theres nothing wrong with that

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I'm inviting 4 of my best friends over for a small group gathering party. We're going to the movies, which'll take up like 4 hours.. But do you guys have anymore ideas.. Thanks XO

you can invite guys over maybe..or invite guys to where ever your going like the movies...guys always make it more fun..

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I think i'm going to my boyfriends house tomorrow to "hang out". What should we do? Cuz we'll probably be bored like usual. Thanks!!!

you can rent a movie and watch it that will kill some time..and like go outside talk a walk hold hands get close and cuddel on the couch..nd like make a move maybe put ur hang on his thigh or something ...and see how it goes from there
Happy New year!!
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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

If you are enjoying doing your 'experiment' it might mean your either turning lesbian or your bi. If you still like guys your bi or maybe if your still interested in guys you just miss not doing things with a guy and your lonely so you dont mind doing it with the same sex. So it might mean you like eachother.

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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???

well if you think your ready, you should do it..but 14 is a younge age..MAKE SURE YOU USE PROTECTION if you do. Dont only do it because he wants you to and if you say no your afraid of the outcome of what hes going to do. Do what you want and think is best.
tell me how things turn out;)

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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?!

well if you's were really friends for that long its stupid of both of you's to get mad at eachother for that. But it is her fault for giving your purse to someone else. Thats a violation you cant give someone else's stuff away! Marie..well you shouldnt talk about ANYONE cause thats what it leads to you cant trust no one...and its TOTALLY wrong of her to go and tell marie..if that was me i'd probably give it some time and see how she acted ..but at the end forgive her only because you's were friend for that long its stupid to throw away a friend ship that good..

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Well My ex-boyfriend (Jake) and I dated for about 7 months off and on last year (2003) well...He use to say he loved me but never meant it...He hurt me alot but I'm madly in love with him and the other day he said I love you and says he means it and I really think he does...Im just not sure what to think or do....i need help...what should i do???? should i ask him out should i believe him what????

Well if you still like him ..and you trust him not to hurt you again you should let HIM ASK YOU OUT. Dont be the one to ask him out because he's going to think your that hurt and you'll go for anything or anyone your that desperate. If he claimes he loves you he would ask you back out.
hope i helped.

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Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it?

Well thats definitly rude of her! She has no right to take things of yours and do whatever she wants with them. You should talk to her and tell her u dont like or appreciate how shes acting and if she keeps it up you's cant be friends!
hope i helped


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