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hi ok i was jsut wondering like why can you go swimming with a tampon?? i mean like how is it any different? i mean your stil like getting wet.. i dunno i was jsut wondering

Because the tampon is going inside of you, that's one of the reaons tampons are made for. It'll make sure that the blood is not leaking into the water, and if you wear pads then it'll just get soaked and end up like a wet diaper.

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if a person is bipolar how do they act..?
-thanks

They have different moods, that seem to last for a little while and then change back. There are different signs for bipolar, and some kinds act different than others. Like for a few weeks they'll be depressed and not even want to get out of bed, and the next few weeks they'll be hyper and on the go constantly. My father has bipolar and he has to take medication for it, or else he'll obsess on whatever it is his mind is on and get really aggressive. Usually the medication that the people use for bipolar makes them gain weight, but they should take it or else they'll change personalities and moods, depending on how mild that persons' is.

Hope this helped you!
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Ok well I just started using tampons and I wanna know if you can wear a tampon in the shower? B/c i gotta take a shower but I like just put a tampon in an hour ago and I don't wanna waste it.

Thanks!

Yes you can wear it in the shower :] What would female swimmers do if you couldn't? Lol.

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Hey,
What are some good 14/15 year old girl movies that is pg-13, pg, or g??

Well if you mean in the theaters, I'm not sure haha. Nacho Libre was cute, and maybe you'd like Click (I heard it wasn't that funny though, kinda like a family movie). If you mean any movies you could rent, then here are a few:

Can't Hardly Wait (my favorite movie)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0127723/

Mean Girls
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0377092/

Not Just Another Teen Movie
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0127723/

A Cinderella Story
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0127723/

Love Don't Cost A Thing
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0337592/

Austin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0145660/

Hope this helped!
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i just feel like everything is a mess. everything is wrong, and i feel like its wrong because of me. i dont want to feel like this anymore and i dont want to push people away like i do, for no reason. what do i do..why am i like this?

I think everyone goes through a stage like this in their lives when they feel depressed, and have emotional ups and downs (most of the time they go through it in teen years with hormones). Just relax, and talk to someone you can trust. Call someone in your family (grandparent, aunt, etc.) and tell them how you've been feeling lately. Do something to relax your moods, like write in a journal, do yoga, work out, anything to bring out your feelings. I usually listen to music when I'm upset that I can relate to, which really helps while I work out. If you need anymore help, leave a message in my inbox :] Much love

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hii guys. my boyfriends birthday coming up, and im just wondering what i should get him. Its kind of the first time ive had to buy for a guy.

help?

It kind of depends on how long you've been dating, like what is nessesary and what isn't. Talk to him about music he likes (like if he wants a CD or something). Gift cards are always good, like maybe a gift card to a restuarant or a place he loves to go on the weekends. You could ask him over and you could make him his favorite meal and dessert. You could buy him a watch, or a cologne.
And you can always just ask him what he'd like :]

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So I like this guy named Ryan and he likes me too so he says. But hes like in love with this girl named Karly and so he doesnt really want to like me too much casue of her or anything so what do i do. Help Please~!

You should try going out with a guy that likes you and you only. If he likes another girl than you should leave him alone, because its not right for him to tell you he likes you, but say the same to another girl. Tell him how you feel about the situation and how you like him, but if he still has feelings for the other girl then leave it alone.

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Ok, I met this girl at a friends party a while ago, she seemed nice. A few days ago he had another party and I talked to the girl again, and we are now friends on myspace. Here is where the question comes in. She is hitting on me, and telling me we should hang out. I am not sure of how I feel about her, so I was wondering what a safe way to hang out with her would be so I can avoid the question until I get to know her a little better.

Plan something with all your friends to hang out together, like going to see a movie or going to the mall. Do something fun where everyone can have a good time and not have it be a serious date. Tell her that you want to get to know her better by seeing her in person, and she'll understand.

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Theres this boy Jordan, he`s in the grade above mine. We both liked each other before, and he kissed me. It was so sloppy and gross, he just became completley repulsive, and we got into fights over stupid things. Now we both like each other again, or atleast I thought I did. So I`ve totally lead him on, but now I just don`t feel like I like him very much again, he`s not exactly attractive, he`s really sensitive, and ugh he`s lame. I want somebody exciting, and cute ;] I went out today and saw a bunch of hotties and the whole time I was like " ugh, and all I`ve got is Jordan " So what should I say to him, were not going out, but were flirting like crazy, and I want that to end, please help!

Stop flirting with him if you don't want to go out with him! What are you doing leading him on if you don't have feelings for him? If he's not the right guy you should be with, then just give him signals that you don't like him anymore. I'm sorry that I'm being kinda firm, but seriously, I dislike when people lead others on when they're just going to end up hurting them (since I've had it happen to me before).

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Im having a friend come over my small apartment their really is nothing to do and we are spending all day here with no one to drive us anywhere and nothing to do. I was woundering if you could give me ideas for two 16 year olds thank you

Do whatever you two like to do. Take pictures, dance to music, rent movies (you could rent them on paperview) that'll make you laugh your heads off, go online, paint eachother's nails or put on crazy makeup (if you two are girly), write random poems that mean nothing, laugh about people/teachers at school, make a pizza with weird toppings, get magazines and read them together, whatever you two can think of! When I'm with friends we usually can think of something fun to do, no matter how dumb it is. Good luck! : ]
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Hey today I asked my husband to fix me 2 pop-tarts you'd think all the work involved was poppin em' in the toaster but no he puts butter on the back of them. Have yall ever heard of this? 5's for all thoughts.

Haha I've never heard of that before. Poptarts are fattening enough as it is, but putting butter on them? Did it taste good?

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is it true that if you wax all the time that eventually your hair will stop growing?

Nope, I've never even heard of that before.

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13/f

I have really large breasts, and unlike most girls, I hate it. Is there anything I can do that can make them appear smaller? Without buying anything, that is.

Everyone is a little self conscience, but honestly, why would you want to make your boobs seem smaller? There are people out there who pay money to have surgery to get their breasts done, and you have them naturally. You're really lucky! But if you really want to make them look smaller, try wearing black or getting a certain kind of bra that helps make your shape the way you want (yes, you'll have to buy it, but it'll be worth it once you're happy with it)

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i've had a crush on this guy for what feels like forever. he seems perfect for me and he flirts with me. he's really nice and really like him. i wish we could go out but both of us are extremely shy about that and so i don't know what to do. if i don't tell him how i feel i'll feel like i'll never be able to tell him. what can i do?

You're probably nervous that you might say something stupid if you tell him how you feel, but trust me, it's actually a lot more stupid to not say anything. Most guys make the first move, but a lot of them wouldn't mind the girls doing it either. I think you should get to know better by talking to him more casually, and when you're sure you both like eachother you should tell him how you feel. In my opinion I think it's a lot cuter if the guy does the asking, so try to make him un-shy. Show him that you're an easy person to talk to :]

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omg i am sooo fucking pissed off at my friend. she won't stop talking about my boyfriend and it's really starting to get me pissed off. Cause she even admitted to still liking him since they went out like during the summer but all i hear from her is what they did the first day they went out and how good of a kisser he is. what should i do i don't want her to get mad at me??!!!!

I have to admit I think it's wrong for her to be talking about YOUR boyfriend so much. She has to get over it, you and him are going out now, they're over and done with. She sounds like she's trying to brag, but don't try to let it bother you, 'cause you got him! Haha and who cares if she gets mad at you? You have a right to be kinda annoyed with her, so just tell her that you'd appreciate her not talking about your boyfriend, or you won't talk to her. period.

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Who sings that new song "Temperature"? Its a rapper of some sort I think but I dont know who...

Sean Paul! I wuv that song :]

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Ok well I have wavy and puffy hair. I just got cut it in layers, it looks good...but I want it kinda like straight yet wavy. What I mean is that I want my hair the same but not puffy. I have tried different things and it's the same. Suggestions?

Uhm well try a frizz controling hair spray. Like Got2Be Straightening hairspray makes my hair look really smooth and keeps it that way even when I sleep on it. I use Pantene Pro-V Shampoo for when I want to wear my hair curly & wavy, it works really well, since my hair is reallyyy thick.

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ok, so my bf and i will just be talking and what not and he is lying on the couch and i just want to say to him" oh my god you are so effing hot i have every reason on earth to jump on top of you and furiously make out." But that would be wierd.... so how can i get to that place where i can actually do that. how can i "seduce him" into making out with me without sounding desperate?
PLEASE I NEED GUYS FOR THIS TOO!

Yeah what you want to say to him sounds kind of forcing (like you're really excited or something), so just try to keep it cool. When he's lying down, if he's on his back lay on his stomach and lightly kiss him on the forehead so he starts to get the hint. Run your fingers through his hair, and just be flirty. Most guys will understand what you're trying to tell them by doing things like this. Most guys don't need a lot of words if you just want to kiss them.

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I'm going to Europe for a week and I need some cute outfits. I want to have some really adorable outfits for this trip. I need night outfits along with day outfits that aren't too pricey. I don't want you to just tell me "a pink shirt with white capris". I want actual outfits with the links. Thanks.

I buy most of my cute outfits from Fashion Bug, which has clothing for all ages of girls. It has dresses, skirts, t-shirts, button-down fancy shirts, bascially everything.

http://www.fashionbug.com

I also like Abercrombie & Fitch which has REALLY cute skirts and sweatshirts if you like preppy/sporty clothing.

http://www.abercrombie.com

Some other good stores are Target, CoHoes, JCPenny, Kohl's, etc.

For cute accesories go to Claire's! They have everything there, from headbands to necklaces, to bracelettes and purses.

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my boyfriend and i got pretty close last night to a home run but i got scared and froze up what should i do to calm down and go with the flow

sex scared

You want your first time to be special, right? You also would want to be comfortable with him, so I'm guessing you're just not ready. Don't push yourself into doing it if you're not sure if you're ready yet. Just tell your boyfriend how you feel, and if he cares about you, he'll wait for when you are. Your first time will always make you nervous, but if you feel as if you have to ask on here if you're ready, then you're not.
Another thing, I believe sex should wait until marriage, but if you absouloutly HAVE to, ALWAYS use protection.

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