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Ok, I met this girl at a friends party a while ago, she seemed nice. A few days ago he had another party and I talked to the girl again, and we are now friends on myspace. Here is where the question comes in. She is hitting on me, and telling me we should hang out. I am not sure of how I feel about her, so I was wondering what a safe way to hang out with her would be so I can avoid the question until I get to know her a little better.
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group dates are best for this situation because you get to know her and how she responds to certain types of people in certain invironments. you shouldnt feel too out of place because yall will have friends around and you can ask your friends what they think because your friends know you best. have fun and dont stress over it if yall dont work out as a couple yall could be great friends, good luck!
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you could try going on a lunch date or goout with a bunch of friend and tell them if she starts talking about it change the subject --ALLEY n rate
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If you have a feeling that something bad could happen defenatly dont go!!! ask your friends about her and make sure that she is an okay person to hang with
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Wait I'm confused...you want a safe place to hang out so that you can avoid hanging out? Oh, well, that doesn't matter. For now, until she asks again, just act like you forgot that she mentioned you should hang out. It might give you some more time to figure out your feelings for her. Then the moment will come when she asks to hang out again. Now, you really can't be mean and say no because what if later on you find you do like her, but she doesn't like you because you rejected hanging out. I say that when she asks, you two bring a big group of friends and hang out at the movies, amusment park, mall, etc. So that it's not as personal and alone. Let me know how it goes -
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Tell her you would like to get to know her better before you realy get the time to meet her and stuff because you dont knw that much about her and she could not be safe.
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Plan something with all your friends to hang out together, like going to see a movie or going to the mall. Do something fun where everyone can have a good time and not have it be a serious date. Tell her that you want to get to know her better by seeing her in person, and she'll understand.
-mystical_breeze
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Just tell her, that you wanna get to know her in person before you are dating. go to the mall/movies anywhere just as friends and make that clear. i told my now boyfriend that when i met him and he was fine with it, and we hung out several times before we were a couple. good luck
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