Ok well See i may have changed i dont know but im really confused of who i am. SOme of my friends want me to go back to my gurlie gurl fun normal self and some want me to stay my sorta Skater type self?! I want to g0 back and i dont ? I dont know! Im so confused ! Please help me!!!
Signed
*Confused~~
TO: *Confused~~
just be yourself...be who you want to be...if your frends are reall good then theyll stick with ya no matter how ya are...stick wit watebe style youll feel most comfortable in and dont let anything anyone says/thinks get to ya...i told this to the person before ya and im telling ya too coz thahs all ya gotta do..frends will stick wit ya no matter wat so be troo to YOU and find out who your real frends are and who arent..ya noe?
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Hey. Well I'm going into middle school and I practicually know no one there. I am scared that I will not make any friends, and I keep getting scared over and over again just thinking about it. My school starts Aug. 23, and my orientation is tomorrow Aug. 19, and there's going to be 7th graders and new students there and the bus is picking us up. I'm pretty scared about that too, but more scared of the first day of school. Can anyone tell me how to calm down about this and give me motivation so I won't be so scared anymore, and tell me how to make friends early and quick. Thanx!, and I would really appreciate it if you answered my questions.
TO: New School~so scared!
thah is how i am now altho i am going to high school insted of middle school....i hab a bigger pool of students to worry about...all WAY taller than me and (most obviously) older...so i figoored not to care wat anyone thot about me...i mean just being myself has helped me get frends before so why not do the same thing here rite? same thing with you...dont let wat other ppl say or think about you get to ya coz itll haunt you fer life if you do...insted just be yourself, find someone you think you can be frends with, and just totallie go for it...trust yourself and youll make killer frends before ya eben noe it...ya noe?
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My girlfriend is moving three states over for 6 months because of family problems but will for sure be back by then. She says she wants to continue dating while shes gone but i dont know if i can do that. We would only beable to talk on the phone and maybe i could drive over a few times. Anyone else had a long distance relationship? Whats it like, what do you have to do to make it work?
TO: Girlfriend Moving
i habent reallie had along distance relationship before buh here wat i can tell you from my frends whos had at least one before...stick to it...it would onlie be for 6 months and if you like her THAH much then theres no point in you guys at least trying it...just call lots of times buh ask her to call like every now and then too coz otherwise your fone bill will go up like way UP THERE...also drive like once a month and see her on the weekends...thah way you guys could still spend time together like every now and then...ya noe?
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wow.. this has to be the most freakiest thing ever. i sent you the question before.. and then when u sent back and i visited your site.. i almost had a heart attack! The song!! One Year, Six Months!! By Yellowcard!! omg I like love yellowcard and u have no idea One Year, Six Months is the song that i listen to and it think about my situation to.. this has to be the weirdest thing ever.. just thought id share it with you.. and thats awesome how u have it in your page.. ps u have great taste in music!
thanks...yellowcard has like reallie awesome stuff...theyre wayyy cool! lolz.... and i hope i helped you with your question...hehe
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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.
okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?
TO: SO DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!
give this guy a try and let your ex give other girls a try too... i mean you guys ARE still close frends and all and theres reallie nothing rong with you going out with someone coz your single..giv him a try insted of just waiting for yor ex to want to get back together wid you er sumthin...itd be better fer the both of you...ya noe?
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I'm going to my boyfriend's house sometime before summer ends..we're both 13..my parents don't know I have a boyfriend because I'm not aloud to..but I'm nervous about going over there..I've never even gone over to a guys house when were just friends with just the two of us! Does anyone have any advice for me, what can make me less nervous? I mean hes never done anything besides hug a girl..which of course was me and I was his first girlfriend, we dated before this. So I don't have to worry about him doing anything I wouldn't want him to do. I mean..im sure we're gonna kiss bcuz he said he wanted to and he said he wanted me to be his first for everything since I already was for the girlfriend and the hug..but any advice? I'll be online for a while on secretAsquirrel..thats not my normal sn but its the one im gonna be using for the time im at my friends house.
TO: Boyfriend's House
if you reallie trust him and all then you shouldnt be nervous...i mean as you pointed out you both are onlie 13!! i dunt think hell be doing anything thah makes you feel uncomfy and if he does then just go on and tell him so...theres nothin reallie rong with thah is there?? the onlie thing i think you should reallie be concerned about is your parents...if they find out about this without you telling them then you mite be in a lot more trouble than you asked for..hehe buh thahs the anser to a diff question so i wont get into thah...just be yourself..ya noe?
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OK*
I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?
Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:.
TO: Yes or NO?
totallie say yes..i mean if ya like him and all like thah much...youll get to noe him wile your his girlfrend rite?? so why not gib him a shot...ya noe?
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I have liked this guy for almost two years and he seemed interested too! but he is extremely shy and now he just graduated Highschool so i won't get to see him anymore, i invited him over my house but he said no, any suggestions on what i should do? i mean he really seemed intersted in me cause he e-mails me everyday.....Any advice on how i should get over him then? should i tell him how i feel in an e-mail?
TO: Crush
totallie tell him how you feel...i mean if your totallie and completely soore thah hes into ya too then why not gib it a shot..i mean if hes gonna be out to college and like you wont see him for a wile its best he noes how ya feel before he leaves...ya wouldnt want him hooking up with anyone else while hes gone...and theres nothing to lose..ya noe?
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13/m
ok see..theres this kid thats 2 years older than me and hes BI. i know theres nuttin wrong wit that but there is..when he likes u! his name is anthony and he has a crush on me! he told me when i was in 6th grade! i almost passed out! i am tromotized! whenever i see him, i feel like throwing up and i stay as far away from him as humanly possible! i really dont like him cause he harrases me! its gross! what should i do to block this outta my mind!
i rate!
TO: BISEXUAL........
pushin him away can help sometimes buh things could get worse and you wouldnt reallie wanna get thah to happen...tell thah doode thah you guys could be frends (if ya can stand thah) buh outline to him where the lines are drawn...overline stepping has some kinda consequence...if not thah then try to pass him on to some other guy...(not the best plan i noe buh if ur THAH desperate then wat else?)...ya noe?
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Hey Should i break up with my P.A. relationship i haven't see her yet and i m really confused and i like this girl erica and samantha but erica is to young for me and samantha is like 2 years what should i dunno
Mike
TO: Mike
hold on to the long distance relationship if you like the grl thah much...i mean if you habent seen her so wat? if shes reallie nice and just totally awesome then dunt break up with her just yet...as for samantha and erica...a) age dusnt reallie matta in a relationship (unless you hab a thin about grls younger than you er sumthin) and b) hold on to your feelings for them fer now becoz you still hab a relationship...ya noe?
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I had it good for a while. I guess most of us dont realize when to appreciate what you have. I had it so good id do just anything to back on the past. But lets forget me... my sister used to be average wieght.. NOT fat at all just not as skinny as everyone else. I used to call her fat tho just in spite of her when i wanted something and she wouldnt give me something or if we were fighting. I regret that in every way shape or form. PLEASE if you've been calling some1 fat dont do it, you will hospitilize some1 no joke it gets to people. So anyway shes been away at camp for 5 weeks.. and shes not the same. She wont let herself touch a hamburger, or anything besides salad and yogurts and rice cakes and such. She wont let herself have even a rootbeer float.. its so wierd. But worst of all shes not anything like she used to be. She used to be happy. Shes really homesick right now and she admits when she comes back shes going to need therapy because she even KNOWS that her lifestyles are messed up. Its not that she doesnt want to eat all those foods she CANT. She always feels so compared her whole life she has and now im fearing for her and wishing things were back to normal. Nothing has ever been this screwed up in my life i have never been asked to handle this 1nce before in my life and now its my own sister... and i just dont know what to do. Its like no1 cares... my aunt only has mean things to say like shes starving herself and she yells at my sister. Yelling wont help her any! My mom understands and so does my dad and they care but it hurts to see them so worried. I cant take it! This could all be my fault.. i should have never called her names.... what do i do to keep myself from getting overly sick at myself. Im not about to go anerexic or cut myself or anything lame like that im too full of life and i could never stoop down to that level but i always feel like i just want to stay in bed all day. I want my life to be normal, but i cant have that...
for a person thats going to be sensitive to my feelings... *PLEASE* answer asap
and 2 the rest of u.. never say anything you could regret
XoxOO-
TO: Is my perfect life falling apart?
dont be too hard on yourself...you dint make the decision fer her to do wat she did to herself... and feeling guilty and thinkin thah it was all your fault is prolly just gonna get her upset becoz you think its your fault eben tho you prolly dint hab aythin to do about/with it anyway... just spend a tonna time with her and be reallie nice to her insted of hidin under the covers all day...and stay WAYY cheerful and positive...it would help her a ton to see a cheery face at the door every mornin wen she wakes up and at nite before she goes to sleep... also every now and then take her out somewhere and tell her she HAS to eat eben a lil bit becoz she could get reallie REALLIE sick er sumthin if her health levels not up...do sisterly stuff like thah and wen ppl make fun of her er call her names back her up eben if its familie..just help get her self esteem back...ya noe?
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This year while I was vacationing in a place I regularly visit I met a girl. The night after I met her I drank way to much and ended up losing my virginity with her. I was really beating myself up over it the next morning, but it turned out that we hooked up for the entire time I was vacationing, however we never slept together again. The problem is, she doesn't know she was my first. She actually thinks she was my 3rd. Now im beating myself up for lying to her, but Im afraid that if I tell her now things could get awkward and I may not ever see her again. I feel horrible about lying, but if things got weird between me and her and I lost contact with her I would probably fall over and just never get up. I'm not sure whether to tell her, and if I do, I'm not sure how or when. I am extrememly thankful for any help someone can give me.
TO: Should I Tell Her
the sooner ya tell her the betta...i mean like just wen you guys get to the topic and stuff just be all like...well i lied it was actually my first time...if she likes you as much as you like her then shell prolly be all like iite watebe...theres nothin ya goota lose...ya noe?
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umm well i like my nextdoor naboor n well he came to spend the night w. my bro n we madeout n i gave him a handjob n well he weent to visit his mom in NY n well he is coming back in a week or soo n still rele like him m im not sure if he likes me n well i rele miss him n i want to makeout w. him n how do i tell him that i like him n i want to makeout w. him??
TO: (blank)
if you like him so much then just go for it! i mean wat dya gotta lose? he prolly likes you too..if he dint he prolly wouldnta gibben you those kisses...ya noe?
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im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too.
TO: friend or not
i think you should keep it at this level fer now and confirm everything first..THEN you make your move and talk to him about it..i mean if its all troo then theres reallie no problem rite? mehbe he was just shy with his frend er just dint wanna tell him..ya noe?
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when i was in 4th grade my dad came to my school and told me he was leaving forever. My dad is a very abusive person and threatend a lot of stuff on my family. Its been 5 years and hes back. My mom is afraid she wont meet any guys again. So my dad is living at my house and he yells at me a lot when my moms not home. Im scared of him bcuz he might still be abusive. My mom doesnt understand and i dotn know what to do. i get in a fight with him every day. Please help.
TO: my dad and my mom..
i think thah you mite wanna just stay clear of him fer a wile and tell your mom wats going on...i mean you wouldnt wanna wait and find out if hes still abusive er not...the sooner you talk to your mom about it and make her understand thah your definitely not comfortable with you dad and thah you fite with him and things are just not good between you two the better...you wouldnt want to turn yelling at each other into sumthin worse..ya noe
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heyy im sara and i have this friend that is like my all time best friend but idk if i can trust her cus i want he to met my boyfriend but she stole my bf once from me and idk if she will do it again but ik she didnt mean to steel him i think abd she told me she was so0o sorry (( but idk if i can trust her i cant take my heart gettin hurt again what shold i do:-/??
please help??
TO: sara
if she IS your bff and all then i think you should chance it..i mean why hide secrets...just make it clear to the two of them thah he is YOURS...and if he is worth it then he'll stay with you no matta how pretty your bff is...ya noe?
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I have this off + on boyfriend. We always fight & he's kinda one of those 'players' you know. I trust him & everything, but I cant help but worry. He has like 2 different personalities. The 1 where he tells me he loves me + he'll never cheat, etc. + the 1 where he doesn't talk to me for days + talks to other girls(i guess to get me mad?) I don't know if he's gonna cheat on me + he gets mad at me for the smallest things. When I'm with him though, its wonderful. He tells me things that make me wanna stay with him forever & it feels good. When we talk online or on the phone, thats when the fighting starts. Its like he's playing lil boy games with me. Should I cross him off totally or not give up just yet?
TO: little boy games
hang tite...wen you noe for soore somethins going out THEN cross him off...in the mean time just get more of his sweet personality by just spendin more "alone time" with him...ya noe?
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ok my name is ashley and i am 14. i have a boyfriend and i like him and all but recently he sent me a pic of him and i really dont like his face. he has a nice body and everything. but he lives in indiana and comes out every weekend to his dads. i know u all r thinking im shallow and ur prolly rite and everything but i just cant help it!he is nice and says i am super precios an dsweet but im not sure if he says that to other ppl bc of where he lives. neway i dont kow what to do. i dont wanna eb a bitch and break up with him but i also dont want the situation to come up where i have to kiss him and i cant stand his face!i really need help. for my advice i really dont want ppl to tell me im shallow and to not care if he is ugly bc i know all that but as a person that i am i cant get over that nd i know that is horrible!i really need advice!thanks!
TO: HIS FACE! AHHHHHH!
i hab thah exact same problem with my dad..i mean not to be mean buh he DOES look reallie garfunkle and you just cant help and like at least SMILE evry time ya see his face... anyways the onie thing ya can reallie do is just tell him about it...like if he has acne er sumthin then tell him to use acne cream...gib him a make ova..ya noe?
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mii bf has two friends and i had asked him to go to canobiie lake ((amusment park)) with me on sundaii and then his two friends tell me his b-daii party is sundaii and that he cant go.. and they said he has known about it cuz they throw him a huge party everii year.. i donno what to do.. whii would he lie and what should i do...
lOvE,
xAmiiEx
P.S: if im his gf shouldn't i be invited..?
TO: xAmiiEx
mehebe your boyfrend just wanted somge (quote unquote) "guy time"...? i mean ya may nebe noe and if he did say thah YA he was going with you to the lake then mehbe hes just gonna ditch his own parte er sumthing...i dunt think you would need to worry too much about this unless ya alredy noe tha ansers to the above are like nos...ya noe?
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I met this guy online and I thought that I had a crush on him. He was REALLY nice and everything that he said just made me feel that there was serious relationship potential. However, I just met him in person and he's really shy around me. Sure he might be shy because he has the hotts for me or something else along those lines, but now that we've met in person he won't even talk to me online anymore! Maybe it was because he lied about his height and he discovered that I'm an inch taller than him (and I'm a girl) but shouldn't we still continue a friendship? I just don't understand. Does anyone have any ideas why he won't talk to me at all anymore?
TO: (blank)
i think its coz mehbe he was just a lil surprised by you..i mean he prolly dint expect you to be the way you were..like he imagined something different...thahs wat heppened between me and like a LOT of my (guy) frends...hell prolly get oba it sometime soon...ya noe?
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