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Crush


Question Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 8:20 pm

I have liked this guy for almost two years and he seemed interested too! but he is extremely shy and now he just graduated Highschool so i won't get to see him anymore, i invited him over my house but he said no, any suggestions on what i should do? i mean he really seemed intersted in me cause he e-mails me everyday.....Any advice on how i should get over him then? should i tell him how i feel in an e-mail?

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Additional info, added Tuesday August 3 2004, 10:43 pm:
He isn't going to college...i just won't get to see him anymore cause he won't be going to my same school he is working at a some company...and he was suppose to come over my house to help my brother with his band...sorry that i left these's details out!.

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Thickbabyie4u answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 11:17 pm:
YES! I think you should tell him how you feel! But over the phone, I did that over the computer thing, and you can really tell or not if the guy accepts. But I say, dun be shy, jux tell him, and if you think about it, what's the worst that can happen? If he says no, it will be his loss, and it's not like your gonna lose your life over this. If you don't wanna tell him anything, ask him how he feels about you and go on from there! GL! Hope thiz helpz! Beebyes! ~1ne~

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trackstarshortie07 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 10:08 pm:
you should tell him how you feel in the dmail and if he doenst fell the smae way then just be friends and to get over just the of all the negaitive thngs about him and not think about how much you like him hope i helped tell me how it went

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sexiiKt answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:30 pm:
I think 1st you should tell him that you want to try to hang out wif him more becuz he is a kool person or watever and then i think after ya'll chill i think then you should tell him how you feel!i hope i helped!

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JimNYGfan88 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:28 pm:
Going to college is always a very confusing situation for anybody. What he might have felt a few weeks ago could have changed completely because of the transition he is going through. He also might have liked you as well but is feeling that the best for both of you is to keep it as friends. A lot of people change at college, and he's probably going to find a new life there including new friends and new girls. Being the girlfriend whose back home wondering what the guy is doing at college isn't a fun position anyway. I advise you to just let him go. I don't think you really need to tell him how you feel unless both of you guys are willing to accept this long distance and strenuous relationship.

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sportscutie13 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:28 pm:
Maybe when u asked him 2 come over, he had other plans. You should ask him again sometime. I think since he always e-mails you, you should e-mail him back asking him to come over. Maybe he's just not a people person. Make him feel more comfortable with you. I hope I helped you!

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missing-identity-seeker answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:24 pm:
TO: Crush

totallie tell him how you feel...i mean if your totallie and completely soore thah hes into ya too then why not gib it a shot..i mean if hes gonna be out to college and like you wont see him for a wile its best he noes how ya feel before he leaves...ya wouldnt want him hooking up with anyone else while hes gone...and theres nothing to lose..ya noe?

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Nicegirl06 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:14 pm:
I understand you. but bout telling email thing don't.. tell in person or ask him he like go see a movie or go mall. thing is that I did something like that over email and it didnt work.. thing is you just be ur self and maybe try do other things so u get over him.. hang out with friends or do ur fave hobbies
Manda
I hope this help

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Girl answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:13 pm:
I would tell him how you feel. The worste that'll happen is he'll say no he doesn't like you but if you relly like him you gotta tell him. Guys are wierd like that. Even if he doesn't like you he will ounce he knows you like him.

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jaimiejam715 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:12 pm:
if uve liked him 4 a while then u shouldnt just 4get bout him, u should def go 4 it!!! i dun think u should tell him how u feel in an e-mail though. i think it would b better if u told him in person. maybe u should send him an e-mail sayin that u GOTTA talk 2 him n tell him 2 meet u somewhere where u can talk privately. that might b best. just remember that if he doesnt feel the same way rejection isnt the worst thing that could happen.

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Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:12 pm:
u should tell him how u feel is right...i would say an email becuz then u can say what u feel without him interuptin or him feelin "shy" at any point and not knowin what to say back to u...and u can check what u say...go over it several times and just get what u gotta say out and right the first time....good luck

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