Q: So i'm a teenage girl. My only imperfection is being about 30 pounds overweight. (but i'm an hourglass so it's kind of okay) I've only had one boy call me, and the other 2 were basically guys who I had already asked out, so they called me to sort of verify the date.

The one who asked for my number had a mental disorder- Asburger's Syndrome anyway.

MY POINT IS- Most of my friends have boyfriends, but everyone is automatically unattracted to me. My friend has this perfect boyfriend and she's all perfect. Why can't I be her?

Don't say "oh sweetie it will be fine. everyone feels this way as a teenager." i've heard that to many times.

I'm mortally depressed and i try to hide it but i think most people can see through it. I'm also jealous of anything that someone else has that i don't have. But it's not obvious. I'm very pretty and i have this gorgeous hair that really stands out and everyone envy's. I'm breasty enough too.

So why am I single? i just don't get it.


I only feel okay with myself when I have a significant other. When I do not, I'm pretty much always on the brink of suicide.

Q: i am 14 and i need to know if my dick will get bigger i'm getting kinda worried

Q: Two days before Valentine's Day my boyfriend and I decided to spend time together the next thing I know he put me on hold because he was talking to his cousin Jordan I overheard his converstion saying that have you told her yet Anton said not THE next thing I know he brokes up with me claiming just to be friends when he broke up with me I was piss off I wanted to kick the holy hell out of him not because I felt wrong about it but because it was un-fair he blame me for everything saying the only thing I care about was his money sex.and care which I told him bull-shit because he choose to spend his money on me even though I told him that I did not have the money on me he said o.k.same thing with sex he choose to have sex their was no forcing at all as for the car he says that I use him for his car bull-shit I was with my friends and the only time I was ever with him when he come and got me .Now his cousin Jordan did not like me because he thought I control Anton problem thier was he did all that .Told him to break-up with me because he felt the relationship was going to fast yelling at me for the littlest things then get mad if Anton takes up for me threats that he was going to cut me try to put his hands on me and get mad if Anton was in the middle of it and he always called to see if Anton was doing anything at all if he was he would get mad at both of us .He would ask what Anton saw in me and he would say that we have the same interests the same value that we can talk for hours .After that happen I told him I wanted my stuff back at first he said that he could mot because he parents did not trust him I guess his parents change his mind because the next thing I know he was talking to me saying he was on his way to my house .He told my little brother that me and him was still going out but we were taking space from other so never telling me about his girlfriend thinking that I was his .I called his cell-phone and a girl answer the phone she said Anton was not around can I TAKE A message I said have him called me back .He did everything was fine we were taking laughing joking and just acting like any other couple I was talking about about his body he ask what do I like your smile and he said whatelse I said your ass and he said my legs and my laugh says he likes it a lot .Never thought about it not once then one-day I get ask on a date I called ANTON and was going to see if it was o.k. then I meet her she wanted to talk to me I told her that I was going out with him and that we were taking space from each other she said that was a problem I said what she is going out with him and hang up the phone I called back mad as hell and wanted answers and lord-behold I got Jordan and told him I wanted to talk to Anton he said no then gave up the phone to Anton I told him he lie he said that he was sorry and he cares about me as a friend .BUT HE NEVER BOTHER TO ANSWER MY EXPECT

Q: ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months and like we used to love eachother ALOT and i think we still do, well i do atleast, but i kind of feel like hes getting bored...like i feel like he doesn't like me as much as he used to and well like i just need some ideas to like still keep him interested and like have like alot of fun so please help thanks!

Q: well this happened a long time ago, but it suddenly came to my mind the other night.

i was in school and the teacher was doing some stuff, and so everybody was talking to their friends. well i wasn't and i was just in my desk when the group of popular guys came to my desk and so they started chatting amongst themselves. then when some of the guys went to their seat, it was just Mark (the popular guy) and his 2 buddies. well all of a sudden Mark says to me "what's up?" and nodds at me. (nodd is when he takes his head and kind lifts it up in the sky and then brings his head back down)

well you're probably wondering what my quesiton is.. well my quesiton is what was i supposed to say in return??? he's popular and well... i'm not. I'm not saying that i'm in the nerdy crowd, i'm more in the middle of popular.

I think i said something like "good." and then i looked away.

well yeah what was i supposed to say? i get really shy around guys, so how do i get more comfortable around them? oh and was he flirting with me?? i highly doubt it but i just wanna make sure.

thanks to those who answer!!

Q: Okay so I was on here a week ago and I got my question answered by you. Thank you for that advice and am trying to get an account on here. Anyways you told me to get the boy before my friend does. And its not really the guy that I have the problem with its the girl. The guy admitted that he liked me but it still seems that she is flirting with him in front of me.... Now what??

Q: Almost all school year I have liked this one guy. We were close as friends and he helped me out alot. Bottom line I liked him alot. Things have come up where me, and other people have completely convinced me there was no way he could like me. I got over him but now he's doing it all over again.
He could tell I was upset and kept asking about it but this time I refused to tell him. He talks to me quite a bit. He'll joke around saying he loves me or people say we make a cute couple. But sometimes he'll follow those phrases by insulting me. He tries to help me out and he flirts with me. One time I was just standing there (we were both in the same play thing) and he comes over, stands beside me, starts a con and after a while when I tell him I want to watch the play because I need to know when to come in, he just steps on my foot on purpose and then gives me a little poke. I step on his foot and basically we started playing footsies. I am over him but sometimes he makes me start to like him again but I always make myself remember he never would. It's getting me very angry that now that i've decided to finnally move on he's making it impossible to do so. What should I do?

Q: my boyfriend recently moved about 3 hours away. he comes back and visits every two weeks. and his next visit is on his birthday. i got him a nice shirt from abercrombie, a necklace, cologne and a little build a bear i made for him. i have everything i need i just need a cute way to give it to him i dont want to just be like oh here you go-his birthday is on april fools day if that helps any

Q: i like two boys. and so, i was wondering, is it okay to say the same things to both of them? they dont hang out together, they go to different schools. so is it a bad idea to say "i miss you" to both of them, and blah blah? or should i say different things to both?!
xo

Q: this boy, he tells all his friends he wants to make-out with me, and he tells ME that, but then i said no that i didnt want to, because it messes things up because we like eachother but were not going out because im not allowed 2have a boyfriend. so hes cool with it. and so, i see him every saturday all day my group hangs out with his group, and also in the halls or whatever. in the halls, we always make eye-contact and ill stop talking 2my friends and hell stop talking 2 his friends and well kinda have that stare, but then it ends and so on saturdays and in school and everything, what are some flirting things i can do? he always catches me staring at him, is that bad or good? any opinions on what i can do to like get him to like me more maybe? or anything flirting tips and stuff. thanx so so much! really, advicenators people ROCK lol!!

Q: Ok so i got a boufriend we have been going out for like 2 weeks and ii have absoultly no feelings for him ='[ when he touches me i feel werid and everythiing i want to end it but i dnt know how if i do alot of people will hate me so pelase help i dont nkow what to do please anyone help me the more advice the better =[

Q: in camp two years ago, i met this guy jake.
he liked my friend lindsay at the time,
&& i had a boyfriend seth,
so we didnt think much of eachother,
although we were excellent friends.
we didnt keep in touch after the summer =/ but
then last summer rolled by,
and there we were again.
except things had changed.
seth and i had broken up,
and lindsay was out of the camp.
me and jake got really close.
we always held hands,
kissed, etc.
and mann, i really liked that kid.
i couldnt think of anything but him,
finally, he asked me out.
and mi mom even said that he was the first guy,
that she ever saw brought a twinkle to my eye.
and ive had many boyfriends before him,
so it was good to hear that.
jake had a friend daniel who also liked me,
but i didnt like daniel.
jake sometimes flirted with mi friend elizabeth,
so to get back at him, i flirted with daniel.
i know that was so wrong to do,
because i wasnt only getting jake jealous,
but i led daniel on.
the 2nd to last day of camp,
jake broke up with me.
at first, he said it was because of daniel.
i told him daniel didnt mean ANYTHING to me,
but he said "well..we also live pretty far away"
i was heart broken, i teered up so much.
but then when my dad picked me up, i broke down.
i cried SO much, its hard to explain.
i never cried that hard over a guy before.
it hurt. but anyways,
its been 7 months since ive seen him,
and of course, i miss him BAD.
idk if i still have feelings for him or anything,
cus i havnt talked to him since then,
but i'm supposed to see him again this july.
im so scared to see if he hates me!
i dont know what to do or say or anythingg.
it's all ive been thinking about the past few months.
can anyone help me?
please!!?

Q: Theres this boy and i am totally crazy about him. We have gone out before and all and I ended up breaking up with him becuz I was an idiot and believed my friends. After a while i realized that i missed him ALOT and i told him how i felt in a letter. To sum it up it said that i missed him and wanteds to be friends. The next day he told my best friend that he still liked me. Now you would think this would make me extremley happy but... My best friend also likes him now!!! And sometimes Im feel that he may like her too. Pleezzeee Help!!!!! BTW im 15

Q: To start off im 14/M

I really started liking this girl and i told her. She was like okay i don't like you back but i'll still be friends.

So recently we started talking alot

i think a wee bit too much for our own good cause we stayed up till like 3 in the morning talking on the phone

and I really feel this connection with her and i just want her so bad that id almost do anything

but the poopy part is that she likes another guy

and hes like my best friend

so i give her pointers like on what to do so everytime she gets closer to her i feel like shes getting farther from me

but i always tell myself whatever makes her happy but i feel so sad sometimes that shes getting farther away

what can i do so that we can get something going?

Q: Okay so a few days ago my boyfriend and I were lsaying on a couch watching a movie and while we were facing eachother i whispered i love you. (this was the first time either of us has said it in person) and he just kinna smiled and kissed me. now i'm not 100% sure he heard me but it seems like he did.
should i see this as a bad thing? i expected him to say i love you too. please tell me what you think. thanks.

Q: uhh!!!dis is my first time bein here so yea

Q: i went out with my boyfriend for around 7 weeks, i dumped him because i thought he kept lying about alot of stuff but the main reason was he was really pressuring me into doing stuff with him and i just wasn't having it. now a week after i dumped him he decided he was going to get together with one of my friends *we're not really that close* but she's very immature nd said to him she doesn't wnt a relationship she jst wants some fun so he was up for that and one thing led to another *they're not together but they have done stuff with each other* i'm not jealous because i really dont wanna get bck together wif him he really makes me feel sick...... i'm so angry wif him and her because i feel lyk she's totally contridicted what i have said and him because i fink he's just a slut.....

i really don't no why i'm so angry nd am sorry its long but can someone please tell me why i'm gettin lyk annoyed by this

Q: Ok, well I'm kinda basically in love with my best friend. And he knows that. He said he liked me too, but chose someone else over me. So now he has a girlfriend. He's still my best friend but he confuses me a lot. I know that he loves his girlfriend and would never want to leave her. But like, since he's had his girlfriend, he's kissed me, held my hand, and the other night me, him and my other friend were just kinda hangin out in my room. We were all sitting on the bed & me & him were just like lying down. & he put his arm around me. He always tells me he loves me. But that's because he really does, but just as a friend, I think. This confuses me alot. I don't know if he really does like me, but less than his girlfriend. Or if he's trying to just be nice to me cuz he knows I like him. Can someone please help me understand this? Like what should i do? And what do you think is going on?

Q: my dad and mum seperated before i was born, and when i was 11 they finally divorced.My dad abused my mum and my mother put a restraining order on him so i wasnt allowed to meet him.I have to wait till im 18 to meet him wich really sucks!I know what he looks like cause i saw the wedding pix.I really want to meet him but i dont want to wait!Im thinking of leaving to meet him when im 16 and have my licence should i or not?

Q: i know another boy question! two weeks ago i invited aboy to come with me to a party. he came and we danced all night and he gave me a kiss on the chee before he left. for the past tw weeks we have been texting eachother non-stop. he ggoes to my old school so i dont see him a lot. but i cant stop thinking abbout him. i love him. but im scared to tell him this because im aafraid im going to freak him out. but i dont want to keep this texting back and forth thing going on if i dont really know how he feels. what do you think i should do? tell him or not?
xo

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