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ii dnt liek him
Ok so i got a boufriend we have been going out for like 2 weeks and ii have absoultly no feelings for him ='[ when he touches me i feel werid and everythiing i want to end it but i dnt know how if i do alot of people will hate me so pelase help i dont nkow what to do please anyone help me the more advice the better =[
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ok well think of it this way if you dont break up with him then in the end he is just going to get hurt more. He will start to like you more and put yourself in his position would you want to go out with someone who doesnt like you back? if i were you i would just as nicely as possible break up with him do it yourself in person its just kindof low and mean if you dont hope i helped!
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If you do not like him anymore then maybe it isnt a good idea to be going out with him. Maybe one day talk to him by himself and tell him that you just want to be friends and not a couple.
Megan
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If you do not have feelings for him then end it. Yes he is going to be hurt, and other people might be mad at you. But if you stay in the relationship for any longer he will get attached and end up heartbroken later. Just explain this to him, you haven't been dating that long so it won't be so bad.
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If you simply don't have any feelings for him & you're not comfortable around him, you're under no obligation to go out with him. Who cares what other people think? People should not hate you for making your own decisions in life - especially for something like this. As cliche & random as it sounds, I thought I'd throw this quote in here: "It's better to be hated for who you are than loved for what you aren't." Moving along - be honest with him now so he doesn't feel like he's been led on. Tell him exactly what you told us & I'm sure he'll understand. There's not much else you can do besides be honest at this point. Don't bother worrying about what everyone else thinks is right. You know whats best for you, not them. :)
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i really don't find the reason why you forced yourself in bein with somebody you are not commited to...... the best defense is the right offense. so just go ahead, talk to him about everything you feel. Do not feel the urge in coming clean because it will worsen the situation. Take note: A relationship with a person you don't like is scary and troublesome. Afterall, it's only 2 weeks that ur dating so i guess there's nothing intimate at stake.
Come on.. i know that u believe in urself. Talk to him or better yet.. let your friend accompany you in doing the Conversation Thing..
Glad to help!
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just be honnest with him now because the more you wait the more its going to hurt him in the long run.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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There is no point in staying in a relationship that doesn't feel right just because you want to please other people. Only you can know how you really feel about this guy and the best thing to do is to be honest with him. Say that you don't feel your relationship is going any where and you need time out from it. You haven't been in the relationship long enough to have built any special memories and it should be easier to walk away with your head held high. Don't fob him off with excuses or say that you may want to get back with him and tell him that although he may be a great guy, he just isn't the 'one' for you. Good luck.
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